I really need advice, and I recently saw a post about what to do if an alter is a radqueer, so I think it is a bit on topic
what should I do if I have a persecutor (in-system abuser) who absolutely REFUSES to change and will get violent when faced with kindness and willingness to change is posting us and our friends on hate subreddits like r/fakedisordercringe and r/systemscringe? we have tried time and time again to show them kindness and support, but they just refuse to change and lash out at/abuse anyone who shows them kindness. they refuse to change and want to hurt us and get worse, they have joined multiple 4-chan-esque and bigoted discords, exposed us to sexual spaces (we are a minor bodily) and are now posting us and close friends on r/syscringe
I'm scared that our friends will cut us off (rightfully so) if they find out about this and said alter has been threatening me if I delete the posts or leave those discords and subreddits. I don't know what to do
should I still try to treat them with kindness and hope it stops? please help