#anti exclus

[gray-ace-space]

a lot of the asks coming into this blog are in the tone of, "is this allowed?"

"am i allowed to call myself X, even though Y?" "am i allowed to be here?" "am i allowed to feel this way?" guys i am not a cop. you don't need to ask permission.

this is not meant negatively! i understand that sometimes you just feel doubt and like you don't belong or you're alone, and need someone to affirm you, and i am so honored and happy to be that someone.

but just to be safe i made you this permit. free to use without credit. you're welcome.

[penatola]

wild people are trying to rewrite history that the truscum/transmed era was somehow. mainly transfems attacking trans dudes.

i was there. they were not, and still are not, normal about trans women. theres a reason why no trans women are in those spaces, why they are so tmasc-oriented. every conversation even with "tucutes" (or inclus v exclus) were non-transfeminized dominant. They never discussed us nor our issues.

Don't get me wrong, some trans girls definitely believe that stuff. But rarely will you see any in those community spaces. Part of our ostracization from everyone else is that our community spaces kinda developed seperately. Have seperate histories.

So, no, it wasn't evil transfems telling you you're not a real man and you're a transtrender or this or that - it was other trans men. It was always other trans men. The movements' cornerstone was toxic-transmasculinity. Demanding conformity from other trans men or "AFABs" who wanted to prove they were "really trans." Don't push y'all's bs on us. It has always been and still is today ignorant trans MEN saying shitty ass things, and taking out their masculinity issues on other trans men. Not trans women. What level of internet discourse brainrot is this?

[cherishedverses]

Just sayin

[tinylambnursery]

i love when exclusionists are like “hehe, go outside and see how society treats you 🤓 you wouldn’t last 5 minutes at pride” and they’re just outing themselves as the ones who never go outside because people at pride events in real life don’t care what you are lmao. they act like if you’re a lesboy at pride you’re gonna be publicly shamed or something. honestly the worst you’d get is someone asking how your identity works, which isn’t a bad question to ask.

exclusionists, please, you are the ones who need to go outside. idk what pride events yall are going to but it’s not the same ones we’re going to, lmao.

[virovirokun-has-adhd]

By applying a set of strict rules that cannot be broken to a label and inforcing them to the point of calling someone invalid if they don't comply, this is called label policing and is an exclusionist & bigotry behaviour.

[mogaiminty]

its honestly really frustrating and kinda hurts when people say they support lesboys/turigirls but also say "cis men cant be lesboys" or "cis women cant be turigirls" as if genderqueer , cistrans, adgender, and overall gender diverse cis people dont exist

[ridibulous]

whart is a boy lesbian ?1

a lesbian who is also a boy! right on the tin

TO CLARIFY: this label is often used by various queer folk, such as transmascs who ID with the term lesbian, multigender people, and lesbians who simply feel happiest calling themselves boys, men, or male! to name only a few examples (because I couldn't possibly list them all)

I think contradictory labels are cool and awesome and swag and allows queer people to describe and label their various gender & orientation experiences in a way that makes them most comfortable.

[non-sam-aro]

Image description: Screenshot with blackout poetry. It says: there's bi lesbians. Lesbians are lesbian are bi. Please spread the information that that's real