[spacemenblues]

this is my apology. i am so sorry this took so long. it really should not have taken this long but i guess it's better late than never, and i hope thats okay. i wanted to take time to improve myself a little bit. i don't know if this is a good apology, but regardless i did try my best and i put a lot of time and care into it. i kept telling myself that i should just give up with it, but i thought it was wrong to do that plus i think about what i did every day and it bothers me a lot. i think everybody deserves an apology. im sorry if i missed anything. this was written from the bottom of my heart and i hope that shows.

nico's apology

here is my apology. i have a lot of mixed feelings atm so im sorry if some parts or all of it is unsatisfactory. I apologize if the sorries

by the way i still wont be posting anything on here because i still need a lot to improve with myself. but anyways, take care.

[wholeheartedsuggestions]

a tutorial how to forgive ourselves would be amazing

Okok I’ll try my best. Here’s my short little personal list that I use for myself sometimes.

Accept you’ve made a mistake or mistakes.

Take accountability for what happened.

Remember that you can’t go back and change your actions or the outcome.

Take some time to give yourself some grace.

Learn from your mistakes and move forward.

Practice self love. Be patient and give yourself compassion.

[desultory-suggestions]

There are bad things all of us have done that we didn’t have to do. No one forced our hand, we were in no danger or duress. Yet we did something we knew was wrong. Regret over this is healthy, but practice healing your shame. You did something bad, but now is your chance to spend every day doing good things just because. If you let your shame consume you, all you will accomplish is paralyzing yourself in guilt. This will not heal anyone. You deserve forgiveness and peace.

[lycanthology]

i think one of the most important things you learn about making connections with others is that a significant portion of the time people just do not know theyre doing what theyre doing

[lycanthology]

sometimes someone is acting selfish because they just didnt think you had any interest in what theyre hogging. sometimes you dont get invited to the movies because your friend could have sworn that you said no. sometimes you think someone is mad at you because theyre bad at hiding how little sleep they got. we are all like little worlds that briefly crash into one another from time to time and we just arent physically capable of seeing the whole picture at once in those moments. and learning that really changed everything!

[sproutlett]

it is actually very normal and important to make mistakes !!! failure means that you tried something new and are taking risks!! allow yourself to grow. ask questions. don’t let anyone shame you when you have fallen in some way. walk away from them, so you can find the ones that will hold your hand when you’re struggling. the right ones will co-create and help you through it. do not let fear win. choose love and grace and empathy, always.

[akindplace]

Sometimes, all people can think about themselves are their mistakes. It plays like a movie in their heads, a constant reminder of what they did. If you are going through that right now, please know that you are so much more than the mistakes you've made in the past, that you deserve credit for the good things you do even if you are struggling to see them, and I hope that soon you can let go of some of these mistakes and start seeing yourself in a more positive light. This is your reminder to forgive yourself. Even if only for a few things at first, but I am sure you can keep going in this journey and let go of the past more and more until you find peace of mind and comfort in knowing that you are only human, and you can't be perfect all the time.

[akaiiros]

this actually is rewiring my brain as we speak

[bough-keeper]

"i forgive myself for what i did" and "i should not have done that" are two statements that can and should coexist. you can forgive yourself while holding yourself accountable. you can understand that you fucked up while also understanding that you're human.

[flowerais-deactivated20211031]

things you will experience if you keep doing your best

actually looking forward to things and having enough energy to do everything you want to do 

the fresh feeling after cleaning everything and throwing away things that were piling up since forever, including mentally

realising that you haven’t thought about someone for three days straight when you’ve been sad about them for a long time

making a new friend who genuinely likes talking to you after feeling like you don’t belong anywhere or you’re better off alone

making more time for people that really matter to you and actually love you unconditionally instead of endlessly wondering why some people left you or didn’t reciprocate

not placing your entire sense of worth on someone else because you feel happy and whole by yourself 

an outward change in appearance, almost a kind of glow because you’re radiating warmth and strength from inside

good grades, making huge improvements and achieving whatever goals you have in mind

feeling calmer and not relying on external validation because you see your own worth, trust yourself fully and can accept imperfection, laugh at your own embarrassing moments, encourage yourself when you’re down and quickly forgive your own mistakes 

gaining enough respect for yourself to treat yourself gently and not tolerating anyone who treats you badly

realising that you feel lighter inside and nothing is as much as a chore as it used to be

feeling yourself become less unaffected by small things that used to ruin your day

realising that you can make any changes in your life if you stopped discouraging yourself so much

realising you don’t need many superficial distractions anymore because you actually feel okay

[thesadghostclub]

LISTEN HERE! Having a ‘good day’ in a sea of bad ones does not make you a faker. Your brain might be telling you you’ve been weak up until now, because you don’t feel SOOOOO bad today, but that just ain’t true! It’s ok to enjoy the good days if they happen, you don’t owe anyone an explanation. Some days are better than others, that’s just a fact.

Love from the sad ghost club

[lustloveandliars-deactivated202]

You deserve love now. Not once you lose weight. Not once you accomplish that thing. Not once you move. Not once you get on medication. Not once you start therapy. Not once you get that job. Not once you're more like them. Now. You don't have to earn the right to be loved. You deserve it right now, and always have.

[positivelypositive]

🌷

here to remind you...

...that it'll get better.

it may take some time but you'll get through this.

you've faced challenges in the past and whatever the outcome may have been, you were able to move past them. you can do it again.

keep going on. keep believing in yourself ✨

[tinybugnotes]

we’re all learning! 🌱

- working on yourself is a continuous process and it’s okay if you aren’t where you want to be just yet

[spacemenblues]

ok so ive seen a few of those callout posts about me, and i understand what people are mad about. i have an apology planned (that one i made like a few weeks ago wasnt the one i had planned) im understanding how ive hurt people and i want to use that to improve myself. also im going to take a very long break, the internet is a curse and ive been obsessed with it for way too long.

but for now, thank you to all of the people whove supported me and criticized me. i wont expect forgiveness from people, im just going to apologize. i need more positivity in my life and i need to spread more positivity.

if you want to contact me my discord username is vhenshun (yes thats the name) im open to talking with people, but i will be distant because its better for me and others

[spacemenblues]

soery for being sad Aagain have a old vhamp drawing as my apology

[spacemenblues]

i wish i was like her (nice)

[spacemenblues]

guys i have art come get it