#asexual wlw

[ace-lesbian-culture-is]

What It's Like to Be in a Relationship With an Asexual

An asexual woman and her partner weigh in on the most frustrating and satisfying aspects of their relationship.

'When we started dating, I sometimes would feel guilty. I thought I should do it for [Jamie]. Initially, I did things just to make her happy, but she eventually told me, “Cut the crap, you don’t need to do it.” In our hypersexual culture, we attach body to sex. It works for some people while it doesn’t work for others. We both like cuddling dogs and have long conversations with each other. She is also my best friend.'

What It’s Like to Be in a Relationship With an Asexual by Shambhavi and Jamie for VICE (2018)

[vegantinatalist]

had a dream i had a girlfriend who was also sex repulsed like me and she was kissing and snuggling me and i felt so safe and relaxed, like no fear whatsoever of losing her over the no sex thing. i felt so small and protected with fuzzies in the stomach with love for her, like i reconnected with a part of me that ive grown detached from after so many years of having to be hopeless and tough about everything.

i usually only have nightmares but the few good dreams i have are so potent they sting worse

[stockingsandglitter]

In the mood to pin a pretty woman down and kiss her until we're both out of breath

[geospark]

I'm not sorry that I haven't been as active. Why you may ask???

I GOT A FLIPPING GIRLFRIEND

She's SO sassy, and SO adorable for it. I'm sitting there on the phone; after she had a long day at work and talking about it to relieve stress, with a contentness in my heart that I haven't felt in a long time. Listening to her voice I think,

I adore you

And

I admire you

I cannot help but smile when you laugh, I cannot help but want to hold your hand when we hang out next time. I want to admire all those round adorable features of yours.

This may never reach you because I'm too afraid to say it so early, and I may forget, but just know, your lighting up my world, a soft illumination, not too bright to dull me out, but bright enough so we can shine together.

[yearning-sapphic]

heres a little reminder to you all that if you are asexual you are completely valid and I love you, and if you are aromantic you are completely valid and I love you, and if you are aroace you are completely valid and I love you

[queer-love-4-women]

Qlw all across the asexual spectrum should feel safe and welcome in qlw spaces. Acephobia is queerphobia and not tolerated here.

[Start ID: The asexual flag which has black, grey, white and purple stripes with black text in the center that reads: Ace-spec QLW Should Always Feel Safe And Welcome In QLW Spaces. End ID]

[maudlin-queer-in-training]

The fact that the Hunters of Artemis and the Amazons exist in the same mythology is asexual and lesbian solidarity

[sapphic-sprite]

asexual aromantic sapphics are amazing!