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The duality of Soi Fon

The Hachi one is really funny lol. She said she didn’t know him but minutes later called his full name

#soi fon #soifon #yoruichi #omaeda #hachigen ushoda #bleach #she cares #but for some reasons #act like she doesn't #probably because of #abandonment issue #unfortunatelly #people only remember #the left side #tsundere #still cute tho #especially #the one with #yorusoi

'Coz u never told me why

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Having an abandonmet issue is not always about "not trusting people"

Most of the time is about not trusting yourself, waiting for them to get tired of u and then saying "I deserved this, I deserve to be alone because I'm annoying, I'm terrible at keeping nice people with me, they need someone better than me" and that sucks.

#abandonment issue #fear of abandonment

Having abandonment issues commitment issues and trust issues makes you so hard to love. And you know that. You know you’re not easy to love. And you’re afraid of people noticing that. You’re afraid to fall in love firstly because you’re afraid of commitment. You don’t want to get hurt and you don’t want to hurt. Then if you get past that you’re afraid they might leave you so here comes your fear of abandonment. What you tend to do is leave before they do. But once you’re even past that and in a relationship you start to question everything; things like <what if they lose interest> <what if I’m boring> <what if I’m not enough> <what if they don’t love me they I love them> <what happens if they leave> <what happens if I’m no longer important to them> <am I the problem> And you get sucked into this hole of endless possibilities of why they might leave you and you stand there filled with fear and doubt and the infinite questions of what if.