Surrender To The Tide

Love people for their hearts, not their parts

[0ru-deactivated20260721]

Don’t shorten your words, I like your details

[museofaesthetics]

i want a soft connection. i want to be asked how my day went and if i need anything. i want forehead kisses. i want the back of my hand kissed at red lights. i want to be asked how i’m mentally feeling. i want to hold hands everywhere we go. i want romantic gestures. i want my hair played in at the most unexpected moments. i want silent eye connections that lead to smiles. i want to take random walks.

[melblogsgfreethruptsd]

A person who wants control and dominance over you will not be happy unless you act submissive or subordinate.

And then, they will NOT treat you with respect or consideration.

The only time they’ll be showing respect, care or kindness as if they see you as an equal is when they’re trying to make something happen.

Then it “goes away”. (Because it was never really there).

This is directly attached to their ego and identity, so they will feel humiliated, offended, or enraged if you don’t treat them as superior to you.

Sanctuary for Awareness and Recovery, facebook.com

[lori-em]

[thoughtkick]

“Nothing on earth can make up for the loss of one who has loved you.”

— Selma Lagerlöf

[strength-from-struggles]

You loved me more than anyone else...6th grade was the first time you told me you liked me. The like turned to love as years passed and eventually you got the courage to tell me so. I wish your jacket and cologne wasn’t the only thing I had of left of you now. I wish 12/2/2019 never happened. I wish you spent Christmas, New Years, and your 22nd birthday with your family but instead I took that place for you. I love your family so much and they love me too. But all that love is shared because of you ♥️

[untoldxstories8921]

“I hope one day you learn to love yourself, because you deserve it, you know? You spend so much of your time caring, doting on other people yet you never give yourself a second glance. You think you’re worthless when in fact you’re priceless. I hope one day you accept yourself, because maybe then you’ll accept the love others wish to give you…”

— Dust In Sunbeams - untoldxstories8921

[soggywarmpockets]

“It never ceases to amaze me. I can’t remember my niece’s birthdate, but the anniversary of your death is etched into my brain. I couldn’t forget it if I wanted to. And as it looms ever closer I get more and more scared of how hard it is going to hit me.”

— I’m not nearly as okay as I pretend to be. It still doesn’t feel real. I still haven’t called your mom.

[dancewithyourreflections]

“The last time I saw you I had no clue it was going to be the last time I would spend time with you.”

— dwyr.

[pa-nic-ing]

“Don’t let people convince you that “Time heals all wounds”. You will feel the loss of loved one. Even years later when you don’t cry every morning anymore, you will still feel that grief. You are allowed to miss someone for the rest of your life. You are allowed to cry about it every morning. You are allowed to cry about it every year on that. You are allowed to never cry about it. Just never let tell you that time invalidates your grief.”

— “Time heals all wounds”

[xxlying-from-y0u]

“I guess by now I should know enough about loss to realize that you never really stop missing someone-you just learn to live around the huge gaping hole of their absence.”

— Alyson Noel, Evermore (The Immortals, #1)

[survivingsiblingsuicide]

“Doesn’t seem right, does it? A split second to lose him and a lifetime to grieve over him”

— Tim Bowler, Frozen Fire

[closetohonest]

“If tears could build a stairway And memories a lane I’d walk right up to Heaven And bring you home again”

— (via closetohonest/ideallyinsane)

[grieve-and-bereave]

“it’s like you were here, and then all of a sudden you’re just gone”

— i guess the shock of it all is starting to wear off

[wnq-writers]

““It’s the loss of someone beloved that makes you finally realize the importance of your loved ones around you.””

— Kathy B.

[strength-from-struggles]

Miss you everyday Jus. You left us too soon

[sometimesjournal-deactivated202]

“The moment you realize that the one person you love isn’t good for you… is heartbreaking.”

— thinkingaddict

[fy-perspectives]

“I find it wholesome to be alone the greater part of the time. To be in company, even with the best, is soon wearisome and dissipating. I love to be alone. I never found the companion that was so companionable as solitude.”

— Henry David Thoreau

[whendidmythoughtsgocrazy]

“Let me look into your eyes and show you how much I care about you.”

— k.b. // maybe even care too much