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general lgbt history ; stone & butch identity, bisexuality, trans identity ⚔️inclusive of b/f men & bisexuals, transfems, futches, etc. ⚔️ 18+ only. terfs/radfems/febfems/swerfs/transmeds & “men dni” blogs do not interact

[stonebutchbi]

morogh / 24, he or she pronouns

• stone butch bisexual & two spirit (tme)

• jewish ger ⚔️ 5/16/21

• multiracial ; white, native, & rromani

this is just a sideblog for fun & self indulgence and will mostly be reblogs about being butch/femme/etc and positivity! although please note you may see posts about serious topics which will be tagged. reclaimed lgbt targeted slurs, or posts where the user/writer uses derogatory terms and/or slurs as an identity (e.g. norm for the era) will probably not be tagged, depending on the context. 18+ only

[demonprincex]

This isn’t really about dildo recommendations but I just wanted to share a little bit about the history of body safe dildos. They were created by a Black disabled man who wanted to continue to feel sexually fufill Ed. He defied obscenity laws and trade laws to develop body safe silicone dildos. He even worked with the founder of the first feminist sex shop in NYC to develop non-representational dildos to satisfy the market for penetration assistive toys that were not explicitly phallic.

I think in the spirit of sexual autonomy, embracing dildos as assistive technology, all towards the goal of affirmation, pleasure, safety, and autonomy of our own sexual destinies,,,,,,,,Godspeed to us all, exploring this strange and wonderful tool. May we use it in ways that make us feel the sexual ecstasy we seek ❤️

His name was Gosnell Duncan and he started his work in Chicago!

How Gosnell Duncan Changed the Feminist Sex-Toy Game Forever

It’s hard to imagine that sex toys were once controversial within the feminist movement.

[petermonkeebff-deactivated20230]

ive tried to verbalize this time and time again and i never rlly get there but as a femme lesbian i have a rlly hard time connecting with femenine straight women i dont know what the fuck they r talking about ever and they have always known (since i was a small child) that i was weird and other. INSTEAD i feel as if i can read the mind of fem gay men literally dyke2fag mental communication it is real and exist and im Tuned In i want to be an old queen when i grow up bc they r the only ones that get it

[petermonkeebff-deactivated20230]

elizabeth marston for persitance: all ways butch and femme

[noenee-art]

trans love trans connection ✨

[gayboybleedgood]

sex, spirit, and serenity bi flag! 💗💜💙

ID: an edited version of the bi flag using shades of pink (sex/sexuality), purple (spirit), and indigo (serenity) colourpicked directly from the Gilbert Baker 8 stripe rainbow flag. END ID

[sesamie-moving]

can we have fat femmes. are we there yet. are we there yet. tumblr can we get there yet. can you all absorb it into your brains yet. can we have fat femmes in the collective aesthetic echo chamber that is tumblr yet. we got fat butches in there very almost. they're almost locked in. can we have fat femmes are we there yet can anyone hear me

[sesamie-moving]

omg people are reblogging this i need everybody to know this is not me going "you all give fat butches attention but not fat femmes 😡😡😡" this is me going "being skinny is still in most people's minds a signifier of femininity. being butch has added stereotypes of being tall and muscly and athletic which are equally harmful. the fact of the matter is i have seen the very beginning inklings of reignited body neutrality for butches of all kinds, and have not seen that for femmes yet because body weight and shape's context in femininity is very very different from its context in masculinity. many people online in this very very extremely online and localized specific tumblr circle i occupy are willing in their minds to reconcile a picture of butches of any type, and of many different presentations and interpretations of masculinity, but there is an unignorable rigidity in conceptions of femininity that many people seem unwilling if not flat refusing to reconsider." please please don't misconstrue this is one of those Extremely Online takes i just want to see tumblr posts about fat people being hot without them also needing to be masculine to be found attractive

[subtitlebuoy]

Wind speed 2.0 m/s. Sea temp: 29.6 °C, air temp: 28.2 °C. #transgender

[medusadyke]

dykes read Fucking Trans Women challenge

[medusadyke]

i am so fucking serious

[rpfofficial]

hey dont cry. thousands and thousands of bisexual trans people in the world ok?

[genderoutlaws]

Vintage advertisement for Alex In Wonderland, a gay bar in New York City | c. 1984

[demonprincex]

A Self Defense Study Guide for Trans Women and Gender Non-Conforming / Nonbinary AMAB Folks

Published in coloration with Transfighters/Traction Project, A Self-Defense Study Guide for Trans Women and Gender Non-Conforming / Nonbinar

I just linked to this in a post, but I want to highlight it more explicitly. This guide is really illuminating, and if you are not a trans femme you should still read it too, because we all need to know what transmisogyny affected people are constantly going thru and how much danger we can present to them and how we fail them as bystanders

[louhasmoved-deactivated20241112]

Let’s hear some noise for femme lesbians who are kind of guys

For those of us who have short hair, facial hair, body hair, who use he/him pronouns, who want to be handsome more than beautiful, who are overtly gnc, pls affirm our masculinity too.

Just as some butches find their femininity in their masculinity, some femmes find our masculinity in our femininity. And we desire it

[louhasmoved-deactivated20241112]

Like I’m a femme dyke who often dates butch dykes. And I’m also a transmasc person who often dates other transmasc ppl, those being the butch dykes. The amount of lesbians who are just kind of gay boys is rly insane. Go to a lesbian bar and i promise you a bunch of those women are twinks and bears.

And don’t make assumptions about that either, because in basically all my past relationships, I’ve been the bear

[louhasmoved-deactivated20241112]

Celebrating lesbian visibility week means acknowledging transmasc/multigendered lesbians. Even if we don’t fit your idea of what a transmasc/multigendered person looks like

[homoidiotic]

from Transgender Warriors by Leslie Feinberg

[homoidiotic]

Transgender Tapestry Magazine 1970s- 2000s

[nitrosplicer]

So I just heard about “Primed: The Back Pocket Guide for Trans Men and the Men Who Dig Them.” It’s the first sexual health resource written by and for gay, bi and queer trans men/ transmasculine people, put out by Rainbow Health Ontario, and it’s a very frank guide that answers basically any questions you might have about safer sex. They’ve released it for free download here.

Edit: here is the link to Brazen 2.0, a safer sex guide for trans women!

[stonebutchbi]

Gender expression in bisexual women: Therapeutic issues and considerations

“Identities such as butch and femme and butch/femme expressions of gender are as core to an individual's sense of self as bisexual identification; having to silence one aspect of the self (e.g., bisexual) in order to choose the other (e.g., butch or femme) is an unacceptable compromise of the self. This silencing can lead to feelings of being disingenuous and inauthentic, exactly the experiences many butch/femme bisexual women ardently seek to avoid, and this self-silencing can lead these women to experience anxiety, depression, and feelings of rejection (Hiestand and Levit 2005; Levit, Gerrish, and Hiestand 203; Levit and Hiestand 2004). For many of these women, being true to their inner feelings and attractions and being comfortable in how they present themselves to others are the keystones of their psychological health (Garnets et al. 1991). Therapists can help these clients explore the impact of living in multiple communities that are sometimes at odds with one another, assisting women to understand the threats these conditions pose to their psychological health and sense of well-being.”

From Becoming Visible, Counseling Bisexuals Across a Lifespan. (2007)

[campgender]

anyway i love you any & all forms of stone. i love you high femmes & stone butches, i love you stone femme tops & stone butch bottoms, i love you stonebutch4stonebutches & femme fag4dyke stone lovers & pillow princesses

i love you men who are stone, i love you women who are stone tops & want to fuck men, i love you transhet stone people, i love you stone aces, i love you people who only identify as stone

i love you people who are stone because of dysphoria & people who are stone because of trauma & people who are stone because they feel like it. i love you people who wish things were different & people who’d choose stone every time

i love you stones who’ve only encountered ur sexual boundaries as a strawman & i love you stones who’ve never witnessed ur kind of fucking be imagined at all. i love you stones whose existence has been deemed an ontological impossibility.

sexual boundaries aren’t restricted to certain sexuality & gender experiences, & whatever ur stone looks like it’s beautiful + lovable <3