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@sunraydomination
personally I'm annoyed by the socioeconomic conditions that made words like "unalive" necessary but simultaneously impressed by the linguistic adaptations young people have made to continue talking about important things while subject to those conditions and I think if you can't hold both of those thoughts in your head you might just be old man yelling at cloud
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you are white before you are trans and i feel like some of y'all forget that
SAY IT LOUDER
When a black person states that something you did was racist, chill the fuck out. Its annoying dealing with you panicking trying to dissociate yourself from racism. If you're not black, black people already assume youve said nigga or its variant at least once in your life. If they're interacting with you and bringing something up, its because they want you to stop doing that so they can still interact with you(if ur already friends)
You WILL be racist. You WILL do racist things. You have ALREADY done both. Learn and move on. There's no ideological purity you can hold on to, i promise. Proving you can take the criticism without making it a big deal and practice what you preach is better than any clean slate.
Be the kind of person black people don't have to gamble on. Shut up and lock in
Every time you post about how much you hate men and that they all should die violently, an egg's shell gets a bit thicker and that closet gets deeper
The comments on this video are absolutely fucking disgusting, a TRANS man came onto tiktok wanting to know why transmen are often excluded from queer spaces.
Clearly he is upset that he isnt invited to a lot of spaces because he passes as a cis man, of course I make the dumb mistake of opening the comments.
ALL the top comments are straight up fucking rude and disgusting towards him and transmen in general. Heres a few I wanted to share
Like im sick and tired of seeing straight/cis women claiming to be allies of the queer community WHEN THIS IS HOW THEY TREAT TRANSMEN
Like if you look at the original video this dude looks so sad that he isnt invited to any spaces or seen as queer because he 'passes' as a man and its absolutely disgusting how the women were acting in his comment section.
Transmen deserve to be included in queer spaces <3
One of the reasons a lot of anti-transandrophobia/transmascilinity talking points really bother me is because it's just "why we don't need biphobia" repackaged.
"You cannot be oppressed by being a man just use transphobia" "you cannot be oppressed by liking the opposite gender, just use homophobia"
"We don't need a new word for that"
"Well you can pass as straight so you don't get oppressed" "well you can pass off as a man so you don't get oppressed"
"you're distracting people from the real problems"
"you're just trying to be special"
And also anti-poly/aphobia/panphobia talk repackaged tbh
If you wouldn’t tell a trans woman “if you want to be a woman then I’m going to treat you like one” and then proceed to act extremely misogynistic, why the fuck would you do the same thing to a trans man? It’s also just extremely easy to tell that you’re not treating trans men like you would cis men, so what’s the point?
already seeing people throwing around the term "birthday boy" and being transmedicalist about it.
literally why does anyone give a fuck about this guys tattoo????????
like this is genuinely fucking embarrassing for Y'ALL. if the fact that trans men have uteri and will talk about it and have feelings about it is this goddamn upsetting, go work on that yourself. i need y'all to reflect on why you love hallucinating the worst possible intentions when it comes to anything and everything a trans man does. this is so extremely a non-issue y'all just want to be an issue because the idea of trans men doing anything but quietly pretending to be cis men with extra steps triggers your internalized anti-transmasculinity.
not a single trans person on EARTH needs ANYONE'S permission to feel any kind of way about their sexed traits. not trans women or nonbinary with their penises, not trans men or nonbinary with uteruses, nobody. "its bioessentialist" TO HAVE?????? AN ORGAN YOU WERE BORN WITH AND WHICH IS HIGHLY STIGMATIZED AND SO HAVE FEELINGS ABOUT IT YOU EXPRESS THROUGH ART??????????????????? oh cry me a goddamn river. you know what you are soooo right let's ban every trans man from ever talking about having a uterus or abortion or pregnancy, because its kind of bioessentialist and transmisogynistic to talk about the highly stigmatized body you have!!!!!!!!!
to quote a person in the notes' very shitty defense of why this tattoo is "bioessentialist":
The replies on this post are absolutely full of trans men defending the bioessentialist back tat. Because it’s been buried in sealioning and mansplaining, I’ll say it again: if a trans woman got a tattoo like this depicting any of her cagab’s reproductive organs, she’d be put on a sex offender registry (or perhaps a kiwifarms thread). You people KNOW this tattoo looks terfy. It’s impossible to ignore. And that’s why you need to tie yourselves in knots to pretend it isn’t.
that a trans woman would get shit on for having a tattoo of her genitals (which i would also defend btw. i think trans women should Also be allowed to have art about their sex traits on their body, i don't think art of penises should be seen as inherently evil or disgusting) is irrelevant to why this tattoo is supposedly so bad. "trans women couldn't do this!!!" okay? that's unfair but it is, i cannot express this enough, not this guy's fucking problem.
i am Positive that there are cis people who would also freak the fuck out about this and bitch and moan and make a big transphobic stink about it, too. i don't know if you guys have noticed, but anytime a company dares to put top surgery scars on any kind of advertising, people have a meltdown over "celebrating the mutilation of young girls." transphobes are not normal about trans men either!
"people KNOW this tattoo looks terfy" i think ceding the grounds of ANY art made of one of the most stigmatized and controlled organs in a human body to TERFs is fucking stupid and misogynistic! & i also know if a cis woman did this y'all would not care even half as much, because you are all just swept up in the queer community's most recent Crabs In A Bucket discourse and you jump at ANY chance to paint trans men as evil transmisogynists rubbing their uteri in poor trans women's faces by virtue of. checks notes. talking about having their ability to have an abortion legally denied which can in fact kill people.
i do not know how to tell you people this any clearer
it is not bioessentialism for trans men to have uteri and talk about having a uterus and make art about having a uterus. you are just projecting bioessentialism onto trans men because you have deeply ingrained anti-transmasculinity and the present discourse has worsened it immensely. it is not bioessentialist to have an extremely stigmatized organ used by patriarchy to control people and to talk about that sometimes or make art of that sometimes.
"anatomy does not indicate gender" until trans men talk about their anatomy. suddenly theyre clinging to womanhood
no, a trans man having a tattoo of a uterus isnt clinging to womanhood because womanhood isnt stored in the uterus. i think it is bioessentialism to assume that "uterus = woman" actually
you know what they say, every accusation is a confession
if a trans man needs to hide the fact that he's trans in order to access any form of male privilege, i simply do not believe that is real privilege. i will, and never will, accept that the closet is a privilege. any queer person can go into the closet to access "privilege," and it's dumb when you all try to argue that bs too. are you not tired of making the exact same arguments about recycled queer groups every 5-10 years? nothing is ever new except the New Queer Enemy really IS privileged and evil this time, we promise!
so many people are quick to remove the "trans" descriptor when taking about trans men.
"you don't experience discrimination/bigotry based on your gender, you're a man."
"you couldn't possibly understand how women are objectified, you're a man."
"you don't face medical misogyny, you're a man."
genuine questions for people who believe this: what do you think trans means? how do you think most trans men lived a significant portion of our lives? do you truly believe we're treated the same as cis men, even when we are visibly trans? do you believe that trans men aren't actually trans, or that we're not actually men?
I reject the premise that trans women are the "main" targets of transphobia. I reject the premise that trans women are victimized more, worse, or more intentionally by transphobia than trans men. I reject the premise that trans men are only accidental or secondary targets of transphobia. I reject the premise that trans men are merely splash damage casualties in attacks against trans women. I reject the premise that trans men are only accidentally harmed by transphobia.
I should not have to post about transmasc issues with a disclaimer that "of course" trans women are hurt worse by this. I should not have to apologize for posting about transmasc issues instead of transfemme issues.
There is nothing accidental about transphobia. Every facet of it is intentional. Trans men are not bystanders in the genocide against all trans people. Trans men aren't accidental targets of trans genocide.
Absolutely exhausting to see people's response to "hating men ultimately leads to all types of transphobia. It doesn't belong in feminist spaces and ultimately harms everyone involved. Hating men is in fact not decentering men." And seeing half the comments be "well trans men are all evil misogynists who need to die" or "maybe I wouldn't hate trans men if they stopped acting like they're oppressed" YOU ARE PART OF THE PROBLEM
If you tell tell a black transmasc that they have it easy because they're black I'm going to kill you with hammers. Non-negotiable.
if a marginalized man starts talking about his struggles and you make it about how much you hate men you are not a good person tbh
The only way forward is to stop treating masculinity as synonymous with harmful, monstrous, or dangerous.
my message to white queers.
