#mspec lesbians

[isabellascarlett1]

“Contradictory” queer identities have ALWAYS existed, will ALWAYS exist, and will ALWAYS be absolutely AMAZING!!! 💗💗

I love y’all BoyDykes, Lesboys, Turigirls, Lesbois, Turiqirls, GirlFags, Bi Lesbians, Pan Lesbians, Bi Gays, Pan Gays, Bi Straights, Cis Trans folks, AFAB TransFems, AMAB TransMascs etc.

I myself am a BiPan Lesbian! :D

Calling these “invalid” is antithetical to queerness itself.

[fixing-bad-posts]

This should go without saying but this blog is welcoming towards trans/non-binary mspec lesbians. It is fucking Simple as that.

[contradictory-label-culture-is]

lesboy culture is noticing a pattern. isn’t it so weird how you guys (/nay) are concerned about lesboys and mspec lesbians but aren’t at all worried about the existence of turigirls and mspec gays wow it’s almost as if you’re obsessed with lesbians or something. imagine that

Right and I think it's because it's viewed as a "women's space" ....like even if there's hate against trans men or Turigirls or mspec gays the word "invading" isn't used a lot. I feel like it's a very patriarchal thing to view "womenhood" (since lesbianism isn't just women) as a pure, unbreakable thing with a million rules and it can't be dirted.

[lexthermxtt]

if your first response when you find out about a (very small and not harmful) group of people that you don’t understand is to degrade and harass people of that group because you think they’re wrong in that group

maybe you’re a bad person

[tumblerose-has-left-the-building]

I have a simple rule for life that can be applied to anything and anyone:

You can't gatekeep someone's existence

This rule applies to a wide range of identities and people, here, let's give a few examples;

Bi Lesbians are harmful beca-

You can't gatekeep someone's existence

Aspec people aren't LGBT+ becau-

You can't gatekeep someone's existence

A lesbian can't use he/him pronouns bec-

You can't gatekeep someone's existence

If someone says they're X but you don't like X so you try to undermine their identity or somehow call it "harmful" then you're the problem, it's hard enough trying to just exist while openly not a cishet white guy and if someone finds a label that fits it is not your job to tell that person that Um Akshually That Label Which Aligns With Your Lived Experience is harmful because blah blah blah, it is your job to say I'm happy you're figuring yourself out and then move on with your day.

The only "identities" that are harmful are bigoted ones that actively attack others, so basically only Super straight morons and terfs. anyone else, it's not your fuckin problem. If someone says the split attraction model helps them articulate their feelings and experiences even when not aspec, you don't get to be the final say in telling them they're not "allowed" to use it, I'll say it one more time for the people in the back:

You can't gatekeep someone's existence

Thanks for coming to my fuckin Ted talk if you have to bitch my inbox is open so I can easily block you have a nice day

[chaos-in-one]

The way that people on tik tok in particular will get so incredibly MAD if you don't explicitly hate whatever niche group of people 90% of people irl have never even heard of will forever be wild to me

Like it happens on most socials to some extent, but I see it a lot more often on tik tok where people will get angry if you even just don't give a fuck, literally any opinion other than explicitly hating them

[rgbfall]

btw