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@spooksfinder
INTRO
hello! welcome to my blog!! i’m ryder, though i also go by spooks or retro. i’m 21, and my pronouns are he/they :]
i follow & interact from my main blog @berrycult. mainly rb heavy for both blogs, though i sometimes post f/o imagines on here.
👻 my f/o list & byf/dni is on my carrd
👻 pronouns page
f/o's who aren't used to being gentle but are trying their best to learn.
maybe they're not used to intimacy or gentle touch, or maybe they physically aren't built for it. either way they're hesitant as you take their hand, rubbing little circles in their palm.
do they pull away instinctively? do they squeeze their eyes shut in discomfort and overwhelm? do they freeze? it takes a while for them to slowly relax their shoulders, shuddering out a deep breath and offering you a weak smile.
it doesn't come naturally to them, but they take a deep breath and make an effort to try, the smile on your face reason enough to keep going.
dividers by suupersonic and @whor3ing!!
Imperfect selfship affirmations
PS: Everyone is allowed to selfship in whatever way they want!! For selfshippers that feel like many of the posts you see are unrealistic and don’t reflect you and your F/O’s relationship, here are some honest and nuanced messages.
“Your F/O would never get angry with you.” -> When your F/O gets mad, they have a special tone reserved only for you. It holds you gently even when it’s firm, and maintains control without sacrificing honesty. The depth of their affection for you is evident in so many ways, including the way they approach conflict with you. Even when the feelings might be negative, you can always see the love attached to them.
“Your F/O would never think you’re weird.” -> Your F/O LOVES how weird you are!! Your uniqueness is what draws them to you, and sets you apart from the sea of people they could have chosen. Whether or not your quirks get on their nerves sometimes is insignificant; they’re just so happy to have them all memorized.
“Your F/O would never overstep your boundaries!” -> Your F/O watches you and listens to you closely. Even if they’re not perfect, they notice small changes within you and care about you—even if it means adapting to things they’re not used to doing. They intend to keep learning more about you for the rest of their life, and there’s no sign of them ever getting bored. They always repair things with you, and this will never ever change.
“Your F/O would never feel put out by you.” -> You are worth the effort. Every single time. Even when the tasks themselves feel burdensome, you are always worth the effort it takes to help you and take care of you. It is paid back tenfold every time they get to see you joyful and healthy. [Disabled self shippers I am looking at you!]
Happy selfshippjng guys and remember your F/O loves you!
Your f/o does not hate you. Your f/o does not find you annoying, they do not view you as a bother. The last thing they want is for you to think they'd ever see you as anything but a joy to be around. You're loved much more than that.
F/o who feels safe around you, even if they're usually on-guard, analysing their surroundings in constant search of threats. The moment they see you, they just... relax.
It's immediate, almost imperceptible, but you know them well: posture shifts, eyes soften, the tension in their jaw slackens, and the hard edge in their voice gently begins to fade as they greet you.
When you're together, laughter comes easier. It emerges from somewhere deep inside their chest, rusty from lack of use but achingly warm. Their smile is small at first, but it grows as time goes on, becoming brighter, lighter, and the smallest hint of care-free.
They yawn more, the rush of adrenaline that usually carries them draining away as the full weight of exhaustion hits them—on some level, their body knows your presence means they can truly start to rest and recuperate.
They share secrets and parts of themselves they usually wouldn't dream of sharing, and they do it without a second thought; some of what they share reveals deep scars, long buried to survive a world that has been harsh and cruel to them. Other times, it's mundane moments. Ideas they've been thinking about, mild inconveniences they've faced, foods they want to try, places they want to go—all the small, daily dreams that make up a life, ones they've never had anyone to share them with. Ones they've never felt safe enough to dwell on, before they met you.
When you're here with them, they know they can rest. They close their eyes, breathing deep—and for once, nightmares neither dreamed nor waking can find them.
having multiple self inserts for the same fandom / universe
humbly asking for a version with how to catch a f/o and it says s/i or oc on the cheese... no pressure of course !!
how to catch an f/o
your f/o still loves you even if you don't forgive yourself. your f/o still loves you if you don't take care of yourself. your f/o still loves you if you hide your self destructive tendencies from them, or if you isolate.
proship/darkship/neutral dni
imagine having an f/o who leaves a noticeable mark on you. silly things like braiding parts of your hair, doodling on your skin, jewelry they made for you. it could also be things like mannerisms you pick up from them; funny sayings, telling their jokes to other people, adopting their stims, using similar vocabulary, accidentally calling others by your f/o's name.
your mental health is affected too.
maybe you used to have anger issues and cussed alot, but now people notice that your language has died down a little. maybe you used to starve yourself or restrict yourself from eating, and now people notice that since you've gotten with f/o, youre a little softer around the edges. maybe you just seem more content in your every day life. whether you like it or not, f/o will make sure that you will make progress towards healing, and people are going to notice.
F/Os who give you unique nicknames/petnames >>>>>
Pirate/Thief/Explorer F/Os who call you their treasure <3
Villain F/Os who call you their partner in crime or their little dove <3
Demonic F/Os who call you angel <3
Baker F/Os who call you cupcake or muffin or sugar or marshmallow <3
Gardener/Florist F/Os who call you buttercup or rosebud <3
Entomology F/Os who call you their lovebug or honeybee <3
Halloween-themed F/Os who call you pumpkin <3
F/Os who call you sunshine because of your cheerful personality <3
F/Os who call you honey pie because of how sweet you are <3
F/Os who call you baby blue because of your blue eyes <3
F/OS WHO CALL YOU NICKNAMES/PETNAMES IN ANOTHER LANGUAGE <<<333
F/O growing older by your side. They're happy and content with life, having your company as the years went by only did good for them!
The scars faded away bit by bit. The constant furrow on their brow has finally relaxed. Smile lines, a reminder of the joy you brought them. Perhaps they even put some happy weight on, but they feel comfortable in their skin around you, because F/O knows that it didn't make you love them any less. The same goes for you! F/O still thinks you're just as stunning and the day they met you, and can't stop admiring how mature you became with time
Maybe you two chose to build a family and now your home is full of memories. Pictures of your children from when they were babies and all the way to college, perhaps even of their own families, a whole gallery of their achievements that make you and F/O so proud
Or maybe you chose to stay as just the two of you. F/O and you enjoyed their freedom from responsibility as much as possible, doing everything you've always dreamed of. You guys have lots of stories to tell and to laugh about, and everyone admires the two of you for keeping your shine despite being older now
No matter what you choose to do, how much time goes by or what happens, you and F/O's love is still as strong as ever!
the first time your f/o(s) heard your "weird" laugh, butterflies fluttered inside their stomach(s). such music being considered strange is absurd in itself. and they are just as enamored the second, third, fourth, and all the other times that come after. oh, what they would give to hear you laugh just one more time.
Shout out to self shippers who feel like their f/o deserves more love in the fandom of their source 😔💖
Touch starved f/o clinging to you as often as possible
first activity of the year was drawing new years kisses with some of my f/os… 2026 is already off to a good start >:D
Thinking about casual touches with your f/o. Their hand on your thigh when you’re sat near each other. Them brushing your hair out of your face, but not bringing attention to it as they listen to you speak. Fixing the tag on your shirt when you walk in front of them. Offering you a hand when stepping down from some steps that don’t have a railing. Reaching for your hand to hold when you’re just walking side by side. Their arm going around you whenever.
Imagine kissing your f/o outside in the falling snow 🤍
