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Billionaires prefer black women, they are loyal & guard your interests. Black wives are for grown-ups.
Ben Horowitz
I DESERVE to date nfl, nba, mlb, fortune 500 ceos, business execs, etc. That’s just the type of girl I am, I deserve to be spoiled with diamonds, cars, bags, properties, anything i want!
ALL Women, especially BLACK WOMEN should be high maintenance. Period. Imagine lowering your standards for men that probably barely knows how to wash their ass correctly! I hate to see it!
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Best Places to Freestyle in NYC
(In no particular order)
The Mark Hotel, UES
Lexington Bar and Books, UES
Flute Midtown, Midtown Manhattan
Gold Bar, Little Italy***
Brandy Library, TriBeca
Verlaine, LES
King Cole Bar, Midtown East
Rainbow Room, Meatpacking
Jimmy at The James Hotel, TriBeca ***
Lavo, Midtown East***
Salon De Ning, Midtown West
Westlight, Williamsburg***
Tao Downtown, Chelsea**
1 Oak, Chelsea***
Boom Boom Room at The Standard Hotel, Chelsea***
Harry’s Cafe and Steak, FiDi
Delmonico’s. FiDi
Cipriano Downtown, SoHo
Gotham Bar and Grill
Forty Four Lounge, Midtown West
*** I’ve been to a few of these places. Either on dates or for photoshoots. Ive been to every nightclub in NYC because I go with promoters, I hate them all but if you go with an MO then it can be pretty lucrative.
All of these places are quite expensive ($16+ for a cocktail) so be prepared to buy at least one drink or even get a sugar daddy to take so you can experience it for $free.99
Feel free to add!
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- Del Frisco’s Double Eagle Steakhouse (happy hour-dinner hours) - Del Frisco’s Grille (during lunch) - Mastro’s - Capital Grille - American Cut - STK - Nobu 57 - Papillon (during happy hour - 10 PM if you’re looking for a younger finance bro to make your boyfriend & eventually husband) - Bill’s Bar & Burger/Bill’s Townhouse (lunch hours) - Club Macanudo (Monday-Thursday nights) - Bar & Books (any location on weeknights, but OP is right about the UES, it’s my favorite) - Grand Havana Room (good luck getting in, you need to be invited) - Rose Bar at the Gramercy Park Hotel - Baccarat Hotel Bar - Dead Rabbit (happy hour, also a good place to find your young finance bro bf/husband) - various bars & restaurants in/around Grand Central, snag those Connecticut men before they go back to their boring suburban lives
Temple Court, BlackTail, Buddakan, The Office, Top of the Standard, Raines Law Room, The Nomad Bar, Weather Up, Analogue, Press Lounge…I could literally go on forever
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For all those asking where to freestyle in NYC!!
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How to Turn Vanilla to Sugar - Part 1
I was just giving some advice to a follower of mine when I realised it was a fabulous advice post, so I’m sharing it all with you. - You’re welcome
Not every rich man is generous!
That’s the sad truth! a man may have money but he may be stingy with it. When you see this happening, admit your losses, move on, and don’t hold a grudge. It will only hinder your efforts.
There are little tests you can do to ascertain a man’s generosity.
I will touch on this in the posts in a few weeks. But here’s an example just for you sugar.
The Headphone Test
G.L.Lambert touches on this in his book ‘Ho Tactics’. He talks about when you are on a date to go an meet a man, create a fake lil emergency that he should help you with. For example, tell him that you left your earphones/headphones in the taxi/ bus/ train and ask hi if he could pick you up a pair on his way to meet you.
Different types of men respond to this differently.
Salt: they tell you that they don’t have any cash on hem, or whatever excuse. Or perhaps they buy you earphones from the pound store. Maybe he even goes as far as telling you that instead he will try and help you call the transport you used, to see if you can retrieve them. If this, or something similar happens, run for the god-damn, hills and never come back, he is salt.
Splenda: This man maybe gives you his moderately expensive headphones he has at home and tells you to keep them. Possibly, he buys you some regular headphones on his way and presents them to you, Either way, he finds a way to give you headphones that aren’t cheap, but aren’t necessarily expensive either.
Sugar: Our favourite type of man buys you beats, or 50 cent headphones, or whatever expensive headphones are trending when you read this. He could also tell you that he’ll take you to go get a new pair when you finish your date
One thing I will caution you on, is not to leave the date without deciphering what kind of man he is. So don’t accept any promises for buyng you some headphones online when ou get home. There is no time like now! Yes he could buy them in a couple of days, or maybe not, but the point isn’t for new headphones, the whole point of this is to determine his sugar … or salt level. You do not want to have wasted 2 weeks talking to this guy only for the headphones to arrive and they are from Topshop.
Converting a vanilla into sugar is not a quick process
Unlike website like Seeking Arrangement, men don’t come with the notion ‘I’m going to be a Sugar Daddy’ already in mind. You have to treat this like a normal relationship. A lot of these men will run if they heard you say ‘sugar daddy’, often because they have negative connotations of sugar relationship, or they think you are a gold digger, or they don’t want to feel like an ‘old man’. SO it requires more thinking, your goal is to finesse things slowly from this man/woman, then ultimately work your way to your go whether it’s a 5K allowance or trophy wife status.
There are two ways to approach this. I’ve based these on acctual scientific research (because nerd obvs) and personal experience turning vanilla to sweet sweet sugar.
Surge, Retreat, Approach
I’m sure you’ve heard it before. Here’s the concept, in order to make someone more likely to do what you want, make a big request. Usually something extravagant or very large. In order words, it’s essential that it is way more outlandish than your actual goal. Why? Because there’s a 99% chance that you will be rejected! ‘Why do I want to be rejected Bronzy I here you say? Well it’s because your next request (your goal) will seem a lot more reasonable. Therefore, now they’ve stopped panicking and think ‘’that’s not as bad, I can actually do that’. And this is a superb tactic to use on splenda. Because you could have asked him your goal straight up, and chances are, if he’s splenda, he wouldn’t be able to ‘afford it’ or he’s only be able to provide something half as expensive. So with this you have raised the bar, so when he brings that bar down, it’s exactly where you wanted it to be in the first place.
This is something I used on a POT I was rinsing recently. Through conversation I could tell he was quite tight fisted, but I don’t let that out me off. I asked him to buy me a wallet, he accepted and told me to send him the link. So I sent him two options, One super expensive wallet ( that personally i would not even buy if I had the money) and the wallet I actually wanted. I told him to ‘pick the one he thinks would look best on me’ and just like I had anticipated, he picked the cheapest option, (the bag I wanted). This is just one example of how Surge, Retreat, Approach can work (please read the disclaimer at the bottom).
Seeking Steadily
This is the most effective, but also time consuming method. If you are rinsing (i.e, getting them coins w/out any intention of intimacy or physical contact), then I would be wary using this approach. This is the notion of asking for small things at a time, then gradually working your way up to your goal. When you ask someone to do you a small favour, they then become 40%** more likely to agree to your larger (goal request) than if you were to ask them outright.
Let’s get nerdy for a bit. The study i saw, had the goal of getting home-owners to put up a large sign in their front garden.. In the first experiment, the straight out asked the home-owners if they would put the sign in their front garden. Less than 50% of subjects agreed. In the second experiment, they asked the home-owners, if they could put a small sticker in front of their house. Of those that accepted, they then came back a week or so later, and asked if they could put the sign in there front garden. As you’ve guessed, way more subjects allowed their front garden to display the large sign.
In summary, get someone to commit to something small, and they are way more likely to agree to your larger and ultimate goal.
So for example, you’ve put on your wishlist to have a Givenchy bag by Christmas. So come October or November, as your vanilla or splenda to buy you a wallet or shoes (anything that costs at most, half the price of your goal), then come Christmas, it’s time to ask for what you actually want. The same applies to ultimately getting an allowance from a man. It takes dedication, but it’s how I changed Director from Vanilla, to gift daddy, to splenda, to ultimately, sugar daddy. Next stop, whale! Stick around to see if I make it
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*Surge, Retreat, Approach, although quicker, is more high risk than Seeking Steadily because there is a possibility, that certain men will be frighten by your expensive/ outlandish request and just leave, without you having the chance to negotiate.
** I don’t remember the exact figure, that’s just an estimation.
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Pro-tip: If a potential SD asks “what you’re willing to do,” as in sexually, instead of flying off the goddamn handle like some of you do, just say something like “What I will or won’t do depends on my comfort level with the person I’m with. There are things I like that I haven’t done with certain partners and things I’ve never tried that I enjoyed with certain partners and not others. Trust and respect are what shape what I’m willing to do, so I can’t give you a definite answer on that. I am very open minded if I truly enjoy the person I’m with.” It lets them know you won’t be easy (but that they have a chance), and gets you out of talking sexually. Answer any subsequent questions at your own discretion.
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Communication Tips
So, I think to be a successful SB or escort, you must have top notch communication skills. I think this is partly why I am so successful. Most SDs and clients tell me I am very attractive but I’m not a super model and I’m not a skinny little thing by any means.
My real job requires me to constantly hone my communication skills and I need to often speak to others about very sensitive subjects. I’ll give some suggestions that maybe others will find useful in their sex work endeavors.
1.) Open ended questions. This allows for more communication and draws more information from the person being asked the question. So instead of saying “What’s you job?” you might ask “Tell me about your work?”
2.) Details. It may be tempting to zone out and just get lit up while out with clients and SDs. Bad idea. You might miss some minute detail that can win you serious bonus points in the future. Like remembering your SD’s kid is having surgery or what his favorite beer is. If you remember, he’ll think you sincerely like him and is promotes a sense of intimacy.
3.) Vocabulary. Try to learn a new word daily. The more intelligent you sound, the more impressed your SD/client will be. Successful men like to know their partner is capable of intelligent conversation. If you are spouting some asinine drivel, your looks will only get you so far.
4.) Time. Provide adequate time for your client/SD to ask questions and give information. If you bombard him with questions, he may feel like you are prying or simply feel overwhelmed. If you do not ask enough questions, you may seem uninterested.
5.) Nonverbals. This is huge. We as humans, communicate a great deal with expression and body language. Don’t cross your arms. Don’t stare off into space. Don’t have a sour or bored expression on your face. It’s best to listen intently, sometimes nod your head and make a sympathetic expression, touch his arm or thigh lightly with your hand. When walking, you can brush up against his arm with your body.
6.) Don’t lie too much. I know certain SBs and escorts lie about particulars in their life. I totally understand that, we need to keep ourselves free from stalkers and weirdos. However, if you lie about too much, you’ll eventually entangle yourself. Tell the truth for most things and if something might be particularly exposing, tell a plausible lie, something that you will be sure to remember in the future.
When a man asks you about an ideal arrangement:
Well, good question. My ideal arrangement is where we are both comfortable with each other. You get a bit of what you want and I get a bit of what I want. You get to be with a sexy, romantic, vibrant, mature, and (sexual girl) who’s also charismatic, and intelligent, etc and I get to be with a man who is willing to provide financial need in my life. I want to feel like a queen and a man who can invest in me is a keeper in my book. I am open to intimacy eventually. I am happy with per meet or monthly allowances. I do like cash though. I am happy per meet when we are platonic, and then when intimacy is involve and you see my sexual side, I am happy for a monthly allowance (of course money raised). I have been doing this for a good amount of time to know what I want. Per meet, I am totally comfortable of minimum _____. I would like to know if you are willing to let me see other men because if so, then monthly will just be doubled but if not monthly will be around ____. (Remember the more you invest in me, the more luxurious I can be for you and the more “prettier” I can be ;).
Dont start fallin in love just because somebody showing you a little bit of attention
WHOOPs, here I go again!!!
Joanne the Scammer should be the icon for sugar babies. I realized that a lot of my failings and being taken advantage of thus far have mostly been from my honesty. I am generally too open about my feelings which could even be bad in daily encounters. To be successful at this, I realize I need to be a bit creative when dealing with these kind of people. Scam the day before the day scams you.