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A couples-only rainforest getaway

perfect for honeymoons and romantic escapes.

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ecopark penthouse / i.house architecture and construction

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Perfumes for winter

Alien by Thierry Mugler (jasmine, cashmere wood, white amber)

Black opium by YSL (vanilla, coffee, pear, jasmine, patchouli, pink pepper, orange blossom, bitter almond)

By the fireplace by Maison Martin Margiela (chestnut, vanilla, guaiac wood, peru balsam, cloves, cashmeran, juniper, pink pepper)

Code pour femme by Armani (honey, Italian orange, vanilla, jasmine, orange blossom, bitter orange, ginger, sandalwood)

For her l’absolu by Narciso Rodriguez (musk, tuberose, patchouli, jasmine, amber, sandalwood)

Hypnotic poison by Dior (vanilla, almond, coconut, sandalwood, brazilian rosewood, plum, jasmine, caraway)

Jasmin noir by Bvlgari (jasmine sambac, almond, gardenia, licorice, tonka bean, precious woods, amber, musk)

Noir pour femme by Tom Ford (vanilla, kulfi, amber, sandalwood, ginger, rose, bitter orange, orange blossom)

Pure poison by Dior (jasmine, gardenia, orange blossom, sandalwood, orange, white amber, bergamot, cedar)

Velvet orchid by Tom Ford (rum, black orchid, honey, vanilla, myrrh, suede, sandalwood, peru balsam)

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He’s a fellow Texan who skates at the Grand Prairie rink. His Instagram is @ _djuice and he’s a photographer as well as a model. Really cool guy

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Shit like this is an art. If they put this in the olympics we gone lol

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Black men on skates 😍😍😍😍>>

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Getting myself together

If you want to be ATTRACTIVE you can be.

-Get up early. Set your alarm and stretch first thing. Then go make some tea.

-Get dressed, do light makeup & go for a walk (Always look your best even if it’s light makeup & your hair is in a ponytail).

-Work out. Even though you don’t want to! Do you think anybody wants to at first? No. How do they get results? Discipline.

-Check off a calendar to feel accomplished after u do these things every day (with a rest day in between. Even then, stay active just go easier—walk).

-Do a face mask 2X a week at the end of the day. Put teabags on eyes to reduce puffiness. Moisturize and use gua sha roller to massage face.

-Sleep to binaural beats music for deep sleep

If you want to be SMART you can be.

-Read portions of a book mindfully and try to retain that information.

-Try to finish 1 book every 2 weeks. The library is your friend.

-Do a crossword in the local newspaper

If you want to be STRONG you can be.

-STOP giving into your emotions & being at their mercy.

-Do you feel sad? Well cry it out, comfort yourself & then get right back to doing whatever you need to further your goals.

-Don’t be an open book. Even if you don’t feel well nobody on the outside needs to know. Don’t give away your secrets. Only ask for help from appropriate people.

If you want to be FRIENDLY & PERSONABLE you can be.

-What would you do if you were drunk/ not overthinking it?

-How others react to you is none of your business. Don’t let them determine your worth/ mood.

-Compliment strangers. Ask for directions. This can lead to small talk.

-Mirror people subtly. Add on to the conversation by asking questions. Wait until the other person is done speaking no matter how badly you want to get a word in.

-Get approached by always looking put together & nice. Even if you’re not, fool them on the outside.

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Older women are gems when it comes to relationship advice, especially when it comes to choosing the right men. I recently had a long conversation with an 84 year old woman and then she began to tell me the same relationship advice I hear almost every older woman say my whole life. Her advice can be applied to vanilla and sugar dating:

If a man doesn’t give anything to you in the beginning, he won’t give it to you later.

If you and your husband have to split all the bills, he’s not your husband he’s your roommate.

If a man is stingy with spending his money on you, just tell him, “I got what you want and you got what I want. It can’t work out if we can’t get what we want from each other.”

If a man likes/wants you, he will let you know right away.

Action speaks louder than words. Pay more attention to what they do and act towards you than focusing on their words and “promises”.

If you’re with a man in the beginning stages of the relationship and he’s more focused on looking or talking about other women, drop him.

A real man will protect you, look after you, and give you what you need/want.

If you ask a man for money and he says something like, “Don’t you have a job”, don’t do shit for him (especially sex) or drop him because he’s not that into you.

Anybody can be good in bed, if that’s all a man has to offer or that’s his only “redeeming” quality, drop him. You can’t spend all your time in the bedroom.

Good, generous men all have city jobs.

Men in the military are the biggest cheaters.

Women should never chase a man.

A man that is serious and genuinely likes you will always be consistent and not play games (example: not go days without talking to you, you’re not always the one initiating the phone calls/texts, will never drastically change his demeanor, etc.)

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Bible!

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Good tips my mother never gave me.

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Affirmations

God’s greatest gift is life; and I cherish and honor mine.

I love and accept myself for who I am.

I am the best version of myself, and I am working hard to become even better.

I accept my body exactly the way it is, and I constantly work on improving it.

I am grateful to my body for all the things it does for me.

Every cell in my body is healthy and fit, and so am I.

I set myself free from all the guilt I carry around the food I chose in the past.

I inhale fresh energy that fills my entire being and I exhale all toxins and body fat.

I enjoy life by staying fit and maintaining my ideal weight.

My body is my temple, and I attentively take care of it every day by exercising and eating healthy foods that heal and nourish me.

I have great personal hygiene. Every part of my body always smells great.

All things lead to my success, happiness, and wealth, no matter what.

Everything I have is in my name and completely paid off.

All the money that I circulate returns to me multiplied, in a never-ending cycle of increase and enjoyment, thank God.

I always get checks in the mail.

I always have a good standing bank account.

I always have at least $5,000 in my bank account.

I am a magnet for prosperity, happiness, and abundance.

I am a woman with a tremendous amount of money.

I am financially free, dollars want me.

I am healthy, wealthy, and wise.

I am rich. I see it and feel it. I am rich in love, happiness, success, prosperity and money.

I am so grateful that people want to give me money, even when I don’t need it.

I am wealthy, I am prosperous.

I can afford to use dollars for my happiness.

I have a perfect credit score.

I have clothes, food, books, entertainment, and whatever I need for health, happiness, friendship, and service to others.

I have everything in abundance.

I have more money than I know what to do with.

I have multiple streams of income.

I have no question of expenditure.

I have whatever I desire.

I make money at everything that I do.

I make money every day without any effort.

I receive large unexpected lump sums of money.

It is so easy for me to make money.

Money comes to me in expected and unexpected ways.

Money constantly flows to me

My life’s purpose brings me prosperity and happiness.

People always offer me money, they love giving it to me.

Prosperity overflows in my life.

Wealth constantly flows into my life.

What I feel that I need, I purchase.

Whatever money I use, I get it right back.

I love being my own boss, every day I live my dream. My work fulfills me. I am always in alignment with my life purpose. I have it all! I’m beautiful, smart, and come and go as I please.

My career allows me to work at my own pace and schedule.

I am always creating new, successful, streams of passive income.

I am so grateful that I have been able to make a living from sharing my gifts.

I have constant success in my business.

Others know and respect my great work ethic.

People trust that I will go above and beyond to get the job done.

I have no problem attaining clients; people seek me for my services.

I love that my line of work allows me to be creative and do what I enjoy.

There is always work for me to do and money for me to make.

I am a positive resource and people want to do business with me.

I respect my abilities and always work to my full potential.

I am so lucky!

Life is amazing, it is what it should be.

I always told the word “Yes!”

I am always finding money.

Life is always happening FOR me.

Everything is for my greater good.

Every day, I get something for free.

I get approved for everything I apply for.

Mistakes in transactions or bank errors ALWAYS go in my favor.

I stay in gorgeous, 4 & 5-star hotels frequently.

Every day I do something that makes me feel good and happy.

I am always early to where I need to be.

I am exactly where I am supposed to be.

Everyone is always polite and kind to me.

I always find the best words to articulate myself.

I love to meet other people and make new friends.

Every day I meet someone who can help me reach my dreams.

People value my opinions and views.

People appreciate my innovative ideas and want to help me.

I meet and have relationships with like mined people.

I have many organic personal relationships and friendships with celebrities, professional athletes, and people of greater influence.

I have a small, fly group of friends that I go out and travel with.

My friends always provide support and vice versa.

I can get any man I want.

I meet and date successful men from many professional backgrounds.

The men I date SPOIL me and enjoy doing so.

I am wined and dined in the finest restaurants.

I receive an enormous monthly allowance.

I have many romantic experiences to places that require a passport, where I stay in 5-star hotels/resorts, enjoy fine dining, multiple shopping sprees, and create endless memories.

I fly out frequently to see the men I’m dating on commercial and private flights at their expense.

I date men who contribute financially and morally to my business endeavors.

I appreciate the random romantic surprises men do for me.

Men are so thoughtful, they are always sending me unexpected gifts of affection.

I love hanging out and spending time with other wealthy wives and girlfriends.

I love being a spoiled girlfriend/wealthy wife and the perks that come with it.

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Stripper Tutorial Masterpost

The links are in order from beginner to advanced. Most of this is aimed towards dancers-to-be or baby strippers, so there aren’t many complicated moves on here. Also, please note that this list is incomplete. I will be adding to the Bootywork and Lapdance sections in given time and as I find better videos/tutorials. FLOORWORK: Sexy Worm (with Spin Sity) The Dive (with Spin Sity) The Clock (with Spin Sity) Crawl (with Pole 2go) Goddess Rising (with Pole2go) Outside Tick-tock Clock Variation (with Pole2go) Leg Peels (with Pole2go) Floor Fan Kick (with Pole2go) Backwards Shoulder Roll (with Melonie) Four Ways to Get Up From the Floor (with Dirdy Birdy) Twisted Grip Floor Roll Down (with Dirdy Birdy) Intermediate Drop & Roll (with Cleo the Hurricane) Advanced Pole Press Handstand (with Cleo the Hurricane) POLEWORK: Basic Walk (with Pole2go) Eternal Pole Walk (with Pole2go) Figure 8 Walk (with Pole2go) Hip Circles (with Pole2go) Booty Dips (with Pole2go) Pole Plie (with Pole2go) Beginner Fireman Variations (with Dirdy Birdy) Beginner Sunwheel/Ankle Hook (with Dirdy Birdy Beginner Pole Climb (with Dirdy Birdy) Beginner Pole Sit (with Dirdy Birdy) Beginner Pole Plank/Layback (with Dirdy Birdy) Beginner Angel Spin (with Dirdy Birdy) Beginner Fan Kick (with Dirdy Birdy) Beginner Cradle/Cradle V Spin (with Dirdy Birdy) Beginner Pirouette Variations Inner and Outer Grip (with Dirdy Birdy) Beginner Bodyrolls (with Dirdy Birdy) Beginner Invert and Exercises Before (with Dirdy Birdy) Intermediate Gemini Aka Outside Leg Hang (with Dirdy Birdy) Intermediate Scorpio Aka Inside Leg Hang (with Dirdy Birdy) Tips for Using a Spinning Pole (with Veena) Static Pole Spins (with Veena) Back Arch Slide (with Pole2go) The Wrist Seat (with Pole2go) Corkscrew Spin (with Pole2go) How to Shoulder Mount (with Blush Dance) Jade (with Muse Fitness) Jade Split (with Cleo the Hurricane) BOOTYWORK: How to Twerk For Non-Twerkers (with Firestarter) How to Twerk Tutorial and Leg/Booty Workout (with Keaira Lashae) Ass Clap 101 (with Imani Rose) Booty Pop on Floor (with Amy Shi) Booty Flexing Exercise (with Empre$$)

STRENGTH/FLEXIBILITY/STRETCHING Beginner Pole Strengthening Exercises (with Dakota Foxx) Back Stretches/Flexibility Training (with Dirdy Birdy) Four Exercises Every Pole Dancer Should Know (with Veena) Tips For Splits and Hips (with Veena) Stretching for the Splits (with Veena)