#aro lesbians

[acexualien]

This is part three, the final part of The History Of Lesbian Flags series! This flag is by far my favourite. Which one do you like best?

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[queer-love-4-women]

I love you trans lesbians

I love you ace-spec lesbians

I love you aro-spec lesbians

I love you genderqueer lesbians

I love you multi-spec lesbians

[nerethos]

Happy Lesbian Visibility Day & Happy Lesbian Visibility Week

[amberpriceenthusiast]

Yes I’ve posted about this lyric 3 time already no I will not stop

“I want to love a boy the way I love the ocean” is really doing things to my aro lesbian brain

Scratching it just right actually

It’s kind of exactly how I feel even though I’m not really struggling with comphet

[thejsorcerer]

aspec lesbians that prioritize their aspec identity are wonderful ⚘

aspec lesbians that prioritize their lesbian identity deserve the world 🌸

aspec lesbians are beautiful and valuable to both aro and/or ace & lesbian communities. keep thriving dears 💐

[star-allos]

Shout out to aro lesbians this ldov - regardless of what anyone says, your lack of romantic attraction doesn't make you any less of a lesbian, and this day is yours too!

[ace-and-aro-wlw-positivity]

Pastel Aro Lesbian Moodboard // Mod Primaria

[somethingmissingthiswaycomes]

On Bi/Pan Lesbians, Fuckers

@cosmic--dragon So my partner was super comfy with responding to you about bi lesbian hate, and I (with her permission) decided to make it into a post since it’s so thoroughly thoughtful.

I love her

so much.

The following is their response unedited. /endofsomething

/startofpanda

The main thing you hear people say that identifying as bi/pan lesbian somehow invalidates both lesbians and bi/pan people how exactly that's supposed to work I'm not sure It's holding on to the idea that lesbians can only ever be binary women in love with other binary women it is an extremely unnuanced position that ends up completely discrediting the many non-binary people who identify with feminine labels and the many people attracted to feminine non-binary people as well as binary women or those who are like.. 95% attracted to femme people except for the odd man or masculine person, which apparently immediately disqualifies them from identifying as a lesbian I genuinely don't know where anyone's getting the bullshit from that the concept of bi lesibians was made up by terfs to somehow invalidate trans women's identities as women that's a leap of logic that I don't think I could explain two women, cis or trans, in a relationship is still a very lesbian thing... the existence of bi/pan lesbians changes nothing about that? A lot of it is also just assholes getting upset over smaller distinctions and nuances in labels because I guess seeing anything with a hint of nuance just upsets them while a bi lesbian can be a woman who is almost entirely but not entirely attracted to other women, I've found that many of them are women or feminine non-binary people attracted to women, as well as other feminine genders and presentations and they find that nuance important enough to be a part of the label they identify with, without sacrificing the comfort they get from identifying as lesbian as for me, I'm a feminine non binary person who almost exclusively likes femininity but also very occasionally more masculine presenting people I find the term pan to be fitting but not nuanced enough to really convey every important aspect of my identity I've seen people argue that I could just use WLW or sapphic instead of appropriating lesbianism but the problem is that WLW ends up being similarly unnuanced to convey my identity, plus not being very convenient as a label and sapphic relates right back to lesbianism so there's not really a meaningful distinction there, besides sapphic being less common and there's also just the simple fact that I don't think I need to explain why lesbian feels the most accurate to me the same way I don't need to explain why feminine agender feels to represent me better than any other label Gender and attraction are very complicated and nuanced, bi/pan lesbian exclusionism can take many shapes from non-binary erasure to extremely unnuanced views of gender/sexuality /endofpanda

/startofsomething

I hope this helps! I’ll be blocking anyone on sight who comes at this post with malice. <3