FAQ
Who are you?Â
âȘIâm twenty-three years old and Iâm a sugar baby from a very affluent part of the midwest. Iâm not naive and I can get what I want. I know exactly what Iâm capable of and I strive to achieve it. I offer more than just beauty to these men. Iâm in a well-paying medical career and Iâm currently in school to receive my MD for psychiatry. I have been a full time sugar baby for around 5 years. And it has been a very helpful part of my life.Â
 Whatâs your sugar baby motto?Â
âȘ I do not touch any of the men I see. I tell them what they want to hear, pay them with my presence, and leave. I have never and will never sleep with or perform any sexual activity on these men. And I have stuck to that from the beginning. If you want a platonic relationship, you have to be patient. Thatâs the key. What websites do you use? Iâve always thought of seekingarrangement as my favorite. Itâs pretty straight forward and not as seedy as the other websites. Sugardaddy4me is alright as a second option but Iâve never had any luck on it. The POTs tend to be way more salty. And the only salt I like is the salt rimming my margarita glass.Â
 How do you build a profile and what do you put on it?Â
âȘ Donât beat around the bush. I kept my profile short but sweet. It sounds cocky but I am very good looking and fit. Smart too. Just be able to walk the walk and talk the talk. Guys mostly look at your picture and base their opinions off of that. They donât want a wife - they want someone fun. The personality is just the icing on the cake. They donât want drama or childish and immature girls. They also dislike materialistic and shallow girls. My actual profile questions and descriptions were short but I highlighted on the fact that Iâm spontaneous, intelligent, open-minded, and looking for a new adventure. It leaves something to the imagination and manages to draw these men in.Â
 How did you get them to agree with being platonic?Â
âȘ You should meet them a couple times for eating/getting comfortable. What I tended to do when I was starting out was Iâd say things like âI donât feel comfortable enough yet to sleep with youâ and eventually, they stopped asking. I suppose I got lucky or they were just really into me because they still wanted to see me but it was typically over dinner (for payment of course). I regularly go to my doctor SDâs house but itâs usually for a glass of bourbon and a movie. No sex, no touching, nothing. Just stay firm in your beliefs. And donât let anyone pressure you into something that you donât want to do.Â
 Where do you meet sugar daddies?Â
âȘ You mostly meet them online but my best SD was actually met at a bar! He bought me a bottle of 600$ wine and then we drank it. Heâs much older but heâs incredibly kind and platonic. He buys me plane tickets whenever I want to go somewhere. You just have to have patience and sorry through all the messages you may receive. I met my other awesome sugar daddy through seeking arrangement. And man oh man, he loves to spend extraordinary amounts of money on me. He even brings me chicken model soup when Iâm sick!Â
 How do you not sleep with any of your sugar daddies?Â
 âȘ The biggest tip I can give is donât sell yourself short. Be realistic but know that you are special in your own way. A lot of SBs on here are very petty and envious of others and it becomes toxic. I donât know why SBs try to compete with each other so often but itâs kind of pointless. It should be empowering but you have no idea how many negative messages I get because I make a lot of money with no physical contact with any of my SDs. donât go the easy route and be easy. Iâve been a SB for well over 5 years. And I have never once slept with a SD. I make anywhere from 500-1500$ for lunch dates. 1000-3000$ for dinner dates. And that doesnât include the random perks of shopping or gift-giving. The point is, donât sell yourself short. The most I have ever done physically with a SD is kiss them. I know sex is a very big issue in this community for newcomers but just realize you can live the lifestyle without the sex.Â
 How much money do you make?Â
âȘ Because Iâm a full time student and full time worker, I donât have a superb amount of time to spend with my SDs. So they pay me per meeting. Itâs typically 1500 for each dinner or lunch we go to. Occasionally they take me shopping or bring me some extravagant gifts. So with just sugaring alone, I can make 8,000 a month if I try my hardest to keep an open schedule.Â
 Where do you meet sugar daddies or potentials for the first time?Â
âȘ Take your time planning everything out before you go. Make sure you have a lot of time to prepare and go through a little list of things to talk about, mentally. It is essentially a âfirst dateâ so donât freak yourself out over it. Youâre both human. It will be awkward for the first few minutes but once the conversation begins flowing, it all goes by with relative ease. No, I donât. If you do that right off the bat, they will most likely get turned off. I find platonic SDs that are much older than I am. I actually just had a gentleman around the age of 85 take me out for dinner and shopping. I left Intermix with 2500$ worth of clothing and over 1,000$ in cash. No touching involved. You just have to be patient!Â
Lol this is a gem đ
I just want to call out the fact that this girl is probably lying about her education too, as you donât get a âMD for psychiatryâ. If this fake ass chameleon actually went to medical school, like @medschoolsugar and I both do, she would know that you donât specialize until after you get your MD, once you enter a residency program.Â
I feel like she is just stealing parts of sugar and SW blogs that she likes and trying to mimic those.Â
Just one theory.Â
đđđđđđđđđđđđ I LOVE YOU @medicinalsugar So our fav has been: 1) sugaring since she was 18 2) working ~ 40 hours week in the medical field (where is she working where itâs low stress and fully staffed 24/7 idk but we all need to go there ) 3) performing adequately as a full time medical student (PSA for those who donât spend their youth killing themselves with the attempt of being able to heal others: psychiatrists are medical doctors, and they can write prescriptions. This means that thereâs NO OTHER graduate institution where you can bag that legal ability aside from medical school) 4) assured sheâll match in her desired specialty without taking any board exams (boards = day long exams that will make or break your medical career) 5) trolling through sugar sites habitually, going out and meeting real SDs 6) having multiple platonic arrangements that can total up to 8k monthly in the Midwest??? @sugaredbaby what drugs are you taking? I thought I was efficient with my time but youâve clearly got me beat. Please, share your tips and beauty routine with us. Oh, and Iâm sending @medicinalsugar my board review schedule, let me know if you need it too đ
If I bother you and get you this upset, why donât you stop responding? Like Iâm lmao right now. You think youâre superior to me but youâve probably spent a maximum of 5 hours reading all my posts and typing illegible research exams about me. Why donât you go do something with yourself instead of obsessing over my life? You know, because youâre clearly much more busy than me apparently, yet you have time to be petty and childish on tumblr. God I hope you never become an MD. You have a terrible personality and outlook. Iâm blocking you when I get home from Saks so donât bother responding - it wonât be read or acknowledged (basically how you probably are in real life).
~ 15 minutes as Iâm on the T right now and a girlâs gotta read something. Iâm genuinely curious, as I know how tweaked out I was before Step 1 and since Iâm GRADUATING from a reputable institution I would assume youâd want any and all advice possible before taking yours. I donât know what theyâre teaching you in the Midwest, but Iâve never turned down an opportunity to learn and better myself.
SoâŠ.study schedule or nah?
So how old are you? And youâre a sugar baby?
Iâm 25, and I live in Boston so Iâm sure you can figure out what my med school is đđ Iâm a Sugarbaby and escort
not trying to be an asshole. But no way your a full time sugar baby and med student. unless your panopting lectures and doing anatomy dissections in your sleep?! I would love to see your STEP schedule. Especially if you killed it. Iâm aiming for like a 260-270 which sounds incredibly unreasonable but if I donât shoot for the moon I wonât even end up near the stars... also Im prob the laziest when it comes to studying for standardized tests, I made this elaborate ass schedule for MCAT and didnât follow most of it, did reasonably well and got away with it but STEP is a completely different animal. And I sure as hell donât learn through osmosis I def put it at least 40 hours a week studying and going to class, I wish I could put in 50-60 but I just need sleep. I was in the bowl as a pre-med had mild success, got out, got a in a relationship before med school, he wanted me to settle down and marry and have kids which is OBVI no no Im only 24 ( even though he has potential to be multimillionare potential, still.. I need to make sure Iâm a functional MD and at least get through my fucking intern year before I think about kids... which was way to far away for him) and now Iâm thinking of getting back into the bowl because when Im not in the lib studying I get sad thinking about him and I need a distraction. Plus I live with med school roomies and I want to save up so I can live alone and kill STEP with no distractions lol.....
so basically.
1. this chick that says shes a full time sB and med student is FAKE and full of shit
2. to @medschoolsugar and @medicinalsugar I would love your STEP 1 schedule and in fact any tips for surviving this first block, 2nd year and getting honors during rotations
3. Iâm scared to get back in the bowl but Iâm doing it to get distracted and get my own damn apt ! fuck these damn loansÂ
