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[beethetogruta]

Updated introduction

Hello There, I am Bea.

My pronouns are he/they/she.

My birthday is May 12th and I'm 17

I have a review blog: @theonewherebeereviewsshit

I like Star Wars, the Osemanverse, The Addams Family, Musical Theatre and TBBT-verse. I also read an ridiculous amount of fanfiction.

Fun Facts!?:

I have depression and a chronic pain disease, both of which make me tired as fuck!

I have a Padawan braid.

I'm studying to work in genetics

I recently started sixth form Graduated!!!

In relation to star wars I love all of it, especially Ahsoka, Padme and Leia.

I love percy jackson

I love the addams family (ask me anything about the original series and it's actors. you will be slammed with an info dump)

I'm learning Dutch and Spanish.

I love pocky, hello panda and rice/corn cakes.

I change the vibes and name of this blog on a semi-regular basis, don't worry about it.

[amaraqwolf]

Are you trapped on tumblr right now?

Is there something you planned to do before you got trapped in the endless tumblr scroll?

Are you yelling at yourself to get up and do the thing, but you can’t, because you’re trapped in the endless tumblr scroll?

Consider this your save point.

Put tumblr down, stand up, stretch, and go do the thing you planned to do. Future you will be incredibly grateful.

[amaraqwolf]

Things people in the notes have been able to do thanks to this post:

eat breakfast

go to bed

get out of bed

take a shower

write

practice

watch Superman Returns and write a paper on it

retain shreds of sanity

I need y’all to know that you’re doing amazing, and I’m so glad that I was able to help you break out of a procrastination loop you did not want to be stuck in.

[andythecarpathian]

Helpful post I’ve added to my queue in case it helps someone else at the random point when it’s posted.

[beethetogruta]

pov: you found a place to commune with others your age only to sit there and have everyone ignore you

[beethetogruta]

NEW POV: You found a new, better place in the city and have since made better friends who have never made you feel unattractive or shitty!

also one of them is also pagan!

(context. i have had one friend over the last 8 years rhat doesnt make me feel horrible! (hi bestie) but i recently made friends at the new place i go to! i love them)

[frandrescherr]

The kisses between Fran and Charlie <3

 I think this kiss is just asdfghjkl

 this is just to cute!

   This is called passion.

I want to thank everybody who made these amazing gifs!! THANK YOU!

[beethetogruta]

HOW IS THIS NORMAL BETWEEN FRIENDS. FRIENDS DONT SMOOCH AS MANY TIMES AS THESE TWO

[frandrescherr]

The kisses between Fran and Charlie <3

 I think this kiss is just asdfghjkl

 this is just to cute!

   This is called passion.

I want to thank everybody who made these amazing gifs!! THANK YOU!

[tarynitup2011]

Reblogging yet again, because they are seriously my OTP. Both on screen and off.

[beethetogruta]

THIS

[beethetogruta]

It's my 2 year anniversary on Tumblr 🥳

[beethetogruta]

pov: you found a place to commune with others your age only to sit there and have everyone ignore you

[beethetogruta]

[theforcekeepers]

DO NOT DO THIS.

This makes me so angry.

If you work in a movie theater and you do this I have no respect for you.

My younger brother is Type 1 Diabetic.

When we go to a movie theater, we always get him diet soda. If he were to get regular when we asked for diet, we would not give him the insulin he would need for it. If that happens, his blood sugar level could go so high he could go into a coma, go blind, or even die.

If somebody gave him regular soda instead of diet without telling us, that person could be responsible for a nine-year-old being killed or blinded.

Just thinking about that makes me so angry. I get scared every time we take him to a movie in case the people working there saw this picture and decide to do the same thing.

Please signal boost this so people know.

[wreckedupbarnes]

This also applies to baristas

[kimchicutie-deactivated20180618]

Fun story about the baristas doing this kind of shit. 

I am very sensitive to lactose, not Lactose intolerant but because of stomach ulcers that are still healing. A couple years ago I went to Starbucks right after my classes with some friends and asked for a green tea latte with soy milk. The barista, for some reason out of malice and/or hate for her life so she took it out on me, gave me whole milk in my latte.

5 minutes after my first sip of latte, my stomach cramped BAD. Not the “Oh! time to poop!” kind of cramp but it felt like someone had stabbed me with a knife and twisted it. Now I’ve had this happen before so I knew the cause of it. I went up to the barista clutching my gut screaming at her that she put dairy in my latte rather than soy LIKE I REQUESTED. She denied it and called me a “pretentious white girl for wanting soy”and so my friends got the manager. I had to explain that I had stomach ulcers that were still healing and if I were to go to the hospital for this incident, they would be responsible for it.

Manager flipped his shit and the barista was terrified out of her mind. Pretty sure both thought i was gonna sue. Manager actually fired her on the spot because of the negligence. My friends managed to get me home in one piece while I stayed home for 3 days in absolute agony and missed my midterm.

So remember kiddies, if someone is asking for Diet or “Skinny” or “soy” or anything that is not regular, give them what they requested because it may not be them being healthy, but a dietary need that can possibly be life or death

[housebuiltbyghosts-deactivated2]

also if they ARE trying to be healthy you should give it to them to!! Its not your decision to police or question others food choices!!! 

also im lactose intolerant AND ive had stomach infections/ulcers so i feel this. 

[cartoonkatelyn]

I have Celiac Disease, so I’m very gluten intolerant. When I go out to eat at restaurants a lot of people just assume that I asked for my food gluten free because of the gluten free diet fad (which is usually a bullshit diet btw). 

Last month I went out to dinner with a friend at an italian restaurant that had a small gluten free menu. I had been there once before and had their gluten free pasta and it was great! I think one of the managers had been there and was super helpful when taking my order to make sure that everything was gluten free for me. When I ordered the gluten free pasta again this time though, the waitress who took my order all but rolled her eyes at me. I didn’t think much of it at the time, because the restaurant was so accommodating before, I just assumed it would be the same this time.

But sure enough, they brought out my pasta, I ate it, and about an hour later I had extreme stomach pains and was throwing up (in a movie theater no less).

Barfing and agonizing pain aside, eating gluten when you have celiac causes a lot of internal damage that’s hard to notice. The biggest thing is that it damages your intestines, preventing your body from absorbing nutrients properly, which can take months to heal.

So PLEASE, if you work at a restaurant or anything with food and someone asks for something a certain way, please listen to them and don’t just disregard someone’s order. It’s not funny and it can have serious consequences.

[somethingnottooclever]

I will reblog this with every single story about someone getting sick because of an asshole giving them the opposite of what they ordered until it sinks in for everyone.

[sailornightfury]

Recently on the news a 16 year old boy with a dairy allergy had gone to eat at IHOP with his family. The specifically asked if they could make dairy free pancakes and they said yes. Not too long after he had a reaction and was rushed to the hospital. This kid died because the was dairy in his pancakes that they asked for no dairy. His epi pen that his mother had wasn’t enough to help him. I know working in fast food or any job that’s serves food and beverage sucks but not as much as causing someone to get sick over negligence.

[obstinate-nocturna]

My youngest cousin – who is now five, he just started kindergarten – has Celiac’s disease. You would not BELEIVE the amount of times I’ve heard my aunt say she’s ordered something gluten free, only to watch the waiter or waitress’s eyes go huge when she gives it to my cousin – my cousin with the medical id band on his tiny five year old wrist proclaiming I HAVE CELIACS and have to take it back. Shit like this could kill my cousin. Knock it the fuck off.

[iopele]

I cannot tolerate caffeine–it makes me have chest pain and a racing pulse, and also gives me horrible body pain, so I always ask for decaf if I order coffee when I’m out, and doublecheck with the waiter/ress when they bring it. but instead of saying “is this decaf like I asked for?” I always say “oh, did I remember to order decaf?” I shouldn’t have to act like I’m the forgetful one (because I know damn well I asked for decaf) but it seems to work better than implying that they screwed up when I take the blame on myself like that. and if there’s any hesitation when they answer, I tell them, “if there’s any doubt, please get another one, or just give me water–if this is regular, it’ll mess up my heart” and lots of times when I say that, they look alarmed and go change it or get another one. 

but I shouldn’t HAVE to share my personal medical history with strangers just to get my order right! no one should! how is it their business? it makes me really uncomfortable to have to do that. JUST GIVE PEOPLE WHAT THEY ORDER!

[minnigem]

I’ve reblogged this maaaany times before but there’s a few new stories on here so i’m doing it again.

cut this shit out

[willowfae82]

don’t be that kind of asshole.

[untapdtreasure]

As a diabetic, this would make me so beyond angry. Skinny doesn’t mean they don’t have a life threatening illness. Skinny doesn’t mean they can process sugar the way you do. People that do this are the worst kinds of people. DO NOT DO THIS!

[forgetsuperman]

Me and my family went to a restaurant a few years back and one of the dishes we ordered was made with wine vinegar, which I am allergic to, so we asked the waiter to skip it, and he said sure, no problem, that’s fine. So my food gets to the table, and I start eating and then my throat closes and I can’t breathe and then I start coughing and throwing up right there in the middle of the restaurant and it was very fortunate that I was with my family and they knew what was happening to me. I had to be rushed to the hospital, and admitted, and I came damn near close to having my throat cut open so I could breathe through a whole on my neck. Because they put wine vinegar in my food when I explicitly told them not to, because they were assholes, and I could have died. They probably didn’t mean to hurt me but they did. I missed class, and work, and, again, I COULD HAVE DIED.

[cowthropologist]

i have cyclic vomiting syndrome and can’t tolerate dairy or red meat. violating my dietary restrictions triggers an acute episode, and i have to be hospitalized and given iv saline, ativan, and anti-emetics to stop the (extremely painful and incapacitating) vomiting. if somebody put regular milk instead of soy milk in my latte and i didn’t notice the taste immediately, i could wind up in the er and then spend several days in bed recovering, eating nothing but saltines and dry toast and clear liquids until my body was able to tolerate food again, unable to work or go out or do anything besides rest. whenever i go to starbucks, i WATCH them make my drink. cvs episodes are horrible and i hate them, and i can prevent them if i do everything right, but that means my damn barista has to cooperate. if somebody decided i was a stuck up white girl and gave me whole milk instead of soy they could put me in the hospital and cost me days of income. give ppl the food they fuckin order. it’s not that hard.

[voltspice]

Reblogging because it’s so important. I’m “lucky” I don’t have any food allergies or intolerence, but it makes me mad when people take them not seriously, think you are picky or just following a “white girl diet fad”.

90% of people don’t take my cats and dog allergies seriously when I tell them I’m allergic and wondering if a cat or a dog is present at X place. They think it’s just watery eyes. Nope. Well yeah, watery and itchy eyes, but I start wo wheeze and have trouble breathing. They don’t give epi-pen for those (anyway you have to go to the hospital after) just inhaler. It’s no miracle, specially if I didn’t take other meds before.

When people tell you about their allergies or restriction, trust them!

[40yodater]

Reblogging for all the stories here because this is sooo important! 

I have a severe allergy to gluten and relate to MANY of the stories above. My daughter has a severe allergy to milk fat, and I have had to hold her hair many times while she vomits on the side of the road because we couldn’t even make it home from the “accidental” whole milk instead of skim. 

[greenteamoon]

I’m super lactose intolerant so accidental milk is always fun. Severe diarrhea, stomach cramps, bloating, and gas like you wouldn’t believe. Better than death you might say but, I have other medical conditions, so that diarrhea could lead to vomiting(it’s so bad the vomit comes out my mouth AND nose) and dehydration that in turn becomes low cortisol and adrenal crisis. A bitchy barista can land me in the hospital with an intramuscular shot and saline iv. Hun, it takes no time to listen and follow my order. It takes me at least 24 hours to get out of the hospital. Be nice.

[cleverclovers]

I’m allergic to pork. Legit allergic. I can’t count how many times I’ve had to ask it off my food only to receive it with bacon or ham or something on it.

Please respect peoples food requests. It costs 0.00$ to not be a dick.

[prismatic-bell]

I actually have customers who say they’ll only eat at my restaurant when I’m there, because they know I require all policy to be followed, as in “I will kick you the fuck off your shift if you skimp,” if someone says the words “I have an allergy.” I developed our allergy policies, for that matter, because what we had in place before was “I guess you shouldn’t change your gloves … . ?” On my shifts your gloves get changed, that line gets wiped down with a new cloth, paper under EVERY ITEM for the person with the allergy, bag their food separately to prevent contact. If there’s a risk of cross-contamination with an allergen, like tomatoes in the guac because stuff spills when you’re moving as fast as we do, I’ll open a new bag of food. I learned the ingredients in every item we serve so I could advise people on hidden allergens (e.g., there’s a small amount of wheat in our beef as a thickener; we fry with safflower oil). We have a grease pencil to mark special builds and I use it liberally on allergy orders. If all of this sounds like overkill, you’ve never watched a child suffer from anaphylaxis. I don’t play around.

Like, I bitch about my job a lot, but food allergies and special needs are not something I will ever bitch about. Even if you’re a complete asshole I won’t risk contaminating your food. (Although people with allergies seem to be way nicer than the general population, I gotta say.) Don’t do it. If someone’s a petty asshole to you, give them too much ice in their drink. Don’t play with their health.

[tired-philosopher]

DO NOT FUCKING SCROLL PAST THIS P L E A S E

[iambloggingthat]

Reblogging this again because it is important. Doing the right thing has no cost but doing the wrong thing can cost a person’s life. Don’t be a dick, give the person what they ordered

[angelofchaos9800]

Reblogging always. I especially hate that things that are legitimate concerns for people, EVEN LIFE AND DEATH SERIOUS, are taken as some kind of “fad” or “trend.” The benefit of a something becoming a trend is that it becomes more readily accessible.

The downside is when you actually need it, people assume it just for the trend.

Please don’t be this person. I beg you. Don’t sink to that level. Please.

[roseyturtles]

FOR THE LOVE OF GOD P L E A S E DON’T BE THIS PERSON.

[psychopomp-enthusiast]

I used to have a milk and eggs allergy as a child (as a baby to about kindergarten age). Both resulted in my having breathing issues and fainting. My parents had to always be watching what the hell went near me so that I wouldn’t have to go to the hospital because they weren’t sure what would happen when I fainted.

I don’t think you would want to be the one responsible for a toddler being sent to the ER, because a) you’d probably feel bad and b) the parents might sue.

Luckily I’ve grown out of it. But as a white bitch I don’t want to know what could’ve happened if I hadn’t grown out of them and had a negligent server at at restaurant…

Don’t question people when they order. It’ll save everybody the energy.

[ad-hominem-sappies-deactivated2]

You know what’s funny?

A lawsuit and being charged with attempted murder.

Don’t fuck with peoples orders

[paragonnat]

Why go out of your way to interfere with someone’s order like that? It honestly sounds like jealousy and bitterness. It doesn’t matter if you think someone is skinny or they’re just taking part in another diet fad and they won’t notice, YOUR ONLY JOB IS TO SERVE THEM WHAT THEY ORDERED!

IT IS NONE OF YOUR BUSINESS WHAT THEY CONSUME! DON’T BE A NASTY CUNT BECAUSE YOU HAVE YOUR OWN ISSUES!

You have no idea what your customer’s health is like, so grow up and just serve what you’re asked to serve. You aren’t paid to give diet advice to the customer, you are not paid to send them to the hospital.

Please reblog this, it’s important

[aependell]

Honestly if you pull this kinda shit and the person you almost killed sues your fucking ass, I will have no sympathy.

These kinds of people deserve to have their shit ruined to set a goddamn example.

[littlesilentrebel]

also, dont fucking assume all skinny people are on a diet

im pretty damn skinny, it is not because i watch what i eat

its because i have fast metabolism.

and along with everything else the other reblogs have said, why the fuck would you purposefully fuck with someone elses order???? what kind of dick move is that??

[hellenicsatyr]

as someone with celiac it is SO IMPORTANT that you give someone the order they asked for!! it could make them really sick!! if you want the logistics, someone with a disorder like mine would have issues absorbing the proper nutrients from food for the next few days!!!

ALWAYS give someone EXACTLY what they ordered. you could cause so much harm if you don’t.

allergies, diabetes, celiac, so many different reasons to follow someone’s order!!

[yoink-a-doink]

WHAT THE FUCKING SHIT

[evil-vampire-official]

as a diabetic, yikes

[cintagonisupset]

This is fucked up. I’d never mess with anyone’s food. I don’t have food allergies, I have sensory adversions. If somebody did that to me, I’d be mad. I can’t imagine someone doing that to someone with a real health condition that could kill them.

[achromatic-azurevizor]

also the “white skinny girls” doing the “fads” probably have eating disorders, or might be recovering from a surgery, or might be mentally ill so they can’t consume caffeine/salt/vinegar/sugar/etc due to it triggering somatic symptoms or interacting badly with treatment

also why someone says they don’t want something is none of your business?

[the-haiku-bot]

also why someone

says they don’t want something is

none of your business?

Beep boop! I look for accidental haiku posts. Sometimes I mess up.

[beethetogruta]

Adding my own story because I need something to be angry at. Was at the cinema with my dad. He asked for diet coke. Instead tho he got regular full sugar coke. We got through the film and he realised he was feeling sick. He checked his blood sugar which (in my country) shoildve been approx. 6-7 right? NOPE My dads blood sugar level was TWENTY FIVE.

still so fucking angry about it.

[depsidase]

[thecarvingwitch]

Stay safe, guys

[gendernewtral]

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[beethetogruta]

Important

[beethetogruta]

contrary to my over the top use of "yall" I am not southern. I am not even american.

[beethetogruta]

i think i need to up my depression meds haha.

does anyone read these?

[beethetogruta]

yall how worth it is reading Percy Jackson? Like I get the gist. Half Bloods stay at CHB cause it's dangerous otherwise etcetc

But like what's the ~vibes~ of it. Like action/adventure. Do we get much summer camp vibes? lemme know with minial spoilers please.

[beethetogruta]

I started reading it. I love it so much. It is hilarious

[beethetogruta]

yall how worth it is reading Percy Jackson? Like I get the gist. Half Bloods stay at CHB cause it's dangerous otherwise etcetc

But like what's the ~vibes~ of it. Like action/adventure. Do we get much summer camp vibes? lemme know with minial spoilers please.

[beethetogruta]

I wish I had more friends. I'm so fucking bored all the time. I'm never able to go out and have fun. i wanna sit on a roof top at dusk and talk about anything and everything with someone and take stupid snapchat videos together.

I have barely left the house in 3 years and I am craving human interaction.

I wish I wasn't so nervous to reach out to people I think are cool on here.

why am i like this?

[beethetogruta]

yall pinterest says this picture is a violation of guidelines. Says it's under 'adult content'

Dudes the adult content part of the guidelines says nothing about kissing

UPDATE: They specified that it was under adult content because pf 'sexual exploitation' ???? WHERE

[beethetogruta]

dudes i got my arm closed in an elevator (sorta. long story) a few weeks ago and it still really hurts. like even typing this hurts a whole lot.