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[starkastichotmess]

“I don’t know what to tell you. ‘Differences in opinion’ doesn’t even cover it. I was nothing to most of the Avengers or SHIELD, even after everything I did for them. Just a ‘consultant’, a source of technology, and the one always causing trouble for the rest. Never truly part of the team. That was made pretty damn clear in the end.”  ― Tony Stark

indie. selective. private. tony stark • iron man. mcu + earth-616 elements + hc’s. canon-divergent: ignores infinity war and endgame. adored by lexi.

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[starkastichotmess-moved]

“I don’t know what to tell you. ‘Differences in opinion’ doesn’t even cover it. I was nothing to most of the Avengers or SHIELD, even after everything I did for them. Just a ‘consultant’, a source of technology, and the one always causing trouble for the rest. Never truly part of the team. That was made pretty damn clear in the end.”

Tony Stark • Iron Man

Private || Selective || Threads With Mutuals Only

Some Ask Memes Open To Non-Mutuals

OC + Duplicates + Crossover + AUs Friendly

Multiverse + Multiship + Multithread

Platonic Priority || Ships With Chemistry

Doctor Who Expanded Universe Friendly *

Crossover Fandoms: Doctor Who EU, Dragon Age, Mass Effect, Detroit: Become Human, Marvel, Star Trek, Star Wars, Good Omens, American Gods, Supernatural, Mythology, most sci-fi and fantasy, & many more

Canon-Divergent MCU + Earth-616 Elements + Headcanons

Ignores Infinity War & Endgame

3rd Person Present Tense Prose

written by @lefaemun || complete muse directory

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[lukas-musings]

     Breath 𝙘𝙖𝙪𝙜𝙝𝙩 in a burning throat

  Everything’s different                                     But it’s the same     

                                                  Am I 𝘯𝘰𝘸                                                          Or 𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐧 I –

                                                         I don’t know                                                          I don’t know

[lukas-musings]

       Trauma: a 𝘴𝘪𝘭𝘦𝘯𝘵 𝘴𝘤𝘳𝘦𝘢𝘮

                ( Oh how I hope one day someone will ｈｅａｒ me )

[lilac-rph]

                      𝘾𝙝𝙞𝙣 𝙪𝙥 —            Quit actin’ like you’re ʜᴀʟғ ᴅᴇᴀᴅ.

[lukas-musings]

           I know it’s the 𝘱𝘢𝘴𝘵           I 𝙠𝙣𝙤𝙬 it’s the 𝙥𝙖𝙨𝙩

     Don’t remind me I know, I– 

                                        𝘐 𝘬𝘯𝘰𝘸

[geekdawson]

Kindness is often mistaken for softness and let me tell you, friends….that is a mistake you don’t want to make. 

Kind people are not born that way, they do not stumble into it, kind people are forged in fire and darkness and imploding stars…they have steel cores. Throw a punch and you’re going to break your hand. 

[fairiencarnate-deactivated20260]

Kind people are kind because they know firsthand that life isn’t.

[yourjaalpal-blog]

To all RPers:

Take as damn long as you want replying to shit. You don’t owe us shit. Your health comes first. You’re choosing to share a vulnerable part of yourself with us and sometimes that’s really hard! Don’t you fucking worry.

We love you!

[incorrecttonyxeveryonequotes]

Rhodey: Why are you doing dumb shit?

Tony: In my defense, I was left unsupervised.

[marvelherosource]

Your impressions are very funny.

[rp-ask-memes-deactivated2026012]

psa | there will be times ...

— there will be times where you simply CANNOT log on; there will be times where you just don’t have the muse; there will be times where you’ve LOST your muse; there will be times where real life takes you away from here, but DO NOT FEEL GUILTY. I will NEVER hold these times against you; we all live under different circumstances, and these things happen. They shouldn’t be treated as if it is ABNORMAL to have such things happen, either. No more shunning writers for taking breaks; no more unkindness for people who’ve lost their muse. I will never hold it against you if you can’t be online, for any reason at all. take all the time you need.

[thedeafavenger-deactivated20230]

A note on writing characters with PTSD

so I see a fair number of people without PTSD writing characters with PTSD, and one of my major… I don’t want to say problems, because it’s not really a problem, so much as a something I see lacking is that people don’t always get that PTSD flashbacks don’t have to be someone reliving an exact memory.

In fact, PTSD flashbacks don’t have to involve visualizations/linear, immersive reliving of the event at all, but people often go for the stereotypical seeing and feeling the event like you’re back there again and it is what your reality is.

When I started therapy for my PTSD, I went in thinking I didn’t have “real” PTSD because I have no visual flashbacks. My therapist immediately pulled out a pile of material to read, and the gist of the material boiled down to that PTSD flashbacks can take other forms. They can include but are not limited to:

Implicit flashbacks, or reliving just the emotions you felt at time of trauma, which might just seem like unusually strong emotions for the situation you’re in or unconnected to the situation emotions. Or, you may try to explain it as a reaction to something in your current environment and not a response to a trauma related trigger. These are super confusing and stressful for both the survivor and those around them.

Body memories, where you feel sensations related to the event without visualizations or other more stereotypical flashback symptoms. For example, phantom hands touching you.

Auditory flashbacks, which can distort what a trigger sound like a door slamming or a certain phrase actually means in the present. For example, if someone says a trigger phrase, you might hear what is said in your memories of the trauma and not what they actually say

I’d really love to see some more diverse representations of flashbacks out there for people writing characters with PTSD is the point of the post. Personal, I wish I would’ve been told about this years ago, because I felt like a “bad” or invalid survivor for being what I perceived as atypical.

Maybe people do know about this, but I certainly don’t see much about it.

[slimy]

ptsd stuff no one talks about

nightmares about trusted people hurting you

nightmares that are completely different from what actually happened

everything is too loud !!!

gotta cut your hair gotta cut your hair chop chop chop

tfw you’re halfway through telling a story and remember it involves Them

never enough showers

waking up and being somewhere else for a few seconds

being bossy for the thrill of being in charge

randomly teleporting to bad places for a few seconds while just going about your day

feel free to add more

[the-book-diaries]

Goddammit everybody in the world wants an explanation for your acts and for your very being.

Jack Kerouac, On The Road (via the-book-diaries)

[ateamoffour]

Is anybody ok with my muse mentioning your muse in a thread they have with somebody else?

[suedestars-blog]

favcurite:

       YESSSSSSSSSSSS. 

       this is a pretty big issue for me actually. 

        and not just because it’s really amazing to see what other muses         say, think and feel about your muse when they’re not around but         because I WANT SOME CONTINUITY. i am trying to create a          continuity for my character where everything that isn’t an AU          has feelings and actions making sense depending on a timeline         and people they know and love. actions have consequences.          relationships and events change people. 

        roleplay without that is… well, repetitive… & not very fulfilling to me. 

[innocencexdesire]

Especially if our OC muses have a familial and/or platonic connection (most def if good or best friends bc I’m all about that bond transcending verses/AUs).

[whybucky-deactivated20151013]