Stray

20 YR Old Autistic Narcissist with some Borderline traits <3

[stray-kittie]

Reblog if you’re an evil tranny

[han-the-human]

Hey so if I decided to say, "I'm homophobia affected because I'm a lesbian. These bisexual people are homophobia exempt." And then started saying stuff about "we should murder all homophobia exempt people!" While very clearly talking about bisexuals, that would be bad and detestable, right?

Then when bisexuals spoke up and were like "hey we actually do experience homophobia because we are often perceived as queer. Also I'm really uncomfortable with how I'm being treated in my own community" but I responded by spouting statistics about corrective rape and violence against lesbians (despite the fact they never denied the suffering of lesbians), while ignoring their actual objection, we could agree that would be a horrible and biphobic thing to do?

Cool, then can we stop doing it to trans men?

[elasticveins]

If I see one more person do this I’m actually gonna tweak out. That cis guy character can be a trans man. That cis woman character can be a trans man. Headcannoning a cis character as trans is not killing anyone’s representation and that is pretty obvious.

[learn-how-to-love]

This is the kind of take that can only come out of someone if they completely and utterly despise transmasculine people, full stop. Femboy is an identity held by cis men and trans men alike and has been for ages, even if it is sometimes used to misgender and degrade trans women. The idea that trans men can’t use it for themselves is about as stupid as the idea that trans women can’t call themselves butch because it’s sometimes used to misgender and degrade trans men. Neither are a “violent slur” and just mean feminine man/masculine woman. Cuntboy, on the other hand, literally contains a word considered offensive and derogatory in many parts of the world and combines it with “boy” to objectify and fetishize men with vaginas, aka overwhelmingly trans men. It shouldn’t be difficult to understand why that would make a lot of trans men and mascs uncomfortable and not want to identify with it. This kind of ahistorical patronizing policing of identities is purely a projection of hatred and disdain wrapped in a veneer of progressive identity politics to maintain plausible deniability. Anyway transmasc femboys I love you, keep being you and people like this can get some fucking perspective

[life-onthe-murderscene]

"t4t is for trans women"

"egg is for trans women"

"tranny is only reclaimable by trans women"

"femboy is only reclaimable by trans women"

example of transmasc erasure

[blog-for-safekeeping]

You know, transandrophobic arguments begin to make a lot more sense when you realise that these people view trans women as Inherently Different to cis women, and that they will Never Pass as such, thus being subjected to Eternal Torment; and that they view trans men as Inherently The Same to cis men, and that they will Always Pass as such, thus being subjected to Immediate And Eternal Privilege.

And by makes sense, I mean it shows an incredibly big transmisogynistic (and just transphobic in general) bias that these people have yet to unpack. Idk, I think positioning trans women as permanently "clockable" or whatever is a little... Not as progressive as you think... But maybe that's just me.

[rob0copyofacopyofacopy]

" Theyfab isn't a slur, silly! it's just a belittling and disparaging term I use to mock, silence and undermine a minority I don't like! "

[geese-ball]

because god forbid not everything is about trans women. god forbid trans men want to be included for once

[stray-kittie]

Hits everyone with the transmasc beam

[d3rlord3-kisser]

I think trans men who still present femininely are awesome

I think trans men who still look like girls are awesome

I think trans men who don't have the time or money to look more masculine are awesome

I think trans men who want to transition but are scared of what their family would think are awesome

I think trans men are awesome

trans women version

[professionalbitch]

YOU DON'T NEED TO BE A SKINNY WHITE TWINK TO BE ATTRACTIVE AS A TRANS GUY. BE FAT. BE CHUBBY. HAVE SCARS AND STRETCH MARKS AND SPOTS AND CYSTS AND DRY SKIN AND DANDRUFF AND ECZEMA. HAVE MOHAWKS AND LOCS AND AFROS AND CURLS AND PIN-STRAIGHT HAIR. BE A POC. GET DARKER IN THE SUMMER. WEAR FEMININE CLOTHES, WEAR MASCULINE CLOTHES, WEAR A MIX OF EVERYTHING. GET SURGERIES, DON'T GET SURGERIES, GET HORMONES, DON'T GET HORMONES, MEDICALLY TRANSITION OR CHOOSE NOT TO OR CHOOSE TO ONLY DO CERTAIN PARTS OF IT BUT NOT OTHERS. USE WHATEVER PRONOUNS YOU WANT. HE, SHE, THEY, XEY, ZIR, OTHER NEOPRONOUNS, WHO CARES! BE WHOEVER THE FUCK YOU WANT TO BE, HOWEVER THE FUCK YOU WANT TO DO SO, BECAUSE THAT IS WHAT TRANSITIONING IS SUPPOSED TO BE. DO NOT LET YOURSELF BE CONTAINED IN ANOTHER MOULD RIGHT AFTER YOU JUST BROKE OUT OF THE LAST ONE.

#And please STOP trying to contain your trans siblings

#we should never be enforcing imaginary rules on each other

#part of community is helping each other stand tall

#SO STAND TALL

[learn-how-to-love]

Flaming hot take apparently but if another trans person’s body causes you dysphoria you need to grow the fuck up and keep your mouth shut. I can’t stress this enough it is not their problem to deal with and YOU need to work on that.

[bunnayy]

What country is '🏳️‍⚧️' and why are all the cute boys from there

[stop-lying-about-trans-men]

hey guys pack it up transandrophobia theory is an alt right movement because a trans man of color has ~weird pronouns~ and a blog theme. based on this persons assumptions.

as we all know this is exactly the kind of thing an alt-right catholic would "fav"

[yaoigaysexaura]

can i be honest? i feel like the hatred of discussions of transandrophobia, rise in radical feminism, slide back into transmedicalism, and just this rise in casual misogyny and expectations of womenhood (ie: girl math, girl dinner) are all things that go hand in hand. like the perception of women as the "weaker" gender, which both denies them their agency and autonomy to do harm, and the perception of men as the "stronger" gender, which means they're seen as oppressers and never the oppressed, are all a key part of why people are reacting like this. i think that's why discussions of transandrophobia befuddles a lot of people. combine this with the erasure of transmasc experiences, and suddenly, you have the perfect narrative about these "weak girls" transitioning into "strong men".

trans men and mascs and even nbs are supposed to be "transitioning away from oppression" to the "stronger gender". but they're not less oppressed, in fact, trans men and mascs and nbs are regularly More oppressed than perisex cis women because they're regularly denied things that cis women have access to. fundamentally, in these people's minds, "weak men" is a contradiction, it should not exist, you're a man so you should have more power than women, but you don't.

this is also why people who consider themselves trans-supportive liberals aren't able to accept that trans men are oppressed, just as much as any other trans person in their community, more than your perisex cis woman. to admit they've struggles worse than some women is to admit they're weak, but men can't be weak. so by admitting transmascs struggle, it feels like misgendering, because they've so strongly fixated on the idea that "men = strong = less oppressed", than they cannot accept that there is a masculine individual that does not fit into that.

[miraculouslumination]

I feel like trans radfems are simultaneously adopting the terf/radfem viewpoint of "all women are born to be Passive Victims to the men around them, while men are destined to be Active Victimizers to the women around them" but with a trans coat of paint, AND the transmed/truscum viewpoint of "To be trans is to be miserable. Only Real Trans People constantly think about all the ways they could die, every day, every hour. The only real genders are Man and Woman and Maybe Nonbinary but they're on thin fucking ice. If you identify out of any joy or show any love for your gender identity, then you're part of the oppressor class"

And it's like. Are y'all not embarrassed.

[druidshollow]

i thimk trans women and trans men and nonbinary people and everyone whos not cis should all love eachother forever and embrace eachother and listen to eachother and protect eachother. we should all be eachothers' shield