mads

Nonbinary goth queer. They/them. Nearly every post is queued! 23. Disabled ally with chronic pain.

[stitchedqueer]

im taken & get so flustered when someone hits on me because it happens so infrequently when people see I look gay/see my wedding ring 😭

[stitchedqueer]

i never liked lipstick on me but my coworker gave me some sample makeup and I think this color looked nice

[fallingtowers]

smoked the weed that gives you gothic madness and now i'm on the fucking moors again wearing nothing but a flimsy shift 😑

[ravenlynclemens]

the process of remembering an embarrassing thing you did once

[stitchedqueer]

Be nonbinary and not be told you look like a child challenge: impossible (you have a round face and are 5’1)

[electricpurrs]

i think this is the funniest possible image that could be used to illustrate this subject

[girlnextvore]

[petite-guignol]

OK FUN FACT i also thought this picture was hilarious when i encountered it a few months ago, so i was curious how it ended up on wikipedia

it turns out the uploader is in fact the woman in the photo (she's uploaded a few other pictures of herself to other articles) and she ran an extremely web 1.0 site on the topic of bondage

this was apparently a long-standing fantasy of hers and she in fact did an entire video plus accompanying photoshoot about it, which was run in a bondage magazine in the 90s and did in fact take place on an abandoned train track. they committed to the bit hard enough that there's even a shot of the sinister villain looming over her with a big document labeled DEED and a pen

the best part is that according to this page, there were two "villains" involved (the woman's two partners, apparently), and the other one was dressed as a gorilla. sadly there are no images of the gorilla kidnapper because that sounds like. even funnier.

anyway i thought this whole thing was kinda cute, lol

[thespectrehauntingfodlan]

A cartoon from 1914 that could have been written today

[lttleghost]

I'm begging people to stop saying "non transitioning" when they mean "non medically transitioning" like I'm sorry do you think social transition isn't transition? if someone hasn't yet or doesnt want to pursue hormones or surgery are they the same as someone who is still fully in the closet?

[lttleghost]

every time I see this it's like... really hard to shake the implication in the language that if you don't medically transition then you are less trans (like why else would social transition not be counted as transition?) and while it probably isnt always that deep I just have to say that the worry isnt like about #validity or whatever you gotta understand that by implying someone is less trans you are also implying they are less of their gender

[deep-state-partisan]

[wiisagi-maiingan]

"There is nothing wrong with adults living with their parents for any reason and it's actually the norm in huge parts of the world."

and

"People should be able to afford to live independently if that's what they want."

are statements that NEED to coexist.

[communist-hatsunemiku]

"drug tests are good and keep people from coming to work impaired" is right up there with "cops catch bad guys"

[bite-my-grimy-fleshy-ass]

literally knew people who's bosses would leverage threats of drug tests to get them to do very dangerous work without proper safety gear, knowing that they'd fail any drug tests because they give them shift schedules that would be unsustainable without stimulants

[moonlitmartyr]

I hate ruminating on what could have been. Out here thinking "if only I locked in when I was 13" are we serious

[oldbutchdanielmolloy]

omg you people can do anything

[mmorvvn]

girls only want to hear one thing

[zoetheduckling]

A Hiver and his robot best friend that only speaks in grunts and growls... I got into Kenshi last year and here are some things I drew for it. Beep and Agnu my beloveds

[gean-grey-blog]

One time I was leaving a friend's place and an older lady with basically no English came up to me and communicated that she was very cold and needed a ride. She pointed to tell me where to go.

I got there and her daughter or granddaughter came out and was like omg her phone died we were worried

And then the older lady said something and the younger lady translated.

"She knew she could trust you because you have pink hair"

I thought it was funny at the time. But when I think back on it I think she was basically saying "you had a visible sign of not vibing with the system I was afraid of"

Be weird. Be colorful. Help random people.

[foodandfriends]

just got called out of work and I got so excited I put clothes on my dog