Syscourse And Venting

I made this account to keep the syscourse and vents off my main blog, but so that I'd have a place to put it

[ble-ed-mo-re-mov-ed]

kinners i BEG of you PLEASE STOP CALLING YOURSELF A FICTIVE OR POSTING IN THOSE TAGS

unless youre a system stop using that term! it isnt interchangeable with fiction kin!

[syscourse-n-venting]

“Sysmed”???? “Trauma Scum”????

Can I just start setting shit on fire now? What the fuck are you assholes doing to this community??

[bbyycunt-deactivated20211110]

you try to push me out but i just find my way back in

[godkincourse]

sorry to bother you about this but what are endogenic systems?

They are “naturally created” systems, fake basically. Dissociative disorders can only affect people who have endured trauma and so systems do not naturally create themselves. 

[vanariasystem]

Neither created, nor fake. We are we, we are strong, and we refuse to bow to your definition of what makes a system or not. And get outta here with calling us fake Because we are sure the fuck not. There are more things under heaven than you could ever dream of

PS: The vast majority of these systems you villainize have trauama. 

[alloesque]

If you have trauma… youre not endogenic my dudes.

There’s no possible way for a brain to be twisted enough to create a system without going through trauma as a child. There’s nothing that warps the brain that much.

[syscourse-n-venting]

If 👏you👏have👏trauma👏you’re👏not👏endogenic👏

[tyrannuspitch]

a few things:

bullying is abuse. full stop. bullying is abuse, bullies are abusers. if you have been bullied, you have been abused.

bullying is not a lesser form of abuse. it is not normal. it is not beneficial. victims do not need to ‘grow up’ or ‘get over it’. you are not childish or immature for being hurt by it.

bullying can cause mental health problems. bullying can cause trauma. mental health problems and trauma caused by abuse are completely valid. bullying is not a lesser form of abuse and the effects of bullying are not lesser forms of pain.

bullying comes in a lot of different forms. essentially, if you were excluded or humiliated or mocked or physically abused or in any other way treated as inferior by your peers, you were bullied.

bullying is never the victim’s fault. never. the abusers will always find an excuse to hurt you but they don’t need an actual reason.

the effects of bullying can last a lifetime. all this is true if you’re being bullied right now, and all this is true if it’s been a year. five years. fifteen years. abuse can have long-term effects and healing is not a question of maturity.

bullying isn’t discussed nearly enough but seriously, it can be hellish and if you’re going through it or you’ve been through it, i’m with you. keep going.

[jessicaamay]

People always tell you to grow up, but forget that being a child is really important.

[doll-limbs]

[ultragifmazingart]

[melisica]

[quietvoiced]

[wellclutchmypearls]

[lovenotlogic]

me: *sees my fp talking to someone that isn’t me*

my bpd: *spinning a wheel* this will make you feel…depressed…*spinning a smaller wheel* with a hint of…a crippling fear of abandonment

[stolenvaporwave]

/u/adventure_hat

[obsessive--owl]

i can’t see through this static

[nails-rambling]

Strong opinion time™

1.Exotrauma isn´t real 2.Endogenic/quiogenic/natural/whatever shit label you decide to invent next systems arent real 3.Pedophiles are not LGBTQ+ 4.It´s disgusting to say youre “endogenic” (etc.) or have “exotrauma” and I wish you some of my trauma memories if you want them so badly. 

[syscourse-n-venting]

Agree except for some (not all) cases of exotrauma- sometimes those memories can be implanted by abusers

[slothblog]

what happened to good ol unwarranted hatred. I’m sick of needing a valid reason to hate something. Why can’t something just annoy me and that be the end of it

[syscourse-n-venting]

OLD PEOPLE STOP

Okay but all these Boomer aged DID systems in denial of their own disorders need to stop BITCHING about their systems so much. They’re really looking the gift horse in the mouth. Their alters have done SO much to help their sorry asses and all they do is piss and moan about how bad they want integration and how bad they want to shove their alters away so they can selfishly live that “normal life” of their foul dreams.

I’ve never seen people be so whiny and like “oh I wanna live a normal life” before. WHATS SO FUCKING GREAT ABOUT THIS WORLD WE LIVE IN?? THATS WHAT I WANT TO FUCKING KNOW.

And the hosts of those types of systems systems are closed minded douche fuckers a lot of the time, so why should THEY be the front personality anyway????

I know this is crazy, so I won’t tell you to tell me I’m not crazy. It’s 3am and I’m in a WEIRD fucking mood right now after scrolling those DID Facebook groups. Ugh.

-Host