#asexual ranting

[msdarkside55]

Asexual advice for non Asexual people

For example: this is what I am.

Asexual: The main definition is of a person who doesn’t not find someone sexually attractive at all. But there is more. My definition, the one that has to do with me, is a person who does not wish to partake in the sexual or physical nature of a relationship if I so choose to be in said relationship.

I am an Asexual Virgin who yes does want a relationship but one without the sexual aspect at all. I can love you all the same, completely and whole heartedly, but we do not need to fuck for me to feel that way. Because honestly it’s a waste of time and to me it’s useless to do. I’d rather stay a virgin and that is my choice. Respect it and I’ll respect you.

I do not want to hear another damned fuck tard say i will duck somebody one day, or call me a child because I don’t do the “adult” thing and fuck somebody, or tell me I’m broken, stupid, I haven’t found someone yet, I need to fuck somebody to be happy or try and force me into it when I’ve told you flat out multiple times no, and I’m very uncomfortable.

I’m sorry that I am very comfortable with what I’ve chosen. And I am actually happy I’m a Virgin and Asexual. I always have been and no I do not need to find the “right person” or “have to have it first to say I don’t want it or not.”

Sex does not make me happy or an Adult. I am already one without that. Thanks

[sergeanttomycaptain]

Cracks me up when I see posts like "oh if one character in [insert popular ship] were a different gender this ship would totally be canon and that's the tea" so here's a psa I'm a relentless friendship shipper and any gender combination will not stop me from picking cuddles over earplugs so jot that down 😎👉👉

[psychomech]

Being asexual sucks sometimes. For the most part, I don’t want a relationship. It just doesn’t matter, in the same way that you don’t care about the haircut of a person you’ve never met. It’s not on my radar and it mystifies me how it can be such a big part of life for everyone else. And then I see on TV or in writing depictions of people who really want to be together. Poly romances where everybody can be together and feel loved and wanted. And I can’t even have one person like that. I don’t even know how to. I don’t know how to court interest. I don’t know how to make myself even okay when that interest is directed toward me. My instinct is to steer it back to casual friendship, always. I’m not cool with being alone forever. I just want a person that can be like my best friend, that wants me around and wants to cuddle with me and wants to sleep in the same bed. And, of all things, it feels like that’s something I will never have. Sometimes that makes me really, really sad. I don’t get a dream girl. There isn’t a girl out there who I would want who would want me.

[itsamystari]

Fuckin just- school bitches I swear to god. If one more person asks my boyfriend if he "got any cuddy" from me I swear to god I'm going to punch them. They all fucking know I'm asexual! Assholes, the whole lot of them.

[poecurl]

me @ allosexual people: stop trying to dictate what asexuality is. you're wrong 100% of the time and i'm tired of it. 

[jesstielle]

lichtenstrange replied to your photo “WOW WOWWWWWWW”

aww man awwwww maaaaannnn lemme at em

WITH PLEASURE

i also had this in my inbox this morning: 

"So you have no sexual preference? Nothing about any gender arouses you? I apologise for my curiosity, I know these are rather personal questions being asked of you by a stranger :)"

needless to say i didnt take that lying down 

edit: okay he said he'll go educate himself lol.  that's a win i guess.

[skyglitched]

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