Heyyyyy AEV, sorry ahead for the vent because it's very syscringe focused and we may or may not have Han close to front (why yes this is the same person from the server who's basically been on sabbatical yet posting on Tumblr. Why yes we're also just actively lurking on the subreddit because we don't want to risk mentioning Han. Why yes we're overexplaining, sorry)
100% feel free to delete this we just....sorry ahead of time friendo. Obligatory we don't support violence
We fucking hate the pieces of shit on that fucking subreddit and should jump off a bridge. "Stop faking" I'm not fucking faking this disorder. We pointed out that we didn't want our shit posted on that evil subreddit and the response "that works as well as DNI" yeah that's the fucking point
Admit you don't give a fuck about people's boundaries as long as you don't agree with them. Makes me wonder how much of a fucking threat they are to people irl if they can't even be bothered to interact with people's boundaries on the damn internet
The fact that the amount of just pure assholeness directed at us specifically was enough to trigger Han (which is saying something that apparently that's a trigger for him when I had been in front alone for a while) shows how fucking asshole it was. We don't even care they brought up our mom, that's whatever.
Syscringe does just as much harm to the system community as endos do and we'll die on that hill. Endos make systems less and less believable. Syscringe spends all their time invalidating anyone who doesn't fit their perfect picture of systems, thus making them less and less believable. They'd be the same fuckers who would go "no your not autistic because your not a white cisgender heterosexual man with no empathy, hyperfocused on trains and a genius!"
Sorry, sorry.
We promise, we'll make up with cat pics once we calm down.
We just. Sigh
hey! Sorry I was late to notice this ask friend.
You're completely right. Syscringe as a whole is filled with assholes. No one there has a life, no one there will ever contribute anything good to their communities. They're sad fucking losers who enjoy poking fun at traumatized individuals just trying to get by.
They, and endos, cause equal amounts of harm to the system community. They both are ableist fucks and both deserve to be pushed out and completely fucking ignored
You are right to be angry. Those assholes do not understand boundaries, they don't even understand how the disorder fucking works (which is why they think no one has it, by the way. There is no "perfect system" for them. To them DID may as well not even exist, to them it's a "fake cringe disorder" they can poke fun at because it's "easy pickings"). They're dangerous, point blank. The harassment that comes from them puts people in danger.
You can put on a tacky "we don't support harassment/bullying" sign, but that doesn't help when the entire subreddit itself is DEDICATED to bullying and harassing systems.
And friend. I do hope you're okay. You are one of the kindest, sweetest individuals I have ever met and you deserve the world, not whatever those sick fucks are saying about you. Please take care of yourself and remember that people love and care for you, always (/platonic)
obligatory mention that this blog, and the asker, do not support violence . No one, no matter how fucked they are, deserves to die or to be hurt. We do not support harassment either.