#adivice

[pierce-of-her-broken-heart]

There is no goodness in people who don’t give advice, and there is no goodness in people who don’t like to be advised. Umar ibn al-Khattaab (radiallahu’anhu) [Risaalat Al-Mustarshideen, 71]

[farbenkriegerin]

you can't control what he does. it's not your job. if he chooses another girl, let him go. don't be mad at her - not at you, not at him. stop telling him what to do and what not to do. stop trying to control what's not in your power. let him be who he is, listen, laugh and watch him fall in love with you.

[witcherytent]

Witchcraft 101

Recolect everything you use for a spell like incense, salt, flowers, plants.

Put all the candle wax of all The candles you use before and now they are a bunch of candle wax, melt them in a pot then add the things, add essences if you prefer and when its all together put the mix to cool.

When it's all cool you will have a powerful spell-candle that you can use for a lot of things!

Don't forget about the thread

It's a free way to have a new candle but with a spell in it.

[claude-money]

my gf (im queer) told me that she doesn't understand why i cant get her hints after two years of being together. i told her that it doesn't come to me naturally because of my asperger's and she told me that it is not an excuse. she said that if she can get a new job and learn how to sell stuff (she sells carseats) then i can learn how to pick up hints. she's being really really mean towards me and doesn't even want to talk to me right now. i've apologized. what should i do?

Friend that sounds very unsettling. The fact that, after two years, she hasn’t become open minded and tolerant towards y’alls differences (as should happen with EVERY couple, not just for neurodivergent people) then that shows a lack of flexibility on her part that could very well be indicative of other toxic qualities.

I’m sorry that you felt the need to apologize to someone so unaccommodating towards you but I really don’t believe any of these issues are your fault. If you feel comfortable, I would try explaining your feelings to her as well as the things you’re having difficulty with.

If she’s unresponsive or if you’ve already tried this and it didn’t work, you may want to seriously review your wants as a person as well as what you’re looking for in a significant other.

If you need to talk any further please feel free to hit me up! I have the best wishes for you!

[kurrusu]

once you learn how to ignore some people your live will truly begins

[aquatoon22]

An original character for a series I dream about in yore. Still a work in progress, will and his, for lack of a better term, “stand” above him. I would love to hear what i should improve on, so don’t be afraid to be mean.

[t-rachemys]

Every single person I’ve asked a genuine opinion about the names of my OCs told be that they don’t like one of them. The same one for all of them.

It’s my favourite name in the book and it’s written in the text 650 times.

On one hand I think I should change it because why would I have asked for an opinion otherwise? And of course I want the names to be appealing.

On the other hand I like that name, I think it suits him, and I don’t want to waste the time to change it 650 times now that everything else is settled.

Uggghhhhh idk what to do

[nanny-sc]

Infamy

So i just finish The Terror, but now I have a doubts: watching or not watching The Terror Infamy?