#aceproblems

[thatonegirlkt]

Any other asexual have it easier to tell a straight person you’re asexual than another member of the lbgt because you still feel mildly invalidated within the community?

[kitt-draws]

Being asexual is like ordering a sundae, but they all come with cherries, and when you try to remove the cherry or eat the other stuff instead the sundae grows legs and walks away #asexual #aceproblems

[darlingdemi]

Are you an asexual/demisexual who:

Was dumped because of your asexual/demisexuality

Is afraid of getting close to new people, fearing they will cut ties once they hear about your “condition”

Was called “broken” & “too sensitive”

Feels:

Like your only value in society is as a sex vessel & your ability to perform sexual activities

Like it’s your fault

Like your physical appearance is the only thing that matters in attracting others, not your personality.

Was told:

“What’s the big deal? Why be selfish??”

“Just bear it. The pain goes away.”

“Geez you poor thing! You’re really missing out!”

“you should see a doctor, it’s not.... natural”

“I don’t think I can fall in love with you, if we aren’t going to have sex”

“Withholding sex from a partner is a manipulation tool.”

[kickasstransdumbass]

so. i just found out what the definition of flirting is

and apparently i’ve been flirting with every single person i’ve ever met

i genuinely thought what people call flirting was just how you talk to strangers

[coveredingoldentattoos]

Ok so I either stop being asexual or stop having a crush. I can't do both. It's exhausting.

[jasperinfinity]

a boy I met for .3 seconds at a frat just asked me out via fb messenger and his message was actually super sweet and nice but I asked around and apparently he a hoe and im a fucking asexual so.... not gonna work out