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loveridden1999

starting a collection

"a goon is someone who masturbates" look buddy what my hired criminal muscle does in his spare time is his own business

“everyone is mad at me and they just won’t tell me” —> “no one has said anything about being mad at me and i haven’t done anything to warrant being mad at so if someone is silently fuming about me and not saying anything that’s their problem and actually quite weird of them and i can effortlessly move on with my life”

cheaphalloweencostume

this took SUCH a huge deal of unlearning because, like so many of you, i came out of a home where being quietly in trouble WAS the default state, and i DID grow up not just with the assumption but borderline religious conviction that Everyone Is Mad At Me, I Am Bad, I Must Exist In A Constant State of Attempting to Pacify The Natural Rage I Inspire In Everyone. and no it actually turns out that my family are the freaks . and yours are too

cheaphalloweencostume

“this isn’t true because i DEFINITELY silently fume at people in the hopes they’ll figure out what they did and apologize” that’s not good. you shouldn’t do that

“this isn’t true because the ex-friendship that traumatized me ended explosively after they were mad at me and never told me why” that’s not good. they shouldn’t be doing that

“i don’t think this is true because my current friend group is constantly icing me out until i figure out what ive done to upset them and properly apologized without being told” hey thats not good. they should not be doing that

if the peacefulness of your relationship with someone (familial, romantic, friendly, anything) can be destroyed by effective communication/asking them for effective communication, you have got to get out of there. if you can’t get out of there, you’ve got to throw away any ideas about what that person thinks of you because they have their own shit to figure out before they can accurately read anyone else

and then what?

hey and then what

(genuinely offended) "I trust all of my viziers"

vakariasdragon

as you should, my liege… here, enjoy this almond scented wine…

cryptotheism

This is why I fuck with you

flaskrobonoid

dozydawn

lifeafterpsychiatry

Pretending you're fine when people cross your boundaries doesn't make you a really nice person, it just makes you a really shitty communicator. Far too many people pride themselves on being "too nice" when it's just that they have zero conflict resolution skills and will seethe in resentment for months instead of articulating the problem

kotalketz

HEY SO I GOT A PHONE BILL TO PAY AND I'VE GOT TO GET MY CAR CHECKED OUT. IM IN THE MIDDLE OF LOOKING FOR A JOB SO IF YOU WANT TO COMMISSION ME AND HELP ME OUT THAT'D BE GREAT! IF NOT SPREADING THIS AROUND WOULD HELP ME OUT.

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fuckyeahchinesegarden

tea house in chengdu, sichuan province of china

noosferik

Trying to make an american jiangshi by taping a mcdonalds receipt to the corpses forehead

senoritaawesome

bring his ass to a simmer

lastoneout

fabiansociety

yes, maillard

tamapalace

Bandai Namco Nui Announces Tamagotchi Corner Shop Plushies

We’re going all-in on Tamagotchi Corner Shop nostalgia! Bandai Namco Nui has just announced adorable plushies available in 5 styles, all of them have their mouth open as they are visiting the dentist! Their teeth are exposed and ready to be cleaned! They’re currently listed for preorder on the Bandai Namco Nui website, and will also be sold at pop-up stores, priced at ¥1,210 including tax with a release set for May, 2025.