I read somewhere, " Tum kisi ke pasandida nahin ho, tum bas mayassar ho, maujood ho, bas usse jyada aur kuch nahin."
"You're not anyone's favorite, you're just there, you're present for them, nothing more than that."

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I read somewhere, " Tum kisi ke pasandida nahin ho, tum bas mayassar ho, maujood ho, bas usse jyada aur kuch nahin."
"You're not anyone's favorite, you're just there, you're present for them, nothing more than that."
When Umer Jahangir said " Zindagi main har chiz har feeling, har shakhs ki replacment maujud hoti hai. Aur jo log kehte hai aisa nhi hota woh bakwas krte hain.
I understood ki hr cheez replaceable hoti hai mohabbat insan sb kuch. Jo kehte hai ki aapke bina mr jaayenge woh bhi appke bina zindgi main aage badh jaate hai.
But when Umera Ahmed wrote in Aab e Hayat:
“Voh log zindagi me kyun aate hai jo mukadar me nhi hote aur mukadar mẹ nhi hote toh aedhi ka kanta kyun ban jate hai.”
And when Nemrah Ahmed wrote in Halim:
"Kuch log hamare liye nhi hote ham duein krein ya jadu wou hme kbhi nhi mil sktay...In logon ka milnay ki khwaish ko tark krdena dil ko mardeta hai"
And when Umera Ahmed wrote in Amarbail:
“Zindagi mein kuch cheezein aesi hoti hn jo hme kbhi nhi mil skti...Chahein hum royein chilyein ya bachoun ki trha aeriyan ragrein wo kisi dusray ke liye hoti hein”
Umar Jahangir in Amarbail saying “Tum bohat achi ho aleezeh lekin mujhe tum se mohabbat nahi hai” is really true. Kuch loug waqai hamare dil main chah ke bhi utar nahi paate. Sometimes I really think about, insaan itna bebas hai ke usko apne dil pe ikhtiyar tak nahi hai. Hosakta hai jo aaj aap par jaan dete hon, kal apka naam tak bhool jayen. Zindagi, khuwaishen, chahaten, itni unpredictable si hain, ke hum sirf bardasht hi kar sakte hain.
Rone se woh aa nahi jayega na
Mere rone se toh aa jata tha…
"Harti tou wo shuru se ayi thi,
mila tou usy bachpan se kuch nhi tha,
magar aj jo wo khony ja rhi thi
uske baad usy jeena bhi tha".
ہارتی تو وہ شروع سے آئی، ملا تو اس بچپن سے کچھ نہیں بھتا، مگر آج جو وہ کھونے جارہی تھی اس کے بعد اسے جینا بھی بھتا۔"
"I get Umer, I get everything, I lost Umer, I lost everything ".
“Zindagi me logo ko ek aadat zaroor seekh Leni chhaiye hai - jo cheez haath se nikal jaye use bhool jaane ki aadat. Ye aadat bhout si takleefo se bacha leti hai.”
- Amar Bail, Umera Ahmad
I grew up hearing that
Allah ki mohabbat kay siwa har mohabbat ko zawal hai
yet I never truly understood the weight of those words because
Kon seekha hai sirf baaton se ? Sab ko ek hadsa jaruri hai
until life exposed everything and there was no one left but Allah . In that silence, when the world felt distant and people felt unreachable, I realized how fragile human love can be, and how constant Allah's love has always been.
Agar humy andaza ho jaye kay Allah kitny qareeb sy sunta hai
the prayers we don't even have the strength to speak, the thoughts we hide behind forced smiles, we would stop seeking reassurance from hearts that change, and start turning toward the One that never does. There comes a moment in life when you realize that
Allah agar apko na sambhalta toh shayad ap barbaad ho jaty
Looking back, humy samj aata hai that nothing was random. Every delay, every heartbreak, every unanswered prayer was guiding you somewhere safer, softer, closer to Him, And maybe that's the real lesson that when everything else fades, Allah remains, closer than your fears, steadier than your doubts, and enough in ways nothing else could ever be.