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🔞 Minors DNI Some kind of creature refiguring herself out. Sunny Haven (she/her & it/its). Born in 2002. Sometimes I do hypnosis, will rarely blog about it here. Kinda just posting various stuff here. Plural with many headmates who may sometimes post here. Transfem, I guess (on HRT since 2/28/2025). Gender and species identities are up in the air; shapeshifter because of that.

[koboldfactory]

Odd question, why do you want to be called It? Isn’t that “pronoun” dehumanizing?

I like to be called “it” because the last thing I want to be on this planet is human.

[peachebo]

Wrong way

[sunny-haven]

oh.... that's cool that's cool.... really cool... yeah the bellveins would be perfect for coming out into a space like this..

[sunny-haven]

y'know, with Deltarune Chapter 5, i wanted to make a video of my theories surrounding Asriel Knight before the chapter released, but dunno if i'll have the energy to make it with the mental state i'm in... bwaahhh... which sucks 'cause i've been really vague to my friends relying on releasing this video to explain my thoughts/theories but bweh...

[oidial]

yeaa... thats burger of my saturday, thats burger..... :)

she's burger!!!!!!!!!

[oidial]

[oidial]

anything/anyone can be a sheep if you believe

shes a border collie!!! so she takes medicine to dampen her herding instinct!!! except when she doesn't.... ! all sheep* to the sheep corner NOW

*sheep/ sheep adjacent

and some backgrounds! some of you have not realized these aren't apart of the comic and thought i was doing some scary horror 'they weren't real' bit, so i have added a WARNING! <3

OK, TEEHEE, BYE!!!!!

[oidial]

she really needs more non-cat friends

WOW. swearing... noot cool.....

also cat bonking does NOT make you a bitch. cat4 is lying to mess with april for fun and games. do NOT believe her!!!!!!!! PLEASE

this one isnt the best, many a issues and also it maybe doesnt make sense idk BUT i got myself to finish a comic idea! yahoo!!!! maybe a dumb comic idea but cats and dogs got drawn and thats all that matters. heart.

i have to go, sleeping is waiting for me in my bed RIGHT now.

[terraswallows]

:3

[pigswithwings]

ITS GOING TO BE OKAY AND I LOVE YOU. I HOPE YOU'RE SAFE I HOPE YOU GET TO REST. I LOVE YOU! I CARE ABOUT YOU. I WANT YOU TO BE WELL. ITS NOT GOING TO BE LIKE THIS FOREVER I PROMISE. I LOVE YOU!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[pigswithwings]

im so proud of you. im so very very proud of you. did you know how beautiful you are? how lovely you are? im so happy youre here. did you know theres a universe inside every person? i love you. youre beautiful. im so glad youre here and you made it and youre still going. im so very proud of you. you are special just because you are alive. i love you, okay? you're going to be okay. i am so, so proud of you

[chromadisc]

"How long did it take for her to smile?"

[pikadxrat]

you, reading this. you're a creature now. reblog to creature your followers

[creatures-in-posts]

this creature is you

[charlemane]

writing tip: searching "[place of origin]ish names" will get you a lot of stuff and nonsense made up by baby bloggers.

searching "[place] census [year]" will get you lists of real names of real people who lived in that place.

[homoqueerjewhobbit]

I feel like I'm constantly shilling for them but BehindTheName.com, the only baby name site that doesn't feel like it's run by mommy bloggers, includes census-based graphs for dozens of countries/regions (though not all of them go back very far yet)

And you can expand them to see rank, number of babies, and percentage of babies and add a second name to compare. (in 1973 four percent of babies were named Jennifer! 1 in 25!!!)

Also this. Cursed.

[emperorsfoot]

@homoqueerjewhobbit what name did you search for your example, and what's going on with Moldova?

[homoqueerjewhobbit]

Those are the graphs for Samuel. They only have 1 year's data for Moldova right now, so that's why it's a straight line. Similarly, they only have 2 years for Mexico right now. The US goes back to 1880. I'm not sure how much of that is publicly available/translated records and how much of it is that it's like 1 or 2 guys maintaining a website of 27000 names and a finite amount of time to format and upload.

Here's the list of all of the countries/regions they have popularity statistics for if you want to nerd out on it!

[some-teeth-in-a-trench-coat]

You can't advertise BehindTheName for writers without mentioning the advanced search! You can search names based on cultural origin and usage, gender (including unisex), meaning, and even things like meter and number of syllables, or famous namesakes (you can also see a list of famous namesakes on every name's page, along with meaning, history, related names, alternate spellings in different languages, the above popularity graphs, and more).

I wouldn't even call BehindTheName a baby name site. They have a surname sister site and a random name generator with tons of variables to set that is very clearly intended to be used for fictional characters (iirc it can even generate a cause of death? I haven't looked at it in many years so it might have changed but these things predate generative AI so unless it's been forcefully enshittified it shouldn't be slop). Like, you can use it for baby names, but the website isn't explicitly intended for that purpose. This website caters to us.

[kiruliom]

no id, help welcome

neobiota or spongy moth

a term for individuals who feel disconnected from their native culture. they may feel guilty for it and may or may not try to reconnect or reclaim it but neither of these are necessary so long as the user isnt being outwardly racist.

reasons can be but isnt exclusive to:

transracial adoptions, growing up on the english internet due to neglect which is heavily US-centric, being a post 1st gen immigrant, being unable to not associate your country with bigotry, internalized racism, UScentricism and eurocentricism as a whole.

this is not a presentation term. i cant choose who uses this term but know i dont support white pride or colonialism and this is not what this post is about. while its not exclusive its made with POC in mind

coined by aster, tagging @radiomogai @cultural-mogai @misc-id-pt @scr-ppup @showgai @goregender @masobf

[sunny-haven]

me with my Hispanic heritage...

[sunny-haven]

Going to be on a fundraising stream with @valadren for the next two weeks starting today! 12pm to 5pm on each weekday. I'm gonna be there mooosst of the time. If you wanna pop in and say hi and donate if you can, here's the livestream link :3

Vivian Must Pay Rent! Day 1 - The Last Promise

I am running out of money to make the next three rent payments (that's $4500! Wowza) and so I have gathered some friends to help me both fin

[scaribou]

My apologies to anyone who has casually asked me what my ideal superpower would be, because I cannot be normal about the answer.

[sunny-haven]

there are days where i mope about being unable to stick with a particular form for long but overall, yeah, shapeshifting would be really great and i really really want the ability to do so

[hannahlockillustration]

Commission for Rika

[rhiotta]

Y'know what? Fuck you. *modifies your spritesheet* I'm also putting oddly graphic depiction of cartoon penis on my chapter 5 bingo card. I just think it'd be funny if the little dot eyes weren't visual shorthand from sprite limitations and they just Look Like That. The recent album art only emboldens my vision. This script is actually hella old and I wanted to save it for much later. I kinda spoiled dot eyes Kris a little bit already. Will I ever get to draw this comic in order? Thank you, Toby for giving me 2 weeks to prioritize my more time sensitive scripts. Hopefully any contemporaneous jokes meant for pre-CH5 that I didn't have time to put out are Still Funny.

Cute Beady Eyes: -∞ Aura debuff

[sunny-haven]

I will forever love your Deltarune comics, you make the soul and Kris have such a goofy relationship <3

[corvid-language-library]

The sooner you start, the sooner you'll be done with it and the sooner you can stop thinking about it. Go on, up you get, it won't be as bad as you think.

[corvid-language-library]

You won't want to do it later either. You might as well just do it now. Even if you don't finish it all, anything you manage to get done now is something you don't have to do later (when you still won't want to do it)

[mealreminders]

If you're hungry and putting off making something, you'll be even more miserable later when you're more hungry. Best go do it now.