You can change your mind at any time
You can change your whole life whenever you want
Be who you want to be
Do what you want to do
You can lose it all a million times and gain it all back whenever you decide
Don’t let anyone tell you otherwise
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You can change your mind at any time
You can change your whole life whenever you want
Be who you want to be
Do what you want to do
You can lose it all a million times and gain it all back whenever you decide
Don’t let anyone tell you otherwise
Just release it. You will exhaust yourself trying to experience your life through everyone else’s perspective.
Come back to your own.
best advice to all women — take men off the pedestal and focus on creating a beautiful, secure life where a (good) man is only an added blessing, not someone to chase, please, or manipulate into staying.
don’t forget that it’s your life. it’s not school’s life, it’s not work’s life, it’s not your family or your partner’s life—it’s perpetually your life, for better or worse. what do you want from this life? forget happy, what motivates you to live? why are you here?
get in girls, we’re going to increase our brain’s neuroplasticity and rewire it by meditating on love, praying from a place of love and practicing gratitude every single day
high standards because i didn’t want my children to have a dad who isn’t God fearing, constantly goes out to party, doesn’t show love, watches p*rn, has wondering eyes or cheats.
We live in the best time to stand out.
The overwhelming majority of people barely read, write poorly, struggle to understand simple instructions, and can’t be bothered to look for information that is widely available.
They stay uneducated, avoid effort, and fear anything that isn’t comfortable.
They victimize themselves, blame others for their own failures, and place the hope of their success on someone else.
They think they’re the center of the universe and get offended easily.
In an environment like this, it’s not hard to stop being mediocre.
If you’re willing to read four good books a year, replace bad music with silence, and show real interest and commitment at work, you’ll already be ahead of most people.
If you also watch films that aren’t on everyone’s radar, exercise regularly, and refuse to consume personal information about other people’s lives, you’ll be ahead of thousands.
It’s not about being perfect.
It’s about doing what most people refuse to do: learning, working, improving, and taking responsibility.
And in today’s world, that alone makes you rare.
If you stop looking for permission from your superiors, you’ll find it in your own intuition. If you stop comparing your pace to others’ highlights, you’ll find a rhythm that actually sustains you. If you stop trying to "fit in" with the crowd, you’ll realize you were always meant to stand apart. Stop performing in rooms you weren't meant to stay in.
Forgive yourself for all the wrong things you did just to be loved.
Forgiven because God already forgave me.
Why should I hold myself in a bondage of guilt and shame when God already did it for me?
God set me free on the cross.
And because of that freedom I speak joyful and wonderfully about my Savior.
My New Years resolution is to stop wondering if I’m good enough for other people and start wondering if they’re good enough for me.
THIS
Women have a lot to learn from men when it comes to being selfish and self serving. You notice how quickly men exit when something isn't serving them? Why don't we? Why are we chance givers, healers, settelers.. nah we need to take notes seriously.
It's essential for women to prioritize their own needs and recognize their worth. Never sacrifice your own well-being taking on the role of a nurturer or healer, at your own expense.
Put YOU first, all else will follow.
Audit the people in your life
Not everyone in your life deserves permanent access to you. And this isn’t about judging people, it’s about being honest with yourself. Pay attention to how your body feels around the people you spend time with
Ask yourself:
Do I feel calm or tense around them?
Do I feel at peace after being with them?
Do I feel confident around them?
Do I feel supported without having to explain myself?
Do I feel emotionally safe with them?
Do they respect my boundaries?
Do they really listen to me?
Do they respect me even when we disagree?
Do they celebrate my growth?
Do I feel like myself around them?
Do I hide parts of myself to keep the connection?
Do we share the same core values?
Do they want me to grow, or stay the same?
Do I feel energized or drained after spending time with them?
Do I feel grounded or overwhelmed after talking to them?
Do I trust them with my feelings?
Do I constantly make excuses for them?
Do they bring clarity or confusion into my life?
Do they approach me with curiosity, not judgment?
Do they take responsibility for their actions?
Do they respect my time and priorities?
Do I feel chosen and valued by them?
alignment comes from:
– the choices you make every day – choices that reflect your values – telling yourself the truth even when it’s uncomfortable – holding firm to what you will and won’t allow – trusting your first instinct – refusing to abandon your own needs – choosing peace over chaos – picking evolution instead of repeating what feels familiar – keeping promises you make to yourself – choosing long-term clarity over short-term comfort – protecting your mental and emotional energy – not performing for approval – walking away when something feels off, even if you can’t explain why – making decisions from your future self, not your fears – surrounding yourself with people who bring out your best – giving yourself permission to outgrow what no longer fits
If you want to heal, don’t focus on healing — focus on living fully because healing happens in the background when you're present, playful, nourished and real
focus on feeling
focus on loving yourself through the mess
focus on creating moments that feel like peace
focus on being, not fixing
Healing isn't fixing, its remembering who you are beneath the pain