[stillunbelivable]

mighty ducks au with hollanov where shane is the repressed lawyer who couldn’t do the pressure on the ice the way he can handle the court room and surprised dad ilya who took in his niece, irina, and loves her and is working so hard but his daughter is in a shitty hockey local pee wee team and now this hot shot lawyer is trying to coach this team and he’s so frustrating but endearing but also does he even know how to be loved in community???

[pearsquad]

[magicalgirlpropaganda]

The whole self love thing is good and all but some people can’t fathom being loved. They can’t imagine there being anything good about them. So they can’t simply just stop doing unhealthy things, there’s a process.

[sandersstudies]

Before self love you have to invoke self tolerance and self neutrality.

[sandersstudies]

If you can’t say “I love my body!” say “my body gets me from place to place.”

If you can’t say “I’m beautiful,” begin by shutting down the “I’m ugly” thoughts and saying “I’m a person.”

If you can’t say “I’m valuable” begun by shutting down the “I’m worthless” thoughts and say “all people deserve basic respect, and I’m a person.”

If you can’t say “I’m important,” or “I’m kind” say “I am the one who waters my plant every week” or “I am the one who tips the kind barista down the street” or “I am the one who makes sure my dog does not eat plastic” or “I am the one who leaves long comments on people’s fan fictions.”

[closetedguyy]

I’ve genuinely never seen a way to bridge the gap, especially body-wise. There’s loads about self-confidence and loving your body EVERYWHERE, but no one really explains how to get there. It’s great to have the former, but I’m glad this info is out there.

[imfemalewarrior]

Here is some great advice from some bloggers on how to set an incremental goal to get to self neutrality. 

-FemaleWarrior, She/They 

[happiersuggestion]

There was one day I looked in the mirror and said to myself, “this is my body. This is how I look.” I realized that I couldn’t change it right there and then; even if I wasn’t super happy about it, it was just how I looked in that moment. It even helped to think that my friends, who I have known for years, have seen the way I look and don’t think negatively about me because of it. We can be so much meaner to ourselves than we would be to others. You don’t have to jump straight from negativity to positivity; it helped me a lot to start by thinking this way even though for me it started as just a neutral thought.

[snototters-deactivated20210129]

[logarto]

this tweet is making my brain haemorrhage i physically cannot stop thinking about it

[salenforu]

When you follow aesthetic/fandom blogs but also social issue blogs

[honeymoonlover-moved-deactivate]

me gettin ready to watch the new episode euphoria thinkin everything will be fine and nothing bad is gonna happen:

[screenwriter]

me adding 8 cloves of garlic instead of the 2 required for the recipe

[penny-anna]

The Cats movie and the ‘live action’ Lion King exist at opposite ends of a spectrum but idk what said spectrum is

[penny-anna]

[thenerdyindividual]

It’s the “Souless CGI” scale. It slides from boring to horrifying.

[nerdismyhobby]

It slides from “maybe this wasn’t necessary?” to “we are past the point of God’s forgiveness”

[swordbride]

[boredpanda]

Japanese Artist Depicts The Typical Life Of His Pet Hamster, And The Result Is Adorable

[arsenalguts]

me to the little ceasers man: beware the ides of march

little ceaser: pizza pizza

[smushee]

There’s this girl at my school and she’s really nice and I remember sometime last year at one point she would carry a clicker around and click it everytime she had a happy thought/something good happened/she laughed etc. It was always kind of cute how you’d just hear the little click every once in a while throughout class it always made me smile knowing that it was bc something made her feel happy idk

[blackwoolncrown]

she was training herself to be happy oh my god

[aureliaborealis]

does it work???? Imagine feeling yourself slipping into depression and you just click a few times and your brain says “wait, this is the sound of happiness I have to release serotonin”

[thebigblackwolfe]

She fucking Pavlov’d herself, the absolute madwoman

[homofied]

[1995lahaine]

shut up and accept paddington as your judge jury and executioner

[webscene-remade]

my anxiety: if I do not Produce and Achieve I will Die

my depression:

[laughingsquid]

Tiny Hamster Rides Her Own Personal Subway Train

[frogmp3]

men are fucked up but i like it when they have nose rings