[system-safehaven]

hello !! this blog strives to be a safe space for all systems :-)

block "complaining tag" if you dont want to see us complain. it's not always necessarily about system stuff

we ourselves are a fictive-heavy mostly endogenic system, and we are pro-endo and pro-willo . we are bodily a minor .

headmate list

this blog was originally intended to be an ask blog, so any kinds of asks regarding systemhood are allowed and MUCH appreciated ! (questions, confessions, complaints, experiences, stories, etc.)

we do warn that we may not post a response with some asks . this is likely because we couldn't think of one, and that lack of response does not come from a place of judgement .

we are allowed to delete any asks that make us uncomfortable .

we will also use this as a personal blog since we don't have to mask here :-)

that's all for now ! we will edit this intro post as needed :-)

[theiasystem]

sharing a social life is hard!

[wizardsoftheroundtable]

Frequently fronted together. Do not separate.

[system-safehaven]

i suppose we have to update our headmate list now though.

🪲 ezra - they/it/bug

[system-safehaven]

it is updated :-)

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[sonarsystem]

graduation

[system-safehaven]

i suppose we have to update our headmate list now though.

🪲 ezra - they/it/bug

[system-safehaven]

(to brain) nooo don't form headmates that unbashedly indulge in the thoughts that you are ashamed of, youre supposed to help us haha

🪲 ezra - they/it/bug

[aceofpans]

give your intrusive thoughts a name so that when they crop up you can say fuck off Jesse. Or Charlie. Or uhh… Patricia. Idk

[everyday-oblivion-system]

that's how you make yourself plural

[system-safehaven]

One thing I don't like about systemhood is when other people within the system tell MY problems to someone else that I don't like or trust. You can talk about how much you hate me without listing out all of my PERSONAL things that DON'T personally affect you. You can talk about how much you hate how I treat people or whatever WITHOUT spilling my entire backstory to someone that I don't trust as "context" for "why I'm like this". I didn't want that person to know ANY of that and you spilled it all to them without ANY permission from me and you're mad that I'm upset about it.

It's one thing to talk about my backstory like it's from a game you like (because it technically is), which while I still don't like it in the slightest, I can at least understand WHY you'd do so. At least in that situation, you're not framing it as "this real ass guy I live with in my head sucks and also here's his life story to explain why he sucks." And the people you tell this to and the people you talk about me to HATE me, they're not sympathizing with any of that shit you told them so there was no fucking point in telling them in the first place.

🌀 - he/him

[aro-luigi]

Since I see a lot of hate from traumagenics towards the Endo community, I wanted to make a post myself to spread some positivity :] I don't usually post these kinds of stuff on my blog, so if you're looking for these sorts of posts I'm not the blog for you, it's just a one-off post because I wanna

Shout out to plurals whose Plurality is caused by trauma, but uses the endogenic label to distance themselves from it

Shout out to plurals who have trauma, but their plurality has nothing to do with it

Shout out to plurals whose plurality is only somewhat related to their trauma

Shout out to plurals that dissociate

Shout out to plurals who don't dissociate

Shout out to plurals with no trauma at all

Shout out to spontaneously formed plurals

Shout out to stress formed plurals

Shout out to involuntarily formed systems

Shout out to willed systems and tulpamancers

Shout out to mixed origins and complex systems who don't quite fit popular plurality labels

And of course, shout out to any plural that has to see their identity being fakeclaimed, mocked, or otherwise misunderstood and misused.

You're all loved, and we care about you. We hope you have a good day/night, and we hope you find your way in the world, with or without your plurality, in a path that's a fit for you.

[your-fave-is-pro-endo]

Hatsune Miku from Vocaloid is Pro-Endo!

[pro-willo-1x1x1x1]

shout out to willogenic plurals. yall are cool

[system-safehaven]

questionn how do y'all will new headmates. i need advice. and like how does it work do we get to choose like the basic details of the personality or is it like randomized?? i need help

🪽 aron/seraph — it/they

[the-murder-of-crows-coll]

hiya!! willoer of the sys here

for willing in new headmates, a big part is acting like and believing they’re already there. talk to them, ask them things, stuff like that, even if they don’t respond in the beginning. you do it enough, and they’ll appear! it can take diff amounts of time for different systems/people and those with different amts of experience willoing. for us, it took months for our first willoed headmate since back then it was just me in the body and i’d never willoed before, but only a matter of hours/days for the rest that followed who we intentionally brought in since we had some experience being plural then.

you can try to will them with certain details like roles or species n such but it’s ultimately up to them if they wanna keep those or do something else

post paused what the fuck is speciesism /silly

ANYWAYS if theres any other questions just let us know ^_^

[system-safehaven]

whats ur stance on radqueers?

cus we noticed u reblogged smth from a pro-radqueer

https://www.tumblr.com/system-safehaven/815972643122593792 this

-scythe

varying stances (i don't think anyone here is rq themself but there are varying levels of tolerance) but in general we tend to block them just for our own comfort. i don't think all of them are bad or have bad intentions but we have had far too many bad experiences and seen far too many rq identities that just left a bad taste in our mouth.

we don't do background checks on anyone we reblog from so if we do ever end up rbing something from someone bad, i do apologize

🪲 ezra — they/he/bug

[ribbon-system]

reblog if you're ok with your singlet friends asking you questions about plurality and/or your system

[system-safehaven]

questionn how do y'all will new headmates. i need advice. and like how does it work do we get to choose like the basic details of the personality or is it like randomized?? i need help

🪽 aron/seraph — it/they

[medleyofmind]

my firsts post... this is some of the methods my system uses to tell me they're real. we've mulled it over and felt like sharing it because the community on tumblr has helped us a lot with understanding and accepting things. <3