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My island turnip market never goes over like 150 bells per turnip.
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HOLY SHIT!!!
My island turnip market never goes over like 150 bells per turnip.
A lot of people around me are having kids and every day it becomes more apparent that hitting your children to punish them is insane because literally everything can be a horrible punishment in their eyes if you frame it as such.
Like, one family makes their toddler sit on the stairs for three minutes when he hits his brother or whatever. The stairs are well lit and he can see his family the whole time, he’s just not allowed to get up and leave the stairs or the timer starts over. He fucking hates it just because it’s framed as a punishment.
Another family use a baseball cap. It’s just a plain blue cap with nothing on it. When their toddler needs discipline he gets a timeout on a chair and has to put the cap on. When they’re out and about he just has to wear the cap but it gets the same reaction. Nobody around them can tell he’s being punished because it’s in no way an embarrassing cap, but HE knows and just the threat of having to wear it is enough.
And there isn’t the same contempt afterwards I’ve seen with kids whose parents hit them. One time the kid swung a stick at my dog, his mother immediately made him sit on the stairs, he screamed but stayed put, then he came over to my dog and gently said “Sorry Ellie” and went back to playing like nothing happened, but this time without swinging sticks at the nearby animals.
The psych nerds found out ages ago that punishments that make the child think for a few minutes (about one minute or year of age until they're tweens) is much more helpful to develope social intelligence and understanding than punishments which prevents thinking, like the ones that involve pain. In fact, corporal punishment encouraged lying, extreme reactions, violent outbursts, go figure, they don't trust you.
This is all really fucking serious and important and I'm mainly reblogging for that, because this correct mentality needs to be spread around more, but I'm also reblogging because I absolutely lost it at the child who dreads having to wear the normal blue hat of shame.
The normal blue hat of shame.
reblog this if your blog is a safe space on april fools and won’t have any jumpers, screamers, or anything scary or anxiety inducing
I won’t post anything more scary than whatever I am now. Smiles at you unnervingly
i. personally. think april fools jokes (particularly on the internet) are generally speaking. super lame
and if i am being honest i will never rickroll u either
oh haha it was one thing but now it is another thing. ok? thats the kind of thing my dog likes.
Not me being too scared to finish episode 8 of Digital Circus and also not trying to be spoiled
Update: finished the episode and I was right be scared! Holy Shit is right
Not me being too scared to finish episode 8 of Digital Circus and also not trying to be spoiled
Grave offerings and burying the dead with tools and goods is actually such a deeply human thing to do. It's not really even necessarily about how much you believe in a literal afterlife or them taking the tools with them. It's also just going Wait, I'm Not Done Taking Care Of You, let me make you one more pair of socks so your feet won't be cold when you go wherever it is where I can't follow.
this is your gentle reminder to stop fighting against your adhd and instead structure your life around it
buy a pack of chapsticks and put one in the pocket of all of your coats and jackets because you always forget to bring one and chapped lips is sensory hell
leave important things where you can see them. if they go in a box or a drawer you will forget they exist
put any appointments or deadlines in your phone calendar As Soon As you get them. set a reminder for a week before, a day before, an hour before, as many as you need as often as you need them.
when that little voice in your head says "i dont need to write that down, ill remember it" that is the devil talking!!! write it down anyway!!
plan for down time. have a few hours at the end of every day to just do fun stuff like engage in your hyperfixations. even if you didnt get all of your work done that day, have the rest anyway. you probably spent the whole day beating yourself up for not doing what you Should be doing, so you still need the break.
if you never eat vegetables because its too much effort to chop and cook them, get the frozen or canned shit. it doesnt go off for ages and you just have to microwave it. theres no point buying fresh vegetables if they just keep going off and being left to rot in the bottom of your fridge
if you struggle to decide what to have for dinner every day, take the decision out of it. choose a set of meals and eat those on rotation until you get sick of them, then choose some new ones and do it again.
its not stupid if it works! our brains literally have a chemical deficiency. you are allowed to accommodate yourself. go forth and stop making your life more difficult than it has to be because "this shouldn't be this hard". it is hard, so make it easier.
You are allowed to accommodate yourself.
SO. yapping about Rudo like i threatened to
i yapped abt this in on discord before so those moots probably recognize this but. we ball. probably gonna be more Sphere shit in this too though
OK SO THIS IS CATASTROPHIC LEVELS OF YAPPAGE ACTUALLY PUTTING IT UNDER A CUT
Anyone else fuck with individual songs? Who is the artist? I dunno. What album is it from? Shut up. What year was it released? *tim allen grunt* What's the title of the track? Fuck you. But it goes like this: *poorly memorized chorus*
I love that song. Do not ask me anything about it.
✨ Happy birthday, Chiwa ✨
I swear something happened between her seeing Rudo being dragged out of his house and him being dropped into the pit. Like she goes from denying that he did something wrong to acting like he a murderer just like his father.
Interpretation Isn’t Sovereignty
I truly hate the entire concept of “Death of the Author” as it exists in modern fandom culture. Not as a literary theory in its original academic sense, but as this flattened, weaponized slogan that people use to shut down creators and insulate their own head canons from criticism. What started as a critical framework has turned into a moral ideology, and that’s where it becomes nonsense.
Roland Barthes wasn’t writing about fandom spaces, social media discourse, or franchise storytelling. He wasn’t talking about shared universes, canon hierarchies, or collaborative media ecosystems. He was talking about literary interpretation in an academic context. But fandom took that idea and turned it into a blunt instrument: creators don’t matter, intent doesn’t matter, and the only thing that matters is how I feel about the text. That’s not interpretation... that’s entitlement.
The companion idea that “creators shouldn’t interact with fandoms” is even more artificial. This isn’t some historical norm we’ve broken. Creators have always interacted with audiences. Shakespeare did. Dickens did. Comic creators did. Science Fiction writers did. Letters pages, conventions, interviews, fan clubs, serialized fiction, public readings — none of this is new. What’s new is the idea that creator presence is somehow intrusive, as if the people who made the work are trespassing on a space they supposedly don’t belong in.
Creators do have authority over their creations. Not total authority over interpretation or emotional response, but authority over canon, intent, structure, and design. Those aren’t imaginary concepts. They’re part of how art is built. If a creator explains what a character was meant to represent, how a story was constructed, or what a theme was designed to explore, that’s not “invalidating interpretation.” That’s explaining authorship.
You can still feel something different about the work. You can still have personal meaning. You can still connect to it in your own way. But that doesn’t erase the framework it was created within. If Greg Weisman says Demona was written as X and not Y, that isn’t him “policing interpretation.” That’s him explaining authorial construction. You’re free to respond to Demona however you want emotionally, but the architecture of the character didn’t come from fandom. It came from the writers’ room.
And sometimes, yeah, people’s headcanons are lame. Sometimes they’re shallow. Sometimes they’re pure projection. Sometimes they flatten complex characters into comfort characters, self-inserts, or aesthetic avatars. Fandom culture increasingly treats personal interpretation as sacred identity instead of subjective engagement with a text.
What’s especially funny is how selective “Death of the Author” actually is. The author is only dead when they disagree with you. When a creator supports someone’s interpretation, suddenly their word matters again. Suddenly intent matters again. Suddenly authority is real again.
Tolkien is a perfect counterexample to all of this. Not only did he believe in authorial intent, he actively engaged with his audience through letters, essays, and detailed explanations of Middle-earth, its languages, its metaphysics, and its moral structure. The Letters of J.R.R. Tolkien are literally an archive of creator interaction with fandom and readers. He clarified meanings. He corrected interpretations. He explained symbolism. He rejected readings he felt were wrong. And somehow Middle-earth still survived. The books weren’t destroyed. The fandom didn’t collapse. The art didn’t lose its power. If anything, it deepened the mythology and the understanding of it.
No one accuses Tolkien of “violating Death of the Author.” No one says he should’ve stayed silent and let people misunderstand his work forever. Because we instinctively understand that creators explaining their creations is not an attack on art. It’s part of the artistic process.
The real issue isn’t interpretation versus authorship. It’s sovereignty. A lot of people don’t want interpretation. They want ownership without authorship. They want their reading to be unchallengeable, their version to be untouchable, and their headcanon to exist in a vacuum where no creator, no text, and no structure can contradict it.
Art doesn’t work that way.
Interpretation matters. Personal meaning matters. Emotional connection matters. But they exist alongside authorship, not above it. Meaning doesn’t come from nowhere. Stories are built by people, shaped by intent, structure, craft, and design. Pretending creators are irrelevant to that process isn’t progressive or enlightened.
“Death of the Author” as a critical lens can be useful. As fandom doctrine, it’s incoherent. It turns art into pure projection and creators into inconveniences. And honestly, it says more about fandom insecurity than it does about the art that inspired it.
Once the creator enters the room, head canon stops feeling like canon. And some people just can’t handle that.
Animal Crossing New Horizon 3.0 update dropped early!!!! It’s the 14th in the USA
We want Flawed Female Characters! No, not THOSE flaws. 😕 Those aren't sexy, COOL flaws. You know, the ones that I don't think actually SHOULD be considered flaws, that I might even feel personally judged for. The "unjustly martyred by the court of public opinion" kind of flaws. So like a "flawed" woman who's actually kind of a Saint in a way. I didn't want, like, FLAW flaws. What she did was WRONG and that makes her a BAD PERSON, and how can you justify that? If you still like her after what she did, that makes YOU a Bad Person too. Ugh, disgusting. 😕 But anyway, WHY isn't anyone writing flawed female characters?
I do love the phrase executive dysfunction bc the image it conjures is of a bunch of people wearing business suits around a long oval conference table arguing with each other to the point where they’re getting into physical fights, but in the background there’s just a big empty whiteboard with a To Do list with one item on it and that item is “take shower”
my adhd ass when someone says something and expects me to be able to comprehend it the first time
“not adhd but-”
People who just go “ugh nevermind” are the bane of my existence
People who just go
“ugh nevermind” are the bane
of my existence
Beep boop! I look for accidental haiku posts. Sometimes I mess up.
Is there anyone out there that wants to talk about shipping with me?
There has been this growing frustration with shipping for me since like 2017~. It’s not the ships themselves that bother me but the way some fans treat them. It tend to happen for aggressively in male dominated stories.
When 2 make characters have an interesting dynamic. Whether it’s a rivalry, friendship or enemies, the relationship almost always gets interpreted as romantic/sexual. Shipping them together isn’t bad in itself, but it that the relationship only gets interpreted as romantic/sexual and said fans get very upset when other fans don’t agree with this interpretation. Accusing them of being homophobia. Even getting angry with the author(s) for having a different ship be canon in the end.
Part of me understands why m/m ship are so popular and enjoy them myself but I also wonder why people will only interpret intimacy as sexual/romantic. Like is really so hard to imagine that a bond between 2 people can be so strong without it being romantic/sexual in nature? Like I’d see people say “there’s not heterosexual expectation for that”. Are make relationships to each other deemed as so shallow and unintimate that you assume that something “deeper” is going on with them. And why do we assume that romantic/sexual relationships are automatically “deeper” than platonic ones?
Also why keep assuming that authors from historically heteronormative media like Shonen Jump are just suddenly going make the 2 male friends/rivals/enemies lover instead of the traditional straight ship that the author has already set up?
Again, this isn’t me saying that non canon gay ship are bad. I just us to engage the media we love with the understanding of what it is instead of what it isn’t. Sometimes I want to talk about the deep male platonic relationships without someone screaming they are “clearly” gay for each other.
Another related issue is how female characters are treated in these stories by both the author and the fans. Like in make dominated stories, the female characters tend to get a lot less love by both author and fans. Their characters arcs might be underwhelming or nonexistent in some cases. They might be treated as just the romantic love interest instead of an interesting character in and of themselves. If it’s an action story, there tend to be physically the weakest, less cool fight scenes/wins and be far behind the 2 male friends/teammates/rivals. They may not get female friends or the female friendships they do have are a lot more underdeveloped than the male ones. Their friendship to the male characters tend to be way less developed that m+m friendships. And this just on the author’s side
On the fan’s side the female characters are judged more harshly than male characters for similar actions. If a male character is mean, fans will have a lot more good will/grace towards him. But if a female character does the same thing, when very little grace will be given to her. Like the male character could have tried to kill somebody in cold blood and the fandom will try to see his point of view. While are female character can just say something mean and the fandom wants her dead. F the female character is the love interest to the main male characters, then she might be seen as “in the way” of the main male character and his male friend/rival/enemy. Some fans will downplay the romantic feelings for the main male character for his female love interests. Sometimes going as far as say that the author/canon is lying to you and that male friend/rival/enemy is their “actual” love interest. Sometimes wishing that the female love interest would just be written out of the story so that m/m should can “finally be together”.
what if we admitted to each other that it's not always really romance that we want. What if we admitted that what we're really craving is intimacy and society taught us romance is the only way to get it.
I think we put so much expectation of romantic love with just 1 partner and it basically becomes impossible to achieve.