The blood means I love you

FUCK MY STUPID PARTLY LIFE

tastylittlepixie

bro what the fuck did you even do to accomplish this

like how is this even possible

WENT TO PEE WHILE IT WAS COOKING AND IT OVERFLOWED

tastylittlepixie

did you put the fork in the bowl after or was that in there the whole time

I did that after I'm not thatttttt stupid

fishgirlbarbels

I enjoy that this means you took the time to position the fork for the photo after the soup explosion

I wanted it to look nice

howlingmists

Partly what the fuck

👎‎

I honestly wish I could turn off notifications to a specific segment of a reblog chain on a post I made

Should I make a tgirls guide to staying fed. That seems like a thing I see a lot but I haven't found concrete guidance beyond "don't be afraid to eat"

cealvan

the top thing I would recomend is learn to prepare potatoes

they are the healthiest bang for your buck that I have found as far as price per calorie goes

they are starches so they don't burn easily like simple sugars will

not to mentio how versatile they are, boil em, mash em stick em in a stew type stuff

great for fattening ones self up on a budget

(don't forget to include a variety of other things, fruits, vegetables, proteins, grains, etc... potatoes should not replace anything you are currently eating, but should be added to what you are allready eating)

Learning rice and potatoes is one of the nicest things you can do for yourself. They both can be added on to almost any other set of ingredients and are really filling. Just last week I went through a whole 4lb bag of frozen hash browns and I don't regret a thing.

cealvan

do you have any tips for doing rice well?

it tends to make every dish feel the same to me

I honestly don't have a silver bullet on any method to follow to make rice feel exceptional every time aside from finding new recipes and copying them.

Whenever I make rice bowls in particular, I try to compensate with whatever I'm putting on top. Stronger flavors (heavily seasoning my protein in sauces, hoisin works very well), different textures (bean sprouts can be grown in a fridge really easily, fried onions can be cheap), or something on top that accents well with rice alone (fresh herbs, citrus, fish/soy sauce), these all do more to use the rice as a canvas rather than depending on the rice to add something interesting on its own.

Should I make a tgirls guide to staying fed. That seems like a thing I see a lot but I haven't found concrete guidance beyond "don't be afraid to eat"

cealvan

the top thing I would recomend is learn to prepare potatoes

they are the healthiest bang for your buck that I have found as far as price per calorie goes

they are starches so they don't burn easily like simple sugars will

not to mentio how versatile they are, boil em, mash em stick em in a stew type stuff

great for fattening ones self up on a budget

(don't forget to include a variety of other things, fruits, vegetables, proteins, grains, etc... potatoes should not replace anything you are currently eating, but should be added to what you are allready eating)

Learning rice and potatoes is one of the nicest things you can do for yourself. They both can be added on to almost any other set of ingredients and are really filling. Just last week I went through a whole 4lb bag of frozen hash browns and I don't regret a thing.

Should I make a tgirls guide to staying fed. That seems like a thing I see a lot but I haven't found concrete guidance beyond "don't be afraid to eat"

With everyone pointing out my url, yes very clever, however the common factor between the post and the person is that I have a passion for cooking and I believe that I can share this (very limited) knowledge to others who have a hard time feeding themselves, finding foods they enjoy, and doing so on a relatively small budget/ingredient selection.

Should I make a tgirls guide to staying fed. That seems like a thing I see a lot but I haven't found concrete guidance beyond "don't be afraid to eat"

Admittedly I have zero idea on how to advise getting past an eating disorder. That is not at all where my knowledge stands.

I know how to cook and I know how it feels needing to get up to battle my executive dysfunction for food. I just don't know if my guidance would be desired.

Should I make a tgirls guide to staying fed. That seems like a thing I see a lot but I haven't found concrete guidance beyond "don't be afraid to eat"

Admittedly I have zero idea on how to advise getting past an eating disorder. That is not at all where my knowledge stands.

Should I make a tgirls guide to staying fed. That seems like a thing I see a lot but I haven't found concrete guidance beyond "don't be afraid to eat"

Girls if you see this I am stuffing you full of high calorie and fat and protein food. For the boob and butt and hip growth, you see

missstrogen

Make girls fatter today, eat more carbs :)

For the girls with *certain* brainworms:

Your transition is fueled by calories and fat specifically. Unless you are extremely blessed by genetics, you will not grow the boobs, etc. you want without puttin calories in it, because boobs are almost entirely fat and have to GAIN new fat to make them.

Also if you feel you’re not developing fast enough, or as fast as the other girls, ask your mom, aunt, or grandma (on mom’s side) (if you safely can) if women in their side of the family family are early or late bloomers—it will legit help dysphoria so much to be able to go “oh, yeag my friend got D cups in 6 months on estrogen, but women in my family were the last in their classes to start puberty” rather than despairing that your transition is “just obviously a failure”. Trust me, I know and I was there too and my body is still growing and changing a LOT more 5 years on E bc my momma was a late bloomer too.

#Shredded hash brown‚ egg‚ cheese‚ green of your choice‚ optional meat like chopped bacon #Toss in a pan with generous cooking oil and salt and pepper #It's a really good lazy meal if you feel like stuffing yourself #Boobs will grow.#I don't have a meaningful amount of estrogen in my body but I'm also not completely flat because staying fed is incredibly important

IF YOU ARE SCROLLING AND HAVEN’T EATEN RECENTLY, THIS IS A SIGN TO GET UP AND GO EAT

Reblog it to make the girls around you go eat too 😤

i-suggest-vore

Do you think anyone has ever pickled a preything before? Like, I know there's cooking and food play but like, pickling specifically....

i-suggest-vore

You're going in the long time bath to enhance and sour your flavor

white t girl i love you. and also do not forget that you are not the modern martyr for the oppressed voice. that's still black girls. it's always been black girls. stories of black martyrdom simply don't make it into the news cycle until the unrest caused by its reporting can be packaged as a "riot" segment between traffic reports. i know you suffer, but whatever you're experiencing, i beg you, when interacting with your community and building nuanced understandings of each other and the system which binds us, to not forget that a black tgirl has felt it 100 times worse before positioning yourself as an authority on all systems of oppression for having suffered unjustly at all. because you have suffered unjustly, but suffering unjustly as a white person means something so much different.

serenely reblogging this once more after deleting responses from white people saying "talking about this is actually unhelpful because im oppressed too" yeah i know. i wrote that down in the post i made, and i also wrote down why remembering the difference is important. did you read it?

there is no malice in my reminder. no "you need to do better", just a reminder. do not read it as such. i didn't write it as such.

again. i did not say you were not oppressed. this post is literally about how you are oppressed. it is a reminder that you are not the most oppressed person in the world, a way i've seen a lot of white transfems acting lately. maybe not even necessarily in a detrimental way, but in a way that definitely leans towards the "white is default" lane of thinking, which erases black suffering, which erases progress towards black safety. this, to me, is troubling, which is why i made this post. it's important when building solidarity within our community to understand who the most vulnerable of us are, because the safety of the most vulnerable of us will ultimately be the safety of all of us.

please do not be offended when you are reminded that your skin is white. im not calling you evil. im asking you to remain aware of yourself.

Oh hey I wrote a small essay on exactly this back when I was still being kind and calmly explaining things to yakubian devils

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wow, look at that, a black trans woman saying the exact thing i said, except she said it a year ago and it didnt get as much traction.

"weird! i wonder why!" she exclaimed, whitely.

please read it. it's not long.

Thing is that I’m not the only Black trans woman writing theory on transfeminism, Black transfeminism, or trans intersectionality - I’m just lightskinned and won’t shut up so I’m one of the most visible ones, and crackers STILL get mad at me for saying the most basic-ass concepts like “white people are still white even if they’re otherwise marginalized”

In many cases, intracommunity racial intersectionality fails because given the choice between solidarity with nonwhite trans people and white people (trans or cis), white trans people will almost always side with other whites in the hopes of preserving a degraded position within white supremacy, because they internally see being “lesser” within whites supremacy but still above nonwhites as preferable to solidarity with nonwhites that loses them that positionality.

mystery-incorporated-whore

I wanna toss this link on here because it’s directly related to the whole “lack of intracommunity solidarity when race is involved” thing and has a specific example from my local community.

💬 0 🔁 132 ❤️ 218 · 100% agreed, but I also want to bring up a similar concern specific to Black transfemmes: the intersection of gendered

if i reblog nothing else for juneteenth i wanted to make sure i brought this one back

numahachi

howlingmists

Me @ all my wonderful transfem friends who are also in their thirties

#wait for me there

My voice was ruined by testosterone but I've also ruined it with copious amounts of coffee so now at least I sound like a milf with an addiction.

I want a lightly raspy but comforting voice that's as sweet as honey, and it hasn't happened yet. Something that sounds how a warm blanket feels.

Girlthings are telling me I already have this voice.

My voice was ruined by testosterone but I've also ruined it with copious amounts of coffee so now at least I sound like a milf with an addiction.

I want a lightly raspy but comforting voice that's as sweet as honey, and it hasn't happened yet. Something that sounds how a warm blanket feels.

squishysphealbelly

if i met a lamia nothing would be able to stop me