SecretThings

Hello! I'm supersecret! Or Sara. 21 y/o. happily in a relationship! Here you can expect all the sexy stuff that I like or that appeals to me in some way. Welcome to my blog. Don't hesitate to send me an ask. :) If you're 18+, welcome! If not, well, Please come back when you are old enough. Seriously. Leave now. *** Disclaimer: That is me in my profile picture. You do not have permission to take credit or claim it as yours.*** ~if I post something and you want it removed, because it's yours or a photo of yours please let me know.

[supersecret-things]

New blog is up and running!

Come join me! https://the-submissive-diary.tumblr.com/post/161634214318/intro-post I hope to see you there.

[supersecret-things]

New blog news! Status update

This is gonna be brief as it is late for me. I’m making a new blog! For reasons that i’m diffrent then when i first made this blog.

I’m excited, and i hope my current followers will join me on the new blog and that new journey. More details soon. Tomorrow most likely. I already have the account mostly set up.

Thank you all. :)

[supersecret-things]

Reblogging. More details tonight, with a link too the new blog. I promise!

[thedenier-deactivated20180804]

Listen

Don’t think… let your cunt do your thinking for you.  It’s trying to talk, and you should listen–every throb, every clench as you scroll through your feed is your cunt trying to guide you, to show you what it really likes.  So, give it more. Don’t think. Don’t reason.  Give your cunt another reason to clench, your clit another reason to throb.  Give it more of what it wants. More rubbing, more edging. More and more and more. Don’t stop, don’t think–just listen. Listen for the warning, for when it screams at you.  It’s telling you to stop.  It’s telling you it needs for you to stop. It’s not begging you to let it cum–that’s what YOU want. That’s what happens when you think, when you get close and assume that your cunt needs to cum because you aren’t listening. Because you’re thinking. So listen… and don’t think. Your cunt can do the thinking for you. 

[supersecret-things]

New blog news! Status update

This is gonna be brief as it is late for me. I'm making a new blog! For reasons that i'm diffrent then when i first made this blog. I'm excited, and i hope my current followers will join me on the new blog and that new journey. More details soon. Tomorrow most likely. I already have the account mostly set up. Thank you all. :)

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[enscenic]

um

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Drippy droppy sinking deeper

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sex

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S_LT_T_D_

[dotroom]

[konczakowski]

[lematworks]

[quiet-your-troubled-mind]

Can’t you just feel yourself being pulled in by this?

Can’t you just feel yourself so easily going along with it?

Can’t you just feel yourself falling for it?

Can’t you just feel yourself dropping faster and deeper?

[lematworks]

Produced by LEMAT WORKS

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[convoluted-moonscape]

So cool!

[trance-witch]

this one got me feeling like i’m sinking deeper and deeper into trance. @.@

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CosmicSignalStream

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Pulses…..

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DOTMU: Dogs Of The Marvel Universe by Josh Lynch

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@danipup

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[mrzeitgeist]

The Truth About Kinky Women

This was written in response to a FetLife post. The poster was wondering why no one was responding to his profile or his entreaties to be invited to parties.

You want to meet a girl that you can explore your kinky side with. That’s wonderful.

Let me ask you something:

Do you have a match.com or OK Cupid a profile that says “I’m a guy. I’m looking for a girl. If you’re a girl or know a girl, would you send her to me please?”

Suppose you’re into stamp collecting. Do you go into stamp-collecting forums and say “I’m a guy who thinks he may like stamp collecting, and I’m looking for a girl to fuck and teach me about stamp collecting.”?

Do you see a girl at Starbucks drinking coffee and say “Hey, I like coffee, too. Wanna fuck?”

Every time you post on here asking for people to “help you out,” that’s exactly what you’re doing.

You seem to think that just because a woman is into getting tied up, beaten, and fucked in the ass, she’s somehow different from a “normal” woman. You seem to think that just because a woman likes to have sex, talk about sex, and sometimes be naked in front of people, she should want to do that with you, without knowing anything at all about you except that you like women to get naked in front of you.

Submissives aren’t submissive to everyone

You’ll hear submissives say “I’m submissive, but I’m not your submissive.” No matter how many times you’ve read The Story of O, there is no chateau full of submissive women who are available on demand to anyone who wants to use them.

Kinky women are not whores

Some kinky women may like it when their partner calls them “whore,” but they’re not sex workers. They’re not in the business of making sex of any sort available to all comers. (And contrary to popular belief, there is not a rule that actual sex workers have to accept whoever is willing to pay them.)

Kinky women are not easy

Some kinky women have multiple partners. Some women will do some sort of limited play with people they just met. As a rule most women will not get intimate with a guy they know nothing about. Kinky women are no different.

Kinky women are not objects

Sure, some women like being objectified, to be used as furniture, ashtrays, fuck toys, even toilets. But you know what? The women who like that trust the people who do that to them, Do you know why they trust them? Because they know them as people. They have connected as human beings before they connected as kinksters.

Kinky women have feelings

Do some kinky women want to be humiliated, degraded, hurt, and used? Absolutely. This may be hard to understand, but while they may want all those things, they want them in a supportive, trusting, and caring environment. You call my girlfriend a bitch, she’ll kick your balls. I call her a bitch, and she melts in my arms. See the difference?

The Truth About Kinky Women by Septimus1812 is licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution-NonCommercial-ShareAlike 3.0 Unported License.

[toodomforyou]

A very good post to keep in mind.

-SD

[mrzeitgeist]

The Truth About Kinky Women

This was written in response to a FetLife post. The poster was wondering why no one was responding to his profile or his entreaties to be invited to parties.

You want to meet a girl that you can explore your kinky side with. That’s wonderful.

Let me ask you something:

Do you have a match.com or OK Cupid a profile that says “I’m a guy. I’m looking for a girl. If you’re a girl or know a girl, would you send her to me please?”

Suppose you’re into stamp collecting. Do you go into stamp-collecting forums and say “I’m a guy who thinks he may like stamp collecting, and I’m looking for a girl to fuck and teach me about stamp collecting.”?

Do you see a girl at Starbucks drinking coffee and say “Hey, I like coffee, too. Wanna fuck?”

Every time you post on here asking for people to “help you out,” that’s exactly what you’re doing.

You seem to think that just because a woman is into getting tied up, beaten, and fucked in the ass, she’s somehow different from a “normal” woman. You seem to think that just because a woman likes to have sex, talk about sex, and sometimes be naked in front of people, she should want to do that with you, without knowing anything at all about you except that you like women to get naked in front of you.

Submissives aren’t submissive to everyone

You’ll hear submissives say “I’m submissive, but I’m not your submissive.” No matter how many times you’ve read The Story of O, there is no chateau full of submissive women who are available on demand to anyone who wants to use them.

Kinky women are not whores

Some kinky women may like it when their partner calls them “whore,” but they’re not sex workers. They’re not in the business of making sex of any sort available to all comers. (And contrary to popular belief, there is not a rule that actual sex workers have to accept whoever is willing to pay them.)

Kinky women are not easy

Some kinky women have multiple partners. Some women will do some sort of limited play with people they just met. As a rule most women will not get intimate with a guy they know nothing about. Kinky women are no different.

Kinky women are not objects

Sure, some women like being objectified, to be used as furniture, ashtrays, fuck toys, even toilets. But you know what? The women who like that trust the people who do that to them, Do you know why they trust them? Because they know them as people. They have connected as human beings before they connected as kinksters.

Kinky women have feelings

Do some kinky women want to be humiliated, degraded, hurt, and used? Absolutely. This may be hard to understand, but while they may want all those things, they want them in a supportive, trusting, and caring environment. You call my girlfriend a bitch, she’ll kick your balls. I call her a bitch, and she melts in my arms. See the difference?

The Truth About Kinky Women by Septimus1812 is licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution-NonCommercial-ShareAlike 3.0 Unported License.

[toodomforyou]

A very good post to keep in mind.

-SD

[subgirlygirl]

Just want to say thanks for sharing. I feel like I'm the only sub who expects a monogamous relationship.

You’re not, I assure you. To be honest, most of the real submissive women and dominant men I know want exactly that because they know D/s is about the bond - not the strokes. And that bond is nurtured and intensified when between two people who’ve chosen to love and focus on each other. Some people don’t get (or believe) that, and that’s ok! It’s like trying to explain an orgasm to someone who’s never had one. Thanks for the message! ❤

[crusoesampersand]

Yes!!!

[dominionleathershop]

I saw this and thought I would reblog it. Loved the statements here