the never ending pit of misery

Osdd adult. They/Them.

[system-freakiness]

hi everyone! this is our introduction post!

this account is just us sharing our thoughts & experiences with osdd! & of course, memes whenever Kyle makes them.

members:

Shiloh: She/Her (non-binary) creator of this account, the oldest, loves cooking & baking, is outgoing & chatty. loves popcorn

Sunny: they/them/hers (non-Binnie) host, very sweet and excitable, with Kyle

Kyle: he/him (Transman) Host, the youngest, has his own account, @kyles-bile loves making memes. with Sunny.

Alters that don't post, but will be mentioned:

Carlisle: He/Him (Man[withnogenderdysphoria,luckybastard]) Father of Kyle, Husband to Shiloh, Loves hiking

Antonio: he/him (tbh he dgaf about gender, so I'm'a say agender) Wise guy, monotone, loves learning, struggles with empathy, but really tries.

things to know!!!

1. Not looking to make friends!!! it's not that we don't want to, believe me, we Really want to make friends! We just aren't ready for the responsabilities that come with it. But we'll make an update once we're confident & Ready!

2. WE ARE NOT AN ADVICE ACCOUNT! our knowledge of sys terms & culture are very limited! if you need help with something, find a plural community group! :3

3. NO SYSCOURSE! tbh i don't know what that is , but all I know is that I don't like it.

4. we are accepting of all plurals here. if our posts make you happy, then you're all welcome here!

5. If we say something that isn't correct or is hurtful. Please let us know in a gentle way. We are very willing to listen, but we are sensitive. We will be so grateful for your feedback!

happy scrolling!

[system-freakiness]

how do i tell my ex friend that even though our friendship ended with resentment, I'd still run over to help the instant they needed me? still give them food if they didn't have any. still give them a place to sleep if they needed to stay out of their house for a while? still drive hours away from my home to pick them up if their car broke down?...

how do i say that when we don't talk anymore?

i often find myself just wishing they could just feel that from me if i think it hard enough-,

-Sunny

[pluralskeepliving]

live because otherwise you'll miss the chance to get out of that shitty situation.

it may take years. it may feel like it's never going to happen. it may seem like you missed your chance. but you'll only be able to take the opportunities that present themself if you live long enough to see them.

this ^

you can and will make it out someday 💙

[pluralskeepliving]

Live to keep your headmates safe, I know that's why I'm doing it

i love myselves too much to get rid of them like that

[system-freakiness]

BRO WE'VE SWITCHED SO MANY TIMES TODAY IT FEELS AMAZING!!!!

[joy posting ahead]

It feels legit so good to be switching this much. makes me feel free and much less alone. i really wouldn't be this happy if i didn't have my inner family. they mean so much to me and we're all learning how to be better people together and all learning to take turns when we're tired. and we've made it to the point where we all love and understand and accept each other.

i never knew i could be this free.

i finally feel like i belong…

i don't feel alone!!

i feel safe knowing all my headmates are here for each other. when we're sad, we "call" each other by leaving Lil voice mails for others to listen to.

if we need a hug we hug our teddy bear while on the "call" so that the other can hug the same bear in the future.

I'm so happy and relieved…

i never knew life could be this way…

-Kyle

[system-freakiness]

shout out to all the alters who come out when their system is scared, but are also scaredy cats themselves. we are the Shaggys, Scoobys and usopps of our systems

like, i may be sobbing & shaking, but ima protect us with every fiber of my soul.

-Kyle

[system-freakiness]

[system-freakiness]

WE'RE FUCKIN' SICK AGAIN -Kyle

[system-freakiness]

i haven't been in our body in so long that it feels weird to exist again. it's weird to look at my hands and arms reaching for things. they don't look like how they're supposed to. i like the way we look, but we really don't look like me at all. it's strange. idk if other systems/plurals go through the sort of defrost period that ours goes through when it's been a while since the last time you fronted. i had'n't fronted since January -Antonio

[system-freakiness]

[lanadelreyquasa]

WHAT IS THE FUCKING POINT

[system-freakiness]

something something system

[alteredpanel]

hey. those go somewhere

[the-indigo-symphony]

What "recovery", "symptom management", and even just "healthy/happy living" look like will be different for every system. And I don't just mean that in terms of fusion vs. functional multiplicity – for some, switching more and with intention is the goal, while for others, they hope to see less switching and longer front times. Some may prefer to find specific names for their selves and help each build an individual identity, while others prefer only bare-bones descriptions and a more collective identity. Some want to reduce system count while others are focused on making each new headmate feel welcome. Even the most commonly agreed-upon recovery paths may range from unhelpful to harmful for some! Don't define your progress by what works for others! We're a very varied community and each of us is unique. Look for what works for you.

[tumblr]

Reblogs in a chain now get their own notes

The reblog chain is one of the things that makes Tumblr unlike anywhere else. All the notes on reblogs are attributed to the original post, no matter which branch people actually liked or reblogged. We want to keep encouraging conversations, and give contributors the recognition they deserve. 

Soon, you'll be able to like, reblog, or reply to any part of a reblog chain, and that note will go to that reblog's author. Each reblog will have its own counts, instead of one aggregated number from every version of the post. And yes, you’ll be able to like multiple posts in one chain.

If a reblog doesn't add anything, the love flows up to the last person in the chain who did. Your post doesn't lose notes just because people spread it quietly.

Past notes will stay on the original post — we're only changing what happens from here on out. Retroactively re-attributing all of them would be... a lot.

This is just the beginning. More changes are coming as we keep building this out – stay tuned!

[tumblr]

Let's talk about reblog notes.

We rolled out a significant change to how notes work on reblogs, and the reaction has been strong. We're not going to pretend otherwise. 

First things first: We're reversing the change. Your feedback in comments, emails, and especially reblogs, made clear that the rollout created problems we need to address before moving forward. We also should have communicated this differently from the start, and we didn't.

We still believe there's a better version of how reblogs can work. One that gives every voice in a chain the credit it deserves. But we want to get there with you.

In the coming days we'll share more on how we plan to do that,  including ways to work directly with some of you on this and future changes before they ship.

Keep an eye on @staff for updates to come soon. 

[strange-aeons]

HOLY SHIT WE DID IT EVERYONE!!!!

[tumblr]

Reblogs in a chain now get their own notes

The reblog chain is one of the things that makes Tumblr unlike anywhere else. All the notes on reblogs are attributed to the original post, no matter which branch people actually liked or reblogged. We want to keep encouraging conversations, and give contributors the recognition they deserve. 

Soon, you'll be able to like, reblog, or reply to any part of a reblog chain, and that note will go to that reblog's author. Each reblog will have its own counts, instead of one aggregated number from every version of the post. And yes, you’ll be able to like multiple posts in one chain.

If a reblog doesn't add anything, the love flows up to the last person in the chain who did. Your post doesn't lose notes just because people spread it quietly.

Past notes will stay on the original post — we're only changing what happens from here on out. Retroactively re-attributing all of them would be... a lot.

This is just the beginning. More changes are coming as we keep building this out – stay tuned!

[changes]

It’s very clear that you all have strong feelings about Tumblr and about this change. We hear you. The passion people have for how Tumblr works is one of the things that makes this place special.

As this rolls out over the next few days and you explore it, we’ll keep reading your replies and reblogs, so please keep sharing your questions, concerns, and ideas.

Your creativity has always been the heart of Tumblr, whether you’re the original poster or adding something brilliant in the reblogs, and nothing about this change is meant to limit that.

If you’d like to talk directly beyond the comments, leave a reply and we’ll follow up with as many of you as we can. We want to work with you to make Tumblr better.

[icannotgetoverbirds]

hey folks do we like this. reblog without commentary for reach

do we want this?

yes

no

Voting ended onMar 23

[dyrdeer]

for everyone asking, tumblr is making it impossible for you to add onto ANY post without making it its own separate post. If you put any addition on someone's post its now your post. The OP won't even be privy to any notes it gets unless they check that specific post. This makes it impossible to track anything which is really detrimental to artists who need to know their reach or just see what people are saying about their work. It also just means you can't reblog with any additions without taking notes away from your original post. This is part of what made twitter hostile and its the last gasping breath of a site run by people who don't understand it.

[ebrithilbowser]

Between all the memes, this year on the Ides of March we all should take a moment to think about the true meaning of the holiday: Brutally killing a guy who abused an imperfect democratic system in order to turn it into an autocracy by repeatedly stabbing him with knives.

[theinsomniaccoven]

You know what fuck you. You wanna be anti endo, then stop using pro endo terms and shit made by endos and pro endos.

No more pluralkit

No more simplyplural

No more tupperbox

No more "alterhuman"

No more "traumagenic"

No more pluralpedia

No more #pluralgang

No more #syspunk or #pluralpunk

No more hazardqueer

Fuck right off.

[theinsomniaccoven]

Amo also wants to add, "traumagenic" is on the list because it was coined by thr same person that coined endogenic >:( you cant use it if you not pro endo! Sux to suck!