Hustle Baybay!

Future business owner. Future trophy wife. Current sugar baby.

[financeprincess]

Gaining & Maintaining Power: A Reading List

Power & Manipulation

48 Laws of Power by Robert Green

The Prince by Machiavelli

Games People Play: The Basic Handbook of Transactional Analysis by Eric Berne

The Dictator's Handbook: Why Bad Behavior is Almost Always Good Politics by Bruce Bueno de Mesquita

Power: Why Some People Have It - And Others Don't by Jeffrey Pfeffer

The Wisdom of Psychopaths: What Saints, Spies, and Serial Killers Can Teach Us About Success by Kevin Dutton

Charisma & Social Skills

How to Win Friends and Influence People by Dale Carnegie

Crucial Conversations: Tools for Talking When Stakes Are High by Kerry Patterson

How to Talk to Anyone: 92 Little Tricks for Big Success in Relationships by Leil Lowndes

The Charisma Myth: How Anyone Can Master the Art and Science of Personal Magnetism by Olivia Fox Cabane

Captivate: The Science of Succeeding with People by Vanessa Van Edwards

Never Eat Alone, And the Other Secrets to Success, One Relationship at a Time by Keith Ferrazzi

The Like Switch: An Ex-FBI Agent's Guide to Influencing, Attracting, and Winning People Over by Jack Schafer

Persuasion

The Art of Seduction by Robert Green

Influence: The Psychology of Persuasion by Robert Cialdini

Win Bigly: Persuasion in a World Where Facts Don't Matter by Scott Adams

Pre-Suasion: Channeling Attention for Change by Robert Cialdini

Win Your Case: How to Present, Persuade, and Prevail, Every Place, Every Time by Gerry Spence

Nudge: Improving Decisions About Health, Wealth, and Happiness by Richard Thaler

Methods of Persuasion: How to Use Psychology to Influence Human Behavior by Nick Kolenda

You Can Read Anyone: Never Be Fooled, Lied to, or Taken Advantage of Again by David Lieberman

Influencer: The New Science of Leading Change by Kerry Patterson

Psychology

Thinking, Fast and Slow by Daniel Kahneman

The Art of Choosing by Sheena Iyengar

Drive: The Surprising Truth About What Motivates Us by Daniel Pink

Predictably Irrational: The Hidden Forces That Shape Our Decisions by Dan Ariely

Emotional Intelligence by Daniel Goleman

The Laws of Human Nature by Robert Green

Philosophy and Mindset

Meditations by Marcus Aurelius

Letters from a Stoic by Seneca

Man's Search for Meaning by Viktor Frankl

Mastery by Robert Green

The Law of Success by Napoleon Hill

Antifragile: Things That Gain from Disorder by Nassim Taleb

The Daily Stoic by Ryan Holiday

Ikigai: The Japanese Secret to a Long and Happy Life by Hector Garcia

Public Speaking, Rhetoric, and Debating

Rhetoric by Aristotle

How to Argue & Win Every Time by Gerry Spence

The Quick and Easy Way to Effective Speaking by Dale Carnegie

The Art of Public Speaking by Dale Carnegie

Talk Like TED: The 9 Public Speaking Secrets of the World's Top Minds by Carmine Gallo

Verbal Judo: The Gentle Art of Persuasion by George Thompson, PhD

Thank You for Arguing by Jay Heinrichs

p.s. a lot of these can be found on z-library.

xoxo ❤️

[2productive]

I simply can't imagine myself not putting in work to be a top tier girl. I enjoy the process and I certainly enjoy basking in the results. I love growing long, strong, healthy hair. I love using expensive soaps to clean myself and moisturizing my skin to stay healthy and soft. I love working out and maintaining a physique that requires effort. I love dressing myself in feminine clothes that compliment my figure and embraces my girly nature. I love picking up new skills and doing things of substance. I love being highly educated and taking my learning seriously so I can have a pretty brain that matches my pretty face. I love feminine excellence 😍. I love winning 😍.

[thevirgodoll]

Doll Diaries: Poise.

*Disclaimer: These are just my thoughts. What you are about to read is not required of anyone, and may not be for you! Just opinions from yours truly, TheVirgoDoll. 

In this day and age, it is, seemingly, rare to come across examples of black women who are perceived as graceful and poised, rather than aggressive and mean due to oppressive ideals.  So many people put white women on a pedestal of ultra femininity, grace, and poise. I’m sick of the implications that black women somehow naturally lack those things, so I have laid out examples disputing the fact. I want to promote black women in a positive light, that’s all!

Poise.

A woman with poise is someone who exudes a warm sense of confidence.

Let’s begin with the textbook definition of poise.

Poise - n. graceful and elegant bearing in a person.

Examples of this would be:

Clair Huxtable (Phylicia Rashad) of “the Cosby Show” (analyzing the FICTIONAL character only, not affiliation with real life actor Bill Cosby)

Aaliyah, late R&B singer and actress

Olivia Pope (Kerry Washington) of “Scandal”

Dominique Deveraux (Diahann Carroll) of Dynasty (1980s)

So how would one mimic these examples of poise in day to day life? Here are four tips that I have come up with, and that I use on a day to day basis. 

1. Keep your composure.

As far as this fictional character, you never caught her slippin. 

When anyone was out of order when speaking to them, there was always a witty response, rather than vengeful. 

See Clair Huxtable’s response to a misogynistic comment in her home for an example on composure. She was graceful, while putting Elvin in his place. Gathered him, read him for filth, all while keeping her composure. Not a tear shed, and not a hair out of place.

2. Speak with clarity.

You would never be confused when these women speak. There’s no insecure mumbling involved, and their words are never delivered too quickly. It’s always at the right pace.

I’ve always admired Aaliyah’s speaking voice. It’s clear and gentle. She also enunciated every time she was in an interview.

See two of my favorite Aaliyah speaking examples: x, x. 

3. Carry yourself with dignity and pride.

Posture is everything with a woman with poise. Being musically trained as a child, I always had to sit on the edge of my seat, with my back straight. I applied this posture to my walking stride and it has paid off tremendously. 

Your walk means everything with how you carry yourself. 

A few tips I have are:

Keeping your arms to your sides when practicing your walk. Helps if you are carrying your purse!

Never walking too quickly, or too slowly. Too quickly compromises your walk, too slowly makes you try too hard. This ain’t a slo mo.

Remember Cheetah Girls “Strut”? Strut like you mean it, for real, but do not look like the girls from middle school switching your butt too hard. 

Maintain good back posture, elongate, and the rest will follow. Once you have your posture down, be sure to hold your head up high. My momma always told me to never look down at the ground. Ever. No matter what happened that day.

Act like your neck is coming out of a turtle shell. That’s something that Tyra says. If you are sulking, it will not be read as a woman who knows she is one of a kind. 

Olivia Pope. Walking proudly in heels every day too (not a requirement). If you haven’t watched Scandal, Kerry was groundbreaking as a black woman on Primetime. 

4. Work on your confidence!

Lastly, your self confidence that comes from within will do most of the work for you. When you’re confident within yourself, you will naturally embody the qualities YOU value. 

Dress and look your best. It helps, even when you don’t feel your best. Whatever that means for you. For me, that means some natural makeup: gloss, minimal eye makeup, foundation, and blush. And I use my small jewelry pieces to compliment this, such as my silver Tiffany necklace.

Look at how Dominique looks her best, and acts her best, despite being faced with an enemy.

Look at how confident Halle Berry was this night. Ignore Leno being gross. 

Poise, sophistication, and class!

[51don]

[2productive]

Always wear your cutest outfit. Stop saving so many looks for “special occasions”. You showing up is a special occasion. Look your best.

[goldiesugar]

How to charm a group of men?

Make eye contact. That will show them you think of them as an equal.

Say less, listen more. They love feeling important.

Show vulnerability but don’t become vulnerable.

Men and their egos will do the rest. Of course I’m assuming you dress well, you know your role as seductress, etc. 

[heauxmoney-deactivated20200707]

There is nothing wrong with caring about vanity.

There is nothing wrong with wanting expensive/luxury items.

There is nothing wrong with going on expensive vacations.

There is nothing wrong with not wanting to have a job.

There is nothing wrong with being a housewife.

There is nothing wrong with having an expensive car.

There is nothing wrong with living a lavish lifestyle.

There is nothing wrong with dating men who have money.

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Level up Files : Guides - 20 rules for dating high profile men

Last night I was out in New York City at a nightclub where a famous artist was performing. One of my best friends, a gorgeous brunette, who always has guys drooling over her, was approached by this singer’s producer. He was obviously smitten, but watching my friend behave, I knew she had it right!

Usually when women meet a high profile man they are instantly all over him, overly eager and excited. Not her. She played it so cool. He told her, “I get girls at ‘producer,’ but you seem different.” Yes, sir, that is true.

You never know who you’ll meet, so here are 20 rules from The Rules, Time-tested Secrets for Capturing the Heart of Mr. Right by Ellen Fein and Sherrie Schneider. Keep these rules in mind and you might have a chance at snagging Mr. High Profile (actually these pointers are good to keep in mind dating any man).

1. Take a deep breath. Stay composed.

2. Treat him as you would any other man—a coworker, your doorman—not the movie star or business tycoon he is.

3. Do not stare at him.

4. Do not light up or act giddy, as if you just won the lottery.

5. Do not carry on like a crazed fan. In other words do not say anything like, “Oh my God, I can’t believe its [famous person]! I’ve seen all your movies!” (Even if you have seen all his movies twice!) Act as if you’ve been out of the country for the last three years and you’re not quite sure who he is, even if he was just on the cover of People magazine.

6. Don’t ask for his autograph.

7. Don’t compliment him, as in “You look much better in person than on TV.”

8. Don’t ask him about his next move or show any interest in his career (or you’ll sound like every other woman he’s met).

9. If you’re an aspiring actress, do not ask for an audition or part in his movie. If you’re looking for work, do not ask this high powered executive for a job in his company. Do not ask for his business card or offer to send him your resume or movie script.

10. Do not ask him to do you a favor, such as donate money to your favorite charity or give you tickets to his show or a free copy of his book.

11. Act interested, but not spellbound. Movie stars and CEOs are typically hounded and drooled over. So leave him alone. After five or 10 minutes of conversation, say “Oh look at the time. I have to leave now. It was nice meeting you.” And walk away. Do not spend the entire evening talking to this man. Do not agree to go out with him that night, even if he’s leaving the country the next morning. (He can always call you, they have phones in other countries, too).

12. Do not seem impressed by his Armani suit, limo or entourage.

13. If you meet a performer and he offers you a ticket to see his concert or show as a first date, politely decline. Attending his show is NOT a date. If he wants to see you the night of the show, he can pick you up afterward and take you out.

14. If you’re dating a sports star, don’t run around the company wearing his jersey and attending all his games, until you’re in a committed relationship.

15. Once you’re actually dating a CEO or celebrity, don’t see him whenever and wherever it’s convenient for him because he has a busy schedule. He still has to ask you out in advance and you must turn him down politely if he expects to see you only on his terms—otherwise he will take you for granted. Celebrities are used to being spoiled!

16. Of course, it’s tempting to drop your friends and family and revolve your whole life around this famous man. But DON’T DO IT. You must still live your own life!

17. If he’s handsome or widely popular, expect other women might write him, call him and throw themselves at him in public. Do not get angry or show jealousy or insecurity when this happens. Do not be possessive in public. If he pursued you and you’ve kept your cool, their advances won’t matter. He’ll still want you!

18. Be discreet. Don’t call the tabloids and tell them you’re dating a celebrity, as a way of announcing to other women or the world that he’s yours—that doesn’t work anyway—and don’t talk to reporters if they call you. That would be self-serving, possibly hurtful or embarrassing to him, and might ruin any chances of him continuing to see you.

19. Don’t try to become friendly with his secretary, publicist or limo driver in an effort to keep tabs on him or so they put in a good word for you.

20. Don’t seem overly interested in his fame, his wealth or the limelight. You are not a groupie!

Source : thedatingdiva.net

[richgirlvibe]

Want to be rich? Do as the rich do.

[nikasholistic]

You can’t see other possibilities when you’re so identified with the reality you’re in. The thing is that your current reality is merely a reflection of your habitual thinking patterns. This is who you used to be, not who you are.

Don’t fall into this trap. Realize that whatever surrounds you is the reflection of your past self. And it doesn’t have to be your identity anymore. You can choose your thoughts, you can choose the kind of energy you want to cherish. You can literally become someone else; you can adopt a new, more empowering mindset. 

Change always comes from within. You have to change your energy, you have to become the energy you want to attract. Learn how to cherish higher emotional states. Focus on gratitude, love, and happiness. When you maintain your new vibration, your reality has no other choice but to change. The Universe is like a mirror. You have to smile first, and then your reflection will also smile.

As long as you are in control of your emotions, you are in control of your life. Only when we let go of the anticipation of the future based on the past, we can create something new in our lives. If you were to imagine what else was possible for you, what would that be? How would your life change for the better? You know the answer, and it’s up to you whether you’re going to do something to improve the quality of your life or not.

[goodbyeeveryonee-deactivated202]

It’s so easy to make a man spend. I don’t know why I thought I had to read 5,000 tips on Tumblr before I thought I was ready. Just woo and then ask. It don’t take rocket science. If a man wants to spend, he’ll do it. He’ll do it on the first date, he’ll do it before the first date, he’ll do it before meeting you. If you intrigue him enough you’ll trigger the cash flow. The key to endless cash flow is making sure every man around you is willing to drop that much cash. Started using my heaux tactics on everyone I know last week and since then I’ve only spent $11 out of my own bank account. If you can trick on a poor man, you can trick on a rich one, and vice versa. Do it to everybody. Watch how unchanged your checking account stays.

[mademoisellehypergamy]

Ladies, you need to shut up. I mean this in the kindest way possible. Your mouth can be one of your most powerful weapons in hypergamy, but also, the one that leads to the greatest downfall. Today we will be discussing the power of silence, and ways to attack your target. Master these techniques, and you will find your hypergamous journey going more smoothly. SILENCE 🌻 MOVE IN SILENCE: You hear it all the time ladies, but never fully apply it. You can’t take everyone on this journey with you. In all honesty, you should take no one. This doesn’t mean to cut off your family and friends, it means do not tell them your hypergamous goals! Keep them to yourselves for goodness sake! No one in your personal life needs to know! If you have to talk to someone about this, lots of women in the community connect with each other and hold each other accountable so consider that instead. Try to write down your goals, and review them nightly. These goals should be kept private until you achieve them, and even when you achieve them, avoid sharing them because you are only attracting negative energy and jealousy. I know sharing good news is tempting, but you are not living this life for others. You are living this life for yourself. 🌻 CONCEAL YOUR TRUE INTENTIONS: You owe these men nothing. NOTHING. They do not need to know your truth, your history, or your intentions. Lie if you have to, these men don’t need to know! Men will lie just to get some p**** , so why shouldn’t you? Be vague in all answers you give men. In the future, I will do a post about creating a new identity. 🌻 ACT INNOCENT: You’re just a girl living life and trying to give back to this world, got it? With everyone you encounter, be kind, polite, and respectful. Do not engage in gossip, do not start drama, pretend to be clueless to anything that may be detrimental to your image.  Avoid controversial topics and politics too. NOW, ATTACK! 🔥 Be godly. The image and presence you give off should be one of mystery, and surreal-ness, like a goddess. He should adore, worship, and spoil you. Possessing an image of godliness in his eyes will have him eager to serve you. 🔥 Love bomb! Then freeze. Flood him with your lovely feminine presence, affection, and beauty– then vanish. Until he marries you, he will only get a taste. If he pleases you and spoils you, you will vanish less.  🔥 Set material expectations. When it comes to expectations, women typically state behavioral expectations (a man that’s polite, doesn’t sext, opens doors, etc.). But what about material expectations?  I tell men I expect flowers weekly. If I don’t receive them, then he obviously does not care enough. Train these men from the start, so later down the road, it’ll be innate for him to provide for you more expensive things. Material expectations are just as important as behavioral. Whether its money, gifts, trips, or investments, if a man isn’t meeting the material expectations, NEXT. These expectations should be started early on. 🔥 Make him INVEST! Stocks, real estate, etc. Make up a business if you have to, but a man should be investing in something that can benefit you in the long run. Men love to help and play savior, so have him save you by investing. This will make him not only feel masculine, but also increase his feelings towards you because men fall in love the more they INVEST. 🔥 Focus on your goals: With each goal you write down you should make a clear image of your mind of how you will begin the process of achieving it. Don’t be ridiculous and say, “I want $100,000″ and think it will magically appear. Even if you win the lottery tonight, you still had to PLAY the lottery in order to WIN it. Playing the lottery was the first step. Make sure each goal you have has multiple first steps to maximize the outcome. Stay focused, ladies. Do not get distracted. Move in silence, then attack. 🌻  Follow me on instagram for more tips: @mademoisellehypergamy 

[sexifyyuploads]

[ultrasugarlifestyle]

SUGAR BABY, SPOILED GIRLFRIEND, TROPHY WIFE YOUTUBE CHANNELS TO FOLLOW 💰

💖 Cyndi Sofia  💖

:: VIDEOS I RECOMMEND ::

→ What About You Is Intriguing? Describe Your “Brand”

→ How to Become a Rich Man’s Muse Replay

→ Are You a High Value Woman? 

💖 Michaela Pink  💖

:: VIDEOS I RECOMMEND ::

→ HOW TO MAKE HIM CROSS THE ROOM FOR YOU | FROM GETTING LOOKS TO BAITING HOOKS

→ IF YOU LIKE HIM, LEAVE HIM ALONE

→ MEN FALL IN LOVE WITH THEIR EYES | WOMEN FALL IN LOVE WITH THEIR EARS

💖Pretty Woman 💖

:: VIDEOS I RECOMMEND ::

→ 10 Sugar Daddy Red Flags!!

→ TOP 5 places to meet a Sugar Daddy

→ Sugar Daddy: Sugarbaby Safety Guide

💖School Of Affluence 💖

:: VIDEOS I RECOMMEND ::

→ 10 Ways To Look Expensive On A Budget - School of Affluence

→ How Law Of Attraction Changed My Life - School Of Affluence

→ What nationalities are the most generous, all my previous jobs & the key to a happy relationship!

💖SheRaSeven1 💖

:: VIDEOS I RECOMMEND ::

→ How to Get Money From a Sugar Daddy

→ Act Like the Prize and Weed Out Dusty Men

→ Things to Never Talk About On Dates

💖ZIVA 💖

:: VIDEOS I RECOMMEND ::

→ HOW TO GET MONEY FROM A SUGAR DADDY 💸 Turn A Guy You Meet into Your SD

→ Do you HAVE to sleep with your sugar daddy?

→ How To Get A Sugar Daddy 💰(part 1)

[ultrasugarlifestyle]

SUGAR BABY, SPOILED GIRLFRIEND, TROPHY WIFE BOOKS

Too Pretty to Pay Bills: Keys to Gold Digging Success: Tips on How to have the life you deserve as a woman! Style: The Modern Lady’s Guide to Elegance and Charm Ho Tactics: How to MindF**k A Man into Spending, Spoiling, and Sponsoring The Art of Seduction

Solving Single: How to Get the Ring, Not the Run Around

Men Don’t Love Women Like You: The Brutal Truth About Dating, Relationships, and How to Go from Placeholder to Game Changer 

The Seduction Mystique: The Definitive Guide to Meeting, Loving and Marrying the Right Man How to Marry the Rich 

The Sugar Daddy Formula: A Sugar Baby’s Ultimate Guide to Finding a Wealthy Sugar Daddy

Sugar Daddy 101: What You Need to Know If You Want to be A Sugar Baby 

A Gold Diggers Guide

How to Meet the Rich: For Business, Friendship, or Romance

The Power of the Pussy - How To Get What You Want From Men: Love, Respect, Commitment and More!

Why Men Marry Bitches

Why Men Love Bitches: From Doormat to Dreamgirl—A Woman’s Guide to Holding Her Own in a Relationship 

How to Marry Money 

Smart Girls Marry Money: How Women Have Been Duped Into the Romantic Dream–And How They’re Paying For It 

Smart Women Finish Rich: 9 Steps to Achieving Financial Security and Funding Your Dreams   Your Inner Fox: Unleashing the Elegance Within 

[goodbyeeveryonee-deactivated202]

Resources on Manifesting, Dating/Marrying Rich, Etiquette, Finances, and Upgrading Yourself

I’ve been reading like crazy lately, and these are things I think are highly beneficial for the future in these topics. There are PDFs for a lot of the books! I’ve also linked Youtube channels, products to buy if need be, blogs, websites, etc. There are far more resources I have but I don’t wanna share my good secrets lol. This is also enough in one post. I wanna put y’all on. 💞

Keep reading

[goldbrownglow]

He loves that I “don’t care” about his money

Ladies, FORGET EVERYTHING YOUVE EVER READ THAT TELLS YOU MEN LIKE IT WHEN WOMEN ARE UPFRONT WITH WHAT THEY WANT

This is not true. It just isn’t. Men like to feel as if they are giving you more than you’re asking for, it strokes their massive, erect, egos perfectly in your favor.

Example: A POT was telling me about his home in Italy, how he rents it out as an air bnb and wants to visit soon to redecorate a bit. I pretended to be so interested in the topic of interior design (“Are you going for something more modern? Or planning to interpret aspects of Versailles….”). What I absolutely DIDNT ask him:

“Can I come?”

After talking about the decor for a few more moments he asked me how many times I’ve been to Italy. I told him I have never been. I could hear the smile spread across his face and I already knew what was coming next

He invited me to come to Italy. That simple. I didn’t have to ask, because I know I SHOULDNT NEED to.

He is so excited to take me and I know part of the reason why is because in his head it was his idea. Men love to think they came up with things on their own. Plant the seed, let him think the idea grew organically, and reap the benefits.

(SN: HOMEBOY HAS A GIANT PROPERTY IN ITALY, A HOME IN BUCKHEAD, A HOUSE AND RESTURANT IN LONDON, AND AN APARTMENT IN LA😅🤤)

[sugabaybay]

You GO girl