#abusivemother

[urionstandby]

any advice on handling a narcissistic mother who won't let u be happy and is always wanting u to depend on her

[beethetogruta]

Ok imma be cussing up a storm in this one so buckle yourselves in. And Sexual assault warning nothing graphic but still. Oh and depression and suicidal thoufhts and shit. Bot on my part but still

I fucking hate my mother. She ruined my life she stole my innocence.she didnt raise me the internet did. My grandparents half raised me. My bitch mother lies about being PYSHICALLY disabled. She says that she is physically diasbled becaus eof her back issues. Our family doctor has said that her back problems would get better if she did her physio. She is actually MENTALLY disabled and is a narcicist, manipulator, gaslighter etc. She has adultified me for nearly 16 years. I was sitting in my living room and said that I felt like I had bugs all over my legs and she said 'Nooo thats just the ghosts feeling you up!' Im sorry. I WAS 13 YEARS OLD WHEN SHE SAID THAT. She has ruined my life and Im not even 16. Im homeschooled, I have no friends and im meant to be starting my junior year next week but she is so fucking inconsistant in helping me with school that I am still on the last semester of my sophmore year. My sophmore year isnt even close to completed. If I were to work ao hard as to catch up with my peers I would have to work for every single day for 50/52 weeks of the year. Let that sink in. IN ORDER TO COMPLETE MY JUNIOR YEAR OF HIGHSCHOOL ON TIME I WOULD HAVE TO WORK FOR 50 STRAIGHT WEEKS.

She only ever changes negatively. She never dows anything for anyone but herself. She is EXTREMELY over weight. Blamed me for her getting scammed. I baisically had to get on my knees and beg to wear a crop top and mind you that crop top was below my belly button. I had to beg her to wear anything but bermuda shorts. She is terrified of me being r*ped because she was. Ahe hasnt mentally aged and she refuses to go the therapy. Last night she used her being suicidal as an excuse as to why what my dad did was so bad. my dad was took my sister and I away from her for a week. My dad took my sister and I away from our abusive mother for a week. Thats all he did. She has had the fucking audacity to hit him and to call him names and say how shitty a person he is. The night before we left she yelled at me and said that I was treating her horribly and when my dad sided with me she yelled at him and said that he 'should see how I treat her'

Baisically my life is falling apart and i have no one to talk too.

[not-so-pessimist-felix]

Not my mom complaining that she won't get a mother's day present even tho every time I do she says she's disappointed. I literally offered her a freaking canva of her favourite band that I did on my own, a spa stay, poems, I even wrote her a f*cking song. You do not deserve any gift.

[euphoricwhxre]

I look in the mirror and all i see is

you

you

you

[not-every-mother-is-a-mom-blog]

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[crying-star-dust]

I don’t know why I keep trying telling her things, if she keeps ignoring me.

And she asks herself why she doesn’t know anything about me.

[shikon-drowning]

Please

Can I have a mother who isn’t lying to me or my siblings and doesn’t treat us like her maids and servants.

I’m so sick and done that this morning I refused to eat until she left the house so that I wouldn’t have to be near her.

I’m scared of her, and myself. I’m so sick, I feel like vomiting.

[fairytalesandfolklore-blog1]

The Hand With the Knife

“The Hand With the Knife” by Jacob and Wilhelm Grimm, from The Original Folk and Fairy Tales of the Brothers Grimm, translated by Jack Zipes. Read online.

This tale puts the grim in the brothers Grimm. A little girl lives with her mother and three brothers. The mother loves the brothers but neglects and abuses the little girl. Every morning the child was sent out to dig up peat--with a blunt shovel no less--for the family fire. This would have been an extremely arduous task for a little girl. The girl had an admirer, though, in the form of an elf. The elf would stick his hand out to give the girl a sharp knife. When the girl finished her work, she would return the knife.

One day the family became suspicious about how the child was finishing her work so fast, so the brothers followed her. They took the knife away from her, and when the elf stuck out his hand to take the knife back, those nasty brothers cut it off--the elf’s hand, that is. The elf believed the little girl had betrayed him, and he was never seen again.

What a horror story. Yes, elf dismemberment is pretty brutal, but the real horror is the abusive mother and her minion sons. They are so toxic toward the sister that they are willing to destroy anyone who befriends her.

I hope you run away as soon as you are big enough to survive, little girl. No prince is coming to save you from your abusive mother, but your chances of survival are better on your own than with this family.