#antisexual

[therealstanfordpines]

Aromantic is too lenient of a term. I am antiromantic. "Aromantics can still be in relationships!" Not me, I'm antiromantic.

Antisexual is now a term as well. Happy pride, antis, antis, and antiantis.

[hibou088]

I am antisexualist because I have discovered that sex is used for only 2 purposes: pleasure and procreation. This world has a lot of problems because it has an extremely large human population that has polluted and caused conflict for far too long. In order for the population to decrease, people must stop reproducing (for a while at least.) Sex that is not used for reproductive purposes is similar to drug abuse. People spend money and time on it and what do they get ? Temporary pleasure. Nothing more. Protected sex is a waste of time and money. Unprotected sex damages the world, one human birth at a time.

That being said, I'm not anti-romance or anti-relationships. I think that if people were genuinely looking for someone that they felt deeply in-tune with and compatible with, rather than someone who would agree to engage in whichever sexual acts they prefer at the time, relationships would last much longer and be much healthier. I've always disliked the idea that an act which is supposed to be the foundation of intimacy in a relationship can feel better with one person than with another simply because the first person has more "practice" or is comfortable with a wider range of acts. The fact that anyone can induce sexual pleasure in another person, whether there is love or not, really disturbs me. The idea of sex and the unfairness of "this person is this endowed, and that person has these discomforts and this person only orgasms if XYZ happens" takes all the romance out of the idea of falling in love for me.

I've mostly seen sex be about egos, power, and control in my life too. The fact that love is based on the exchange of favors seems really wrong to me. And unlike what the "pro-sex asexuals" seem to think, ALL OF US are affected by the cultural obsession with sex. You can't watch a movie or read a book where sex, romance, and the pursuit of it isn't present. You can hardly have a social relationship with someone, especially of the opposite sex, without sex being an issue at some point. Sex is never an "equal" action - it requires someone to use force over someone else's body, and porn is just an exaggeration of that basic fact, so the person used as the object in this situation is degraded as low as possible in new and more shocking ways just to keep it "interesting". What kind of mental state must someone be in to want to be degraded OR to degrade someone else? It hardly seems like a healthy state of mind to me and any kind of relationship with such an obvious lack of respect disgusts me. Maybe this is a symptom of a greater failure of society, that people are using sex to fulfill their otherwise empty lives.

[vegantinatalist]

had a dream i had a girlfriend who was also sex repulsed like me and she was kissing and snuggling me and i felt so safe and relaxed, like no fear whatsoever of losing her over the no sex thing. i felt so small and protected with fuzzies in the stomach with love for her, like i reconnected with a part of me that ive grown detached from after so many years of having to be hopeless and tough about everything.

i usually only have nightmares but the few good dreams i have are so potent they sting worse

[notthisvirgin]

Whenever a sex haver tries to convince me that sex is part of every relationship

[bl4th3rs]

Antisexual stimboard for @spooky-kittens !!

sorry this took so long I was going through it irl 💀 requests are open!!!

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[radlissa]

being female never meant that something has to be shoved up your body at some point in your life. it is not what you were created for. you can literally just exist without anything ever entering your birth canal. 🖤

[arcticsunrise]

Aromantic Apothisexual / Antisexual Flag

aroapoth / aroanti

Aromanticism is a romantic orientation characterized by experiencing little to no romantic attraction. The term "aromantic", colloquially shortened to "aro", refers to a person who identifies their romantic orientation as aromanticism

Apothisexual is a microlabel on the Asexual Spectrum. It is another word for sex-repulsed. For some apothisexuals, they are averse to the idea of engaging in sex themselves, but are fine with sexual activity that does not involve them. Others may be repulsed by the idea of sex in general. Those who are apothisexual typically do not seek out sexual relationships.

Antisexual describes one who has given up on love, relationships, and sex because of problems in their past, or to find better things in their life to do.

[isobug]

HQ Antiromantic and Antisexual Flag Remakes

An Aro-spec Romance-Negative/Repulsed/Adverse identity and an Ace-spec Sex-Negative/Repulsed/Adverse identity.

Made because I was doing a request and realized that these flags had some weird scanlines on some of the stripes

The two stripes before last one also had some major contrast issues for me as a half-blind person so I redid the color on the 2nd to last to be less similar while still trying to keep the original gradient

Flags were originally made by @beyond-mogai-pride-flags [ LINK ]

Should both be 5000 x 3000