My Tamtey 100% considers Anufi, Kin, Ka'nat, and Nefika as her parents. They treat her so kindly and are always so happy to see her, she knows they watch after her in their own way and even worry about her but she doesn't know to what extent. She introduces them to Ri'nela, Nor and Teylan in hopes that they'll maybe consider them a littld as parent figure or at least as mentors.
These kids have gone through a lot, they deserve this.
The four do consider her and the other Sarentu kids as their kids too, yes even Nor. To the point that sometimes Kin and Ka'nat will brag to the other about how they go to them for advice or to vent about some issue or other. It's so much worse when it's Ri'nela and Tamtey though because they're such girl dads lol.
The one upping got so bad once there was even contemplation about them having to do some split custody with the kids so they wouldn't have to interact as much. That changed after the Great Games and the Mangkwan situation, now they're over protective dads.
He won't say it but Ka'nat has a soft spot for Nor, he sees so much of his younger self in Nor that sometimes he feels like he's looking at a mirror.
He takes Nor under his wing and starts to teach him to grow past his resentment and anger because he knows Nor can be a good man.
Teylan is Kin's soft spot, kid is so curious and always wants to learn even if things scare him a bit. He can see how much Teylan wants to grow and learn and so takes his time teaching him common na'vi ways, even when Teylan turns to his human comforts Kin is always patient he is never cruel or judgmental.
Kin is the fun dad and Ka'nat is the stern dad, I will not argue about this, this is the hill I will die on.
But don't let them hear about Tamtey or Ri'nela having a crush or someone starting to court them. They will set aside every petty argument they're having and team up to be the most intimidating duo, ain't no one they don't approve of going anywhere near their daughter's. You'd think they'd be better if it was someone they knew but nooo its so much worse because they know they can get away with more lol.
As for Nefika and Anufi, they love the shared custody with the kids. They give them more reasons to get together and chat and they have more kids they can dote on.
I think that while Ka'nat and Kin are girl dads, Nor is 100% a mommies boy lol, he will do what they ask without putting up to much of a fight, he feels proud of himself when they smile up at him and thank him.
Teylan is somewhere in the middle he likes to go to both Ka'nat and Kin as well as Nefika and Anufi. It mostly depends on what the issue is and what kind of advice he's looking for.
To me Anufi is Tamtey's favorite, with everything that's happened to her she likes the calm that surrounds Anufi. She likes to go to her for advice about leadership and self reflections. Anufi is very patient with her and can understand how it feels to blame oneself for things that weren't your fault.
(Tamtey blames herself for the situation with the Mangkwan, she thinks if they'd never been so involved with taking down Mercer and Harding then the Mangkwan wouldn't have happened.)
Ri'nela loves to hang out with Nefika, with her she isn't Tsahik or a resistance leader she's just girl. They love to gossip and over the styles of hair and clothes, she can asks nefika dor advice too and but the woman doesn't make it sound like it's some super serious thing more like basic chatter and hypothetical.
The love to corner Tamtey and dress her up and do her hair, girl is running around constantly and is constantly needing her shit repaired or redone. They love to put her in her crushes favorite colors, or outfits just to see their reactions.
The 100% tease the other together, Ri'nela and Nefika are a menace together.
Ri'nela also starts to learn how to weave from Nefika and her daughter and starts to make Sarentu clothes that integrates styles from the other clans into theirs.
(I wanted to write this and will probably be adding other posts to it, I like to think that as these four take in the kids as their own.)
(This is also my crack family ship and a big fuck you to Alma, thinking they could be a family after the shit she'd done. How devastating it had to be to see the kids to "raised" choosing "strangers" to be their parental figures instead of you.)













