Mommy Blog with a little kick to it

Emirse, 32, I have three wonderful kids and a wonderful husband! I love wine 🍷 tacos 🌮 and enjoying life!😊

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Is it completely selfish of me to believe that while we are on the decline with this pandemic in Oklahoma I believe our state boarders should remain closed? I believe our governor acted quickly and saved many lives by doing so and while we are recovering can we safely say our surroundings states are also recovering as well as we are? I have loved ones in other states so I get it’s hard not seeing them etc but I also have kids that I have to think about, and if it’s a matter of zoom/Skyping them and keeping my kids healthy then so be it...it’s summer time I get it but that trip somewhere nice isn’t worth your life and possibly someone else’s. Idk maybe I am selfish but I just want as many people to live as possible. Everyone keeps down playing the seriousness until they contract it and then they urge everyone to listen; can we just listen because we are wise enough to do so?

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For couples so eager to call it quits after the infatuation wears off, to throw in the towel on your relationship because everything isn't 'perfect'...here is some food for thought.

Lifelong commitment is not what most people think it is. It's NOT waking up every morning to make breakfast and eat together. It's not cuddling in bed until both of you fall asleep.

It's not pretending.

- It's not aways clean home, filled with laughter and love making every day.

- It's someone who steals all the covers, and snores, it's slammed doors and a few harsh words at times.

- It's stubbornly disagreeing and giving each other the silent treatment until your hearts heal, and then offering forgiveness.

- It's coming home to the same person every day that you know loves and cares about you in spite of, and because of, who you are.

- It's laughing about the one time you accidentally did something stupid.

- It's about dirty laundry and unmade beds.

- It's about helping each other with the hard work of life.

- It's about swallowing the nagging words instead of saying them out loud.

- It's about eating the easiest meal you can make and sitting down together at a late hour because you both had a crazy day.

- It's when you have an emotional breakdown and your love lays down with you and holds you, and tells you everything is going to be okay. And you believe them.

- It's about still loving someone even though sometimes they make you absolutely insane.

Loving someone isn't always easy, sometimes it's hard. But it is amazing and comforting and one of the best things you will ever experience. I'm so glad I found my love❤

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ITS BEEN AWHILE!

Hey so it has been awhile since I've posted on here. I've been through alot nothing really bad lol just alot since my last post.

First off I got married to my bestfriend on March 23, 2019 and it was the best day of my life. It might not have been the dream wedding I've always wanted but it was the best. The first week of marriage it all just felt the same as we were dating but along the way I've learned to change myself to keep this marriage intact, being married isn't the same as dating and so far I love being married especially to someone I am deeply in love with!

Second, we just found out we are going to have another baby!! We are excited but cant be too excited because I do have diabetes and my doctor told me this pregnancy might be a high risk pregnancy depending on how my diabetes are maintaining. We only told our parents because I'm trying to make it to my second trimester before I do start telling people. We do have our first ultrasound on Monday and we excited to hear baby's heart beat and see our little peanut. This baby will be my 3rd and my husband's 2nd and hes hoping for a boy because he already has his princess.😁

Nice venting to yall thanks for listening!!😊

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The Flu

Right now I'm dealing with my 3 year old daughter with the flu. I hate seeing my child sick and hurting, I don't know how to deal with this her fever is up and down from 103 to 99 and all she's doing is sleeping. I can't get her to eat anything and shes barley drinking any water I'm trying to keep her hydrated. I feel like by the end of the day I find myself going to the ER 😔

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So I went to my doctors appointment the other day because I was diagnosed with type 2 diabetes on October of last year. 3 months ago my A1C count was 12 so I had to take metformin and victoza which is a shot I have to take once a day. My last appointment I went to get my A1C count checked again and it went down to a 6 which is normal, I got so excited because now I don't have to poke myself once a day anymore and just take metformin. All I did different to make it go down was I darnk nothing but water and cut all my sugar, I used to drink soda like it was water but haven't had any since I was diagnosed. Now I've lost 50 pounds since I've changed my diet and I am very proud of myself!!

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I didn't feel like staying home all day so I'm hanging my fiance while he is working. Our daughter just loves seeing him when he works, she thinks it's cool when her daddy climbs the poles 😊

Being a stay home mom gets very lonely sometimes so when I don't have anything to do, this is what I do.

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Venting!

When you have people in your life that genuinely love you and your children, that care for you and have your best interest at heart. DON'T take that for granted, dont be hateful and ungrateful towards these people.

Most people in this world long for these type of relationships rather it being your biological family, adopted, step, friends or in laws, some people dont get blessed with this type of nurture from others. If you didnt have this growing up than be grateful you have it NOW. If you yearn for this from your biological family and you are getting it from in laws or step families, be grateful for this. it's a true blessing!

Regardless if the people are different characters than you or have different outlooks on situations you learn to cope with one another and be a team and family, that's important!

Sometimes being an adult means you drop the childish games and whatever grudge you had with someone, or disagreements and you come together this world is ugly and only getting uglier so be true to those who do the most for you and if they arent biological family then accept them and make then feel as though you see them as family.

As I have grown older and went through many phases in my life, I've learned FAMILY IS EVERYTHING!

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Done with sickness

So I have not been on here because my child and I have been sick. Coughing, sneezing and bad sinus and just so weak. I had to take my poor baby girl to the ER because her temp went up to 103 and as a mother it scared the crap out of me and I get very worried when my children get sick. When we came back from the hospital, the next day I got sick. After a week of feeling very miserable we feel better and finally get to sleep through out the night without coughing or vomiting. My bedroom was a wreck with dirty nose tissue and dirty clothes everywhere I finally cleaned the room and doing laundry now. I'm just glad we are over this sickness!

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Cute Girl of the Day is Nicole Byer!

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Hell yea!

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This was seriously the best prank

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One my favorite pranks

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By far the best prank Jim and Pam did on Dwight ....love it !!

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Little snitch 😂

My daughter is something else. Everytime I get on to her or spank her bottom she goes an runs to her great grandmas room and tells on me lol. She thinks I will get in trouble for being her mother and she does the same thing with her daddy.

But when her GMA gets on to her she comes and tells me that she was mean to her lol and all I keep telling her is "what did you do for her to get on to you" and she gives me that darn look and say "nothing" she will forever be my sour patch kid!! 😂😂

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Up early with my daughter who has been coughing non stop and coughing so bad to a point she throws up everywhere. So I gave her some cough syrup some generic brand I've already had because I'm too damn broke to buy her some good stuff. Does any mom's out there know of any good home remedies for a toddlers cough?

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Picky eater!

My child is 3 and a very picky eater. She stresses me out with it, because I feel like she's not eating enough.

Does any other mom go through this?

I gave ur pediasure to fill the nutrition that she is missing but she got tired of drinking it and now she don't like it. Tonight at dinner we had burritos and she loves them and she normally eats them all but she took three bites and felt disgusted and said she didn't want anymore. What can I do to make he eat more? TBH all she wants to eat is cheese, pizza, and spaghetti her favorite foods but I can't just keep giving her the same thing. I am going to set an appointment with her pediatrician but I'd like some mother to mother advice first.

It's crazy I never when through this with my son, he ate just about everything. He never had a picky stage and I never had to stress with it. But then again I should have watched how much he ate when he was younger now he's on the little chubby side. Now we are watching how much he eats so he don't get over weight or unhealthy. I still love my children with all my heart. -mom to mom

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Restless

I'm one tired mommy and hurting. First off I was dealing with my snoring fiance who just keep kneeing me and rolling on top of me so I didn't go to bed till 1 am. Then at 5 am my daughter decides to crawl in bed with us and me being in the middle, which sucks because your pretty much the punching bag. My daughter sleeps just like her daddy but with her, I get slapped in the face and a mouth full of hair. So I've been up since about 6am simply because my two crazy loves and I'm pretty sure I won't be able to nap today because I have a lot to do.

The thing you deal with when you love someone and I love these two!!😍😍

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“Don’t quit now, youre already in pain. You’re already hurt, get a reward from it. Success is a lot closer than you think.”

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Question??

Question? Woman do your significant others family always tell you what to do?

I'm always dealing with his parents telling me we don't need another kid because we don't have a place of our own. I understand that but if I want another baby I'll have another baby, and in 2 months we are supposed to he getting married and I already have some of his family telling us we shouldn't get married and always saying well how are you going to pay for it. My fiance's mother said "well don't expect me to help with the wedding I've already paid for his brothers wedding" like I even asked for help from her. Don't get me wrong I love his family but they are the most judgemental family and always think they are better then everyone else. I'm sorry I'm ranting, I just want to know who else is going through this.

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Spending my day with my beautiful daughter. She just ate chips that's why her face is dirty lol

I love it when she does kissy faces 😘😍