Brownskinbeauty

Future trophy wife

[bitchenbae]

A BLACK GIRL RUNS THIS BLOG BITCH

[elitemuse]

INVEST INTO YOUR APPEARANCE

INVEST INTO YOUR APPEARANCE. I scroll through tumblr & IG looking at all of these sugar accounts and sometimes I cringe. Some girls take photos in mirrors and their backgrounds are filthy. Some girls just look really unkempt. I will never post an image of myself on the internet not looking my very fucking best. I’ve gained many clients simply from RT’s or they saw my photos or website, etc. I portray what I want. I’ve seriously invested into my appearance and lifestyle and it’s paying off big time. You want luxury, you have to think and be it. I’m saying this to say, you never know whose watching!

Never buy designer goods for yourself unless a man is buying it for you. Remember this, always save your money.

You attract what you put out. I’m not saying this to me be mean but you HAVE to pay attention to detail. You don’t have to spend tons of money to look great either, it’s all about the effort. Class goes a long way, TRUST ME.

Just some advice.

[sexpensed-deactivated20210529]

How to take deposits?

Paypal, zelle, cashapp, etc are all no nos with clients. At this point I am not interested in setting up an LLC. So what’s the alternative…. mail me cash??

[asiansiren]

You can do that, especially if you ask for a money order.

The main methods I accept:

Cryptocurrency (Bitcoin, Litecoin, Tron, Ripple) through an anonymous wallet - I.e, not Coinbase, which requires an ID —> this is one of the few mainstream ways that is not reversible

Various gift cards, including Amazon gift cards, which must be input and tested prior to use. Do not accept until you see the money into your account. I convert Amazon gift cards into cryptocurrency and then American currency, using Purse (https://purse.io/shop)

For regulars who have passed screening, I will accept Venmo with a specialized Venmo account (no bank information) in which I privately transfer the funds to yet another anonymous Venmo user (to my bank account).

Other vendors: GiftRocket, Paxum, WooCommerce USA ePay

More information here, by Miss Freudian Slit

[2018 Data] 23,074 people have saved $75,882 on Amazon with Purse, a 22% average discount! Spend Bitcoin or Bitcoin Cash. Save $$$ on Amazon

[decadentseduction-deactivated20]

SURVIVAL RESOURCE MASTERPOST

Buying Land:

-Bid4Assets

-Circle7Land

-LandandFarm

-CheapLands

-BillyLand

-RoofStock

-RealtyBid

-TaxCertificates4Sale

In addition, check to see if the land you wish to buy is in a USDA rural zone—if it does, you may qualify for $0 down. You can also go on your state’s HUD website. Tax lien/certificate buying has to be done on the specific county website you are looking to buy from.

Buying Islands:

-privateislandsonline.com

-vladi-private-islands.de

3D Homes:

-3D Wasp

-SQ4D

-Icon Build

-Apis Cor

-Curve Appeal

-Haus

Starter Guns:

-Glock 44 (personally own one)

-Taurus G3

Offshore Bank Accounts (for other purposes besides tax evasion, PAY ANY APPLICABLE TAXES):

-Republic of Georgia (personally own one)

-Hong Kong

-Nevis

-Mauritius

Generators:

-Generac (personally own one)

Literary Resources:

-For Stackers Only

-Pole Shift Survival Information

[decadentseduction-deactivated20]

ALTERNATIVE INVESTMENTS MASTERPOST

BOTTLED WINE

-Vinovest (online investing)

-Guide to Invest in Wine the Typical Way

ART

-Masterworks.io (buying shares in art pieces)

-NFTs

CARS

-Rally (buying shares in classic cars)

-Pros and Cons of Vintage Car Investing

-Turo (to rent out a car you own)

VENDING MACHINES

-How to Invest in Vending Machines

-Vending Machines for Sale

REITs

-Fundrise

-CrowdStreet

-YieldStreet

ANGEL INVESTING

-MicroVentures

-SeedInvest

BOX TRUCK/LOGISTICS

-Box Truck Investment Ideas

-Buy a Box Truck

-Amazon Fleet Investing—Grants Available

LAUNDROMATS

-Why You Should Invest in a Laundromat

-Laundromats for Sale

[reincarnatedonthefirst]

Which is why I don’t think I feel bad for selling it. I had a hard time dating and men taking me serious but in this field I feel like it’s much better I think in my vanilla life when I get back to it I will make it known id rather be compensated. Sure my business has slowed down I think everyone’s has. Yet Civve women still think we get the shorten end of the deal

https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTkUvtxeo/

Was this in response to my reblog about men not caring about their own behavior? Either way, I agree with you.

Thanks for the TikTok vid. Love me a feminist influencer.

I don’t feel bad about selling either (although I do have moments where internalized whorephobic creeps in). When I think of all the BS I put up with in civilian dating. You may well make men pay for it since they don’t respect women and have nothing else of value to offer besides their money.

Yes. It’s wild how some whorephobic civilian women will feel bad for us when most of them are in losing relationships: your boyfriend is with you for quick and free access to sex, he doesn’t actually value you as a human being; your husband is with you for social status and/or he wanted someone to baby/mother him or someone to emotionally abuse; your husband doesn’t really care about you, just watch the truth come out if you get sick with cancer; your husband is perfectly content with you doing 85% of the child-rearing, he doesn’t truly believe in an equal partnership; your husband can’t make you cum and he’s not interested either.

The list of abuse they endure for free goes on and on but some of them will feel sorry for us for selling sex.

[rich-aunt-millenial]

The Art of Discretion: Mastering the Fine Line Between Tact and Truth

Discretion is the art of being subtle, tactful, and sensitive to the privacy of others. It is an important quality in many aspects of life, including personal relationships, professional situations, and social interactions. Here are some tips for mastering the art of discretion:

1 .Listen More Than You Speak: One of the key aspects of discretion is knowing when to speak and when to stay silent. Listen carefully to what others are saying and gauge the level of sensitivity around the topic. Avoid sharing confidential or sensitive information with others unless it is absolutely necessary.

2. Be Respectful of Others’ Privacy: Respecting the privacy of others is essential to mastering discretion. Avoid gossiping or sharing personal information about others, even if it may seem harmless. Keep information confidential unless you have explicit permission to share it.

3. Use Discretion When Posting on Social Media: Social media can be a breeding ground for oversharing and lack of discretion. Be mindful of the information you share on social media and how others may perceive it. Consider the potential consequences of sharing information before you post.

4 .Know  When to Speak Up: Discretion is not always about staying silent. Sometimes, it is important to speak up in situations where someone’s safety or wellbeing is at risk. Use your judgment to determine when it is appropriate to speak up and when it is best to stay quiet.

5. Practice Empathy and Understanding: Practicing empathy and understanding is key to mastering the art of discretion. Try to see things from other people’s perspectives and understand how your actions and words may affect them. Be sensitive to their feelings and experiences.

In summary, mastering the art of discretion requires a combination of active listening, respect for others’ privacy, thoughtful social media use, knowing when to speak up, and practicing empathy and understanding. By focusing on these qualities, you can become a more discreet and thoughtful individual in all aspects of your life.

[ambrosiagfe]

What’s In My Outcall Bag.

Pepper Spray (for safety).

Small pocket knife (for safety).

Condoms (because men like to “forget”).

Fake Money Pen ( to check the money is real).

Lube (just always have lube).

Spare panties & tights (you’re going to need this).

Perfume & Body mist (smelling good is essential plus you’ll need a refresher once you’re done).

Body/Massage oil (I make my own mix with almond oil and strawberry scented essential oil men love it).

Hair brush & hair band.

Wipes.

Travel makeup bag (things get messy don’t they so you’ll need to refresh your makeup before you leave).

Flats (if I’ve worn heels that day).

Minty/Sweet Gum (to stay fresh baby).

Peanuts (for energy ho).

Bottle of water.

Wallet (always hidden in a small compartment in my bag).

Work & Personal Phone (personal phone stays hidden away and never in sight of client).

Small tip: in the first 5 minutes of meeting, exchange your pleasantries, compliment them and their home or hotel room and then say something along these lines… “Should we take care of business before pleasure?”. Say it sweetly rather than hurriedly so it sounds like you’re eager to get to the good stuff and aren’t being super transactional. Once the money has been handed to you, you can either excuse yourself to the bathroom to “freshen up”, or you can ask for a glass of water. Either way, count the money discreetly out of his sight before stashing it away. Also, don’t drink that water. Don’t take anything you haven’t seen being poured/opened in front of you.

When everything is done, you should aim to be up and out in less than 5 minutes. Typically after an orgasm it takes about 3 minutes for the euphoric feeling to dissipate and really you don’t want to be around when that happens. Some men start to feel guilty for paying for sex and for some it’s the opposite, they’ll want you to stay for longer. Excuse yourself to the bathroom and freshen up as quick as possible, you should have a routine that you do for your exists to make yourself quicker. Once all that is done, say something sweet about how amazing that was and how you had a fabulous time and you hope to see him again. Say it like you believe it even if you don’t. Give him a tight hug and a kiss and be on your way.

If you don’t drive, make sure you book your uber as soon as you get into the bathroom. Or if you have a trusted cab company, try and prebook for 10/15minutes after the time your booking ends.

Stay safe girls!

[sugar4life]

Non-glamorous Sugaring Stuff

A list of things that you may not think about when entering the bowl but really should consider.  He will smell. Dog shit breath. Body odor. Stinky balls. Something will smell.

He is married even if he is single. 99% of good SDs are married. So don’t go into the bowl thinking you can get a good, single man to give you lots of money. It likely won’t happen that way. Even if they don’t come right out and say it; they are married. No ring? Married. Doesn’t talk about wife? Married. Seems to travel a lot? Married to a unlucky lady. I find that the unmarried ones tend to be the biggest womanizers, douchebags and assholes. They want a SB out of lazy-ass convenience or lack of social aptitude. Married men want a SB because they don’t get it enough at home or their marriage just isn’t working any longer OR because they do travel a lot and figure why not get some side chick action. Different area codes and such.

He will be old. Very old. And only mildly attractive (if you are lucky). He will be from a different generation. His looks will be fading. He will have at least a few wrinkles (face, balls, legs, back, hands, wherever). There may be a 2-4 generation gap between the two of you. The hot, young, nice, good-hearted, generous types just aren’t trolling the sugar sites regularly and likely aren’t going to be actively searching for an allowance based relationship. You may score a hot, young, rich guy by freestyling but expect to work even harder to get actual money out of him and he will be a boyfriend NOT a SD.

Body hair, everywhere. Older men tend to not be up on the grooming trends of younger men. They will have hairy chests, hairy backs, hairy butts, hairy knuckles, hairy toes, hairy ears, hairy nose holes and so much pubic hair that you won’t be able to see his balls. And don’t even think about suggesting he trim it down or shave. He can’t. His wife will wonder why he suddenly cares about his hairy balls and back. Then he will have to end the arrangement out of fear of his wife finding out.

He has problems. And you have to listen to them. Part Most of being a sugar baby is to be his escape. If he needs to vent about work, the wifey, his kids, his latest doctor visit then you need to sit there and at least pretend to listen/care. That’s the deal. 

You get have to travel with him. I have been to some amazing places with some of my SDs. I get to see the world, stay in beautiful hotels, eat delicious local cuisine and I get paid to do all of it. The only thing that would make it better is if my SD disappeared from the equation and a cute guy appeared or my friends or my family or even a coworker I don’t really like but could still chill on a beach with. Or hell, even if I was there alone it would be better than being stuck with him 24 hours a day, for 4 or 5 days straight PLUS travel time. But I still go because, you know, money and free trips and shit.

You aren’t allowed to have problems. Outside of gently suggesting that you don’t have money for rent or whatever, you don’t have problems. You don’t have friend drama. You don’t have coworkers you hate. You don’t have anxiety. You can only have a “problem” every once in a while and that problem better damn well be able to be fixed with money. He can fix money-based problems without batting an eye but your emotional shit needs to be checked at the door. (Note: When you have been with an SD for a substantial amount of time you can slowly share more of your non-money problems but you have to gauge how much interest he truly has in them to keep him from thinking of you as another wife-type)

He may be very boring. The longer you are around him the less interesting he will seem. There is usually a reason he has to pay women for company. 

He may be the opposite of boring. He will have insane energy and keep you entertained but you should expect to need a day or two to recover from your energy-draining SD.

THE MONEY WILL NEVER BE ENOUGH. Starting out you think $3k/mo is enough. After a year, $5k/mo is barely enough. In a few years you will KNOW that even 100k/day isn’t really enough to put up with these guys.

It will be a constant mental struggle between spend and save. Even those of us who save like crazy still have thoughts of “spend spend spend”. You have money. You save it. You have more money than you need to save. But if you keep saving you can buy better things later. But right now that awesome Chanel bag is calling your name. But, no, later is better. Later is a house.

Once you really do become a SB, leaving the life forever will be difficult. Once you get into the groove, the job gets easier because you learn to deal with the negatives and quitting a lucrative, easy job is never easy. Plus, you can technically do this job forever. This can be your career. You can be a kept woman and live a fancy life forever as long as you give up a few other dreams. But right now you must work hard for it.

Your schedule doesn’t REALLY matter. Sure, you schedule around your own activities as much as possible but when push comes to shove you WILL cancel movie night with the girls, call off work, or skip a pool party if it means you can keep your SD around longer.

Tired? Sick? Tough shit. You still need to smile, be flirty and “enjoy” his company. I guarantee HE will show up for dates with a runny nose and a sore back because he only gets a few chances to get away from the wife and there is no way in hell he is missing play time because of the flu. Expect them to expect the same commitment from you.

It is a full time job. I repeat, it is a FULL TIME JOB. Until you have a good number of proven/established/long-term SDs who are surpassing your minimum allowance needs and you are saving like a madwoman, then you can’t really sit back and relax. Since they can leave you at any time you have to keep going on those terrible dates and keep researching new guys. It takes a long time to truly be secure enough in current arrangements to be able to stop doing this completely. Don’t expect to be “that lucky girl” who found a sugar husband after a week of trying. 

The odds are not in your favor. My guess is for every 100 contacts you make on dating sites, 20 of them will actually turn into sugar-potential dates and only 2 of those will become POT material guys and maybe 1 of those will become an SD.

SDs are not built to last. You went on tons of dates, did the legwork, and now are getting your desired allowance from a nice SD. IF he lasts past two months, good. IF he lasts past 4 months, great. IF he actually lasts close to or beyond a year then he really is a good SD and you can consider yourself to be truly lucky. Being with him will be embarrassing, like, all the time. People will stare. They will wonder if he is your lover/boss/father/grandfather. Walking to hotel rooms with him will be awkward as fuck. Every. Single. Time. Oh, and just wait until he wants to hold your hand or kiss you in public. Be prepared to be the center of unwanted attention everywhere you go. But if you can get past all of these things and still manage to find and lockdown a few good SDs, save your money and maintain your sanity then you will be on your way to financial freedom. It takes hard work but so do most good things in life.

[coochie-hair]

hoe tip(how to get louboutins)

- The more experienced your partner, the less you should focus on the shaft, it loses sensitivity over time

-The glans is like the clitoris, it has the most nerve endings in all of the penis.  This is the hot spot, the area you pay the most attention to, if you want him to cum.  

-  Hold your breath while you deep throat so you don’t gag or do gag guys like that.

- Get nasty, this isn’t the time to act like an innocent virgin (unless that’s his fantasy) get kinky, slurp, make noises, move your whole body, use your hands and your mouth and don’t forget to make eye contact.

- Read his body, if he isn’t moving, it isn’t working.  If his toes are curling and he can’t stay still… it’s working.  If he winces watch your teeth!

- Remember every penis is different, so the only way to be the best is to study, play with it and ask questions.  

-Use your gag reflex to create more spit

-The best position to deep throat in is 69  

- Give him a show: let him see all of your ASSets and play with yourself with one hand while using the other on him, or go with the no hands on him approach and use your hands on himself.

-  Contrary to popular belief, a great blow job should entail more non-sucking “up and down” motion on the penis than anything else. I want you to take your dominant hand, make an “o,” place it to your closed mouth with your thumb touching your bottom lip, and move your head forward and backward while rotating your hand. This is exactly what you should be doing for 40-50 percent of a good blow job.

Let’s talk about balls:

1. Make sure your fingers are wet when you are playing with the balls

2. Cupping the balls works just as well as fondling

3. Tug (VERY LIGHTLY) on the balls right when he is cumming

4. If you can take him all the way into your mouth, do so and use your tongue to tickle his balls while he is inside of you.  

5. About every 15-20 seconds, take your mouth off of his penis and move to the base of his balls. Then, lick along the line separating his left and right nuts, up his shaft and finally to the head of his penis

[sexworkerproblems]

For new readers: what types of jobs are "sex work"?

Generally speaking, if you’re getting paid to get someone else hot and bothered, you’re doing some kind of sex work. Sex workers of all kinds, even if they aren’t actually having sex with anyone, have many of the same lifestyle pros and cons, as well as face the same “whore” stigma. More specific job titles can include:

full service sex workers (full service providers, prostitutes,streetwalkers, rent boys, hookers, escorts, call girls,  and courtesans alike - many different labels and none are wrong)

stripper

porn performer

webcam model

professional dominant (offline and on)

professional submissive

phone sex operator

“happy ending” massage parlour workers

peep show performers

Sex workers are of every gender and no gender. Sex workers are young, old, and middle aged. Sex workers are rich, poor, or in the middle—hopefully comfortable. Sex workers come in every size and color, with any kind of body you can imagine. We run the gamut from glam to dowdy.

You can’t tell a whore by looking.

This is not meant to be a complete list and obviously there are some practises that fall into a grey area, like sugar baby/daddy(or mommy) relationships. As some commenters have pointed out, a lot of sex work is opportunistic, and thus many more people will trade sex for compensation, in practice, than will ever think of themselves as “sex workers”.

If there’s anything we’ve left out, send us an ask or an email!

[sexworkerproblems]

Updated! (Last Updated, April 12, 2013)

[wutsetien]

I hope the young women on hypergamyblr understand where different bloggers are coming from in terms of advice. Some of us are speaking from deep integration with higher-class people since birth; some of us are speaking as sex workers whose interactions with higher-class people are through their work; some of us are speaking from entering a postsecondary institution with many higher-class classmates; and there are many other possible perspectives. 

You have to filter out what the proper advice for your goals is. If you’re not escorting, not all the advice you see on an escort’s blog will work for you. Likewise, if you’re trying to do sex work, not all the advice you see on a non-SW’s blog will work for you. It’s important to know where a blogger is speaking from before deciding whether to take their advice. 

[sugarbabystyle]

The Official Sugar Baby Reading List (Strippers, Escorts, Cam Girls too) *40 books*

I remember reviewing two popular books that could be easily be applied to an aspiring sugar baby (or any sex worker for that matter). I did say that I was going to review the many others in my repertoire BUT ain’t nobody got time for dat. So I will just list the books. This include books on power, manipulating men, sex, etc. ((In no particular order))

**Disclaimer: This is MY personal list of books that I own whether in book, kindle or audio form. This list includes sexually related books. No, I’m not saying as a (SB/Stripper/Escort/etc.) that you need to have sex. In no way am I insinuating that in this list. Just listing books that worked for ME in my personal life.** 

1. Women Have All The Power… Too Bad They Don’t Know It: Secrets Every Man’s Daughter Should Know by Michael J. Lockwood

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2. Act Like a Lady, Think Like a Man by Steve Harvey

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3. The Power of the Pussy: How to Get What You Want From Men Love, Respect, Commitment and More…What Do You Want? by Kara King

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4. A Gold Digger’s Guide (How to get what you want without giving it up) by Baje Fletcher

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5. Sugar Daddy 101: What You Need to Know if You Want to be a Sugar Baby by Leidra Lawson

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6. The Art Of Gold Digging by Tariq King Flex Nasheed

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7. Seeking Arrangement: The Definitive Guide to Sugar Daddy and Mutually Beneficial Relationships by Brandon Wade

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8. 6 Simple Tricks To CRACK THE MAN CODE And Get Any Guy To Open His Heart by Michael Fiore

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9. How to Snare a Millionaire NOW: A sequel to the Ultimate Guide on Marrying for Both Love and Money by Lisa Johnson Mandell

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10. Get Anyone to Do Anything by David J. Lieberman Ph.D.

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11. The Geisha Secret: Ancient Dating Rituals Proven to Win a Modern Man’s Heart by Hanako

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12. The Vixen Manual: How to Find, Seduce & Keep the Man You Want by Karrine Steffans

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13. The Internet Escort’s Handbook Book 1: The Foundation by Amanda Brooks

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14. The Internet Escort’s Handbook Book 2: Advertising and Marketing by Amanda Brooks

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15. The Attraction Factor - 4 Simple Yet Powerful Principles That Will Melt Any Man’s Heart by Bob Grant

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16. Marry a Millionaire - The Best Places To Find Rich Men by Coach Juliet

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17. How to Talk to Anyone by Leil Lowndes

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18. How To Develop Self-Confidence and Influence Peoplle by Pulic Speaking by Dale Carnegie

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19. The Art of Seduction by Robert Greene

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20. Going Down: The Instinct Guide to Oral Sex by Ben R. Rogers ((Yes, it’s written from the perspective of a gay male but VERY useful nonetheless.))

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21. Blow Him Away: How to Give Him Mind-Blowing Oral Sex by Marcy Michaels

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22. The Power of Eye Contact by Michael Ellsberg

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23. The 48 Laws of Power by Robert Greene

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24. The Definitive Book of Body Language by Barbara Pease

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25. The Satanic Witch by Anton Szandor LaVey ((Don’t be fooled/scared by the title of the book. A very good read for women that would like to use their inherited manipulation skills))

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26. What Every BODY is Saying by Joe Navarro

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27. Influence: The Psychology of Persuasion by Robert B. Cialdini

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28. The Gold Digger’s Guide: How To Marry The Man And The Money by Ivana Rich

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29. The Fortune Hunters: Dazzling Women and the Men They Married by Charlotte Hays

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30. How to Marry Money by Kevin Doyle

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31. How to Marry Super Rich by Sheilah Graham

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32. The Guide to Becoming the Sensuous Black Woman (And Drive Your Man Wild In and Out of Bed!) by Miss T.

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33. How to Look Expensive: A Beauty Editor’s Secrets to Getting Gorgeous without Breaking the Bank by Andrea Pomerantz Lustig

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34. How to Marry the Rich by Ginie Polo Sayles

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35. Rich Dad, Poor Dad: What the Rich Teach Their Kids About Money—That the Poor and the Middle Class Do Not! by Robert T. Kiyosaki

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36. From Ramen to Riches: Building Wealth in Your 20s: Or Spending, Saving, Investing and Managing Your Money to Get Rich Slowly, but Surely by James Wood

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37. Wealthy Men for Money or Love 21.2 Century Guide for VIP Escorts and Single Women by Jessica Diamond

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38. The Princess Plan: Shrink your waist. Expand your beauty by Dr. Jennifer Hanes

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39. How To Get a Rich Man by Donna Spangler

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40. Smart Girls Marry Money: How Women Have Been Getting Duped into the Romantic Dream-and How They’re Paying For It by Daniela Drake

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& Many More.. Part 2 Coming Soon

[belairtrophywife]

A soft life requires HARD WORK!!!!

You should pamper and take care of yourselves. HOWEVER, You need more than a pretty face these days y'all to get ahead in life. You see women who are in business, law, and Healthcare. They had to bust their behinds to get where they are now. Endless nights staying up to studying, not worried about men 24/7, dreaming about what will be on the other side to motivate themselves. Some of y'all want to be babied. Yes, not every woman thinks the same and wants to be a rich housewife. How do you think women become rich housewives? Networking, Education, volunteering, Hobbies, etc.

Some of these girlies on tumblr are selling a fantasy and I'll let them have it but this is not a Wattpad fanfiction. WAKE UP and get up and do something!!!

[theblackcourtesan]

one thing's for sure

just in case i don't get around to my update, i do want to say this:

if you haven't already, you should get offline.

i'm not talking about my fsswers, or if you're a 0F girl or what you do involves customers or clients...

i'm talking about those that want to be sbs, or gfs to rich men or trophy wives...

you'll have a better chance going out and getting one - in PUBLIC. if i were just starting out, i wouldn't even bother setting up A profile - let alone the amount of profiles we would create back in the day lol. i would maybe have an instagram - and that's it. i would watch some videos (sheras are still good), read some books, maybe join a membership group or 2 (but you have to be careful with them because most of those women couldn't make it so now they're trying to sell you theory and pipe dreams), but once i've done my research, knew what i wanted to achieve in this lifestyle, i would then start "living" in the rich area of my city or begin taking lots of trips to rich cities or events that brought in a lot of high net worth men.

i wouldn't bother with fucking seeking. or anything else like it. the men that's willing to spend and spoil, pretty much left online for good once the covid bans were lifted.

[theofficiallorddgc]

[kimreesesdaughter]

If there’s anything I can finesse, it’s a resume, interview and pay rate. 

[black--beetle]

Please help? I need these skills?

[kimreesesdaughter]

Come my child…

LIE. LIE. LIE. (By lie, I mean embellish) I’m going to tell you why. I lied on my resume to get the job that made it so I didn’t have to embellish anymore. By embellish I mean make your positions seem more important than they are. Chances are you’re not getting paid enough for what you do anyhow. The system is definitely going to play you so you gotta make a move too. 

Use businesses that are no longer in business (Finesse #1) Everyone has those establishments in their cities that went out of business; Fridays, hospitals, dennys, etc. USE THEM. I’m a HR Manager, I’m not going to dig for a reference from a closed business. Not in this lifetime.

Use your friends who are employed in corporate America as references. (Finesse #2) List them as former supervisors or managers. Pick your friends with professional phone voices who can gas you up in a corporate manner.

Research the pay rate for the company, city and position. (Finesse #3) They may be offering you 25K to be a store manager when in reality store managers in your exact city (or their employment averages) are making 35K. Do not be afraid to challenge a salary. It shows that you also did your homework on the position and the company. 

Chaotic good. 

[kimreesesdaughter]

Hershey’s Finesse Catalog

Cashier? Customer Service Manager

Human Resources Assistant? HR Generalist II 

Food Service Worker? Hospitality and Beverage Manager/Operator

Janitor? Sanitation Inspector

Dishwasher? Health and Sanitation operator

Shopback? Retail Inventory Manager

Stockroom? Inventory and production operator

[theeangelox]

Why have I been doing this for years! 😅😇😝

[candiikismet]

You GOT TO! Shit. Ain’t no way in the world the person reviewing your shit didn’t do the same damn thing!

[simariethehawk]

how would you spice up camp counselor?

[kimreesesdaughter]

Camp Coordinator

Youth Advisor

Counselor-Youth Activities and Programs

Program Coordinator 

(I’m not sure what kind of camp you work/ed (at), I’m just assuming it’s youth but you get the idea)

[kimreesesdaughter]

 @ White people replying instead of reblogging, you know better because no one asked y’all asses. Nobody is going to put they graduated from medical school to go from cashiering to OBGYNing. Bye. This goes to you with your raggedy ass blog @randomfandomgrad Nobody asked you. Shut the fuck up. 

[uffkhudaya]

I got my first marketing job by tactfully lying out of my ass about how much I knew about photoshop, learned myself photoshop on the job, and got three clients after because my boss recommended me out herself.

Nobody wants to believe folks of color especially about their credentials and esp when it comes to black folks. All of these ppl talking about how a lie can be spotted on a CV. Fuck off. Y'all can’t spot the truth anyway either

Follow the advice above. Do whatever you need to do. Get that job. Prosper.

[kimreesesdaughter]

THANK YOUUU! I finessed an entire career in Human Resources and Accounting and people saying this shit don’t work.

I am a 23 year old Black woman about to make damn near $80K in ATLANTA. I’m basically a millionaire 😂😂😂 And I want the same for y'all. This World is going to fuck you and fuck you good, you better get your nut in. At least cum twice.