I got a whole post drafted up about some heavy stuff (e.g. suicide. Not mine! Dw, just the concept). But I feel like people might piss on the poor about it. So I'm not sure if I should post it.
It's just that I keep seeing people express this sentiment that bodily autonomy includes the right to any suicide (not just legal, sanctioned assisted suicide/dying). And it's so wrong. It's dead wrong.
I'm a survivor myself - ten years since. And I'm horrified by the sentiment I keep seeing. That it's okay to shrug your shoulders at someone's suicide/suicidality because "bodily autonomy". What the hell are you thinking! Bodily autonomy is usually great and should be respected. But suicide should be the exception to bodily autonomy (unless legal/sanctioned by a health professional as part of a terminal diagnosis) - bodily autonomy can't happen if you're dead! These sentiments belong to an absolutely dangerous logical extreme that needs to be dropped yesterday.
Sparking incident was reading this article and seeing someone's tumblr comment citing "bodily autonomy" as to why they didn't feel pressed to be concerned about the suicide. That's dangerous. Even if a suicide doesn't make someone sad, suggesting that suicides are within the realm of bodily autonomy is obscene.
Yes, technically one would be exercising bodily autonomy when commiting suicide. No, this does not mean it's okay. The problem is treating bodily autonomy as an invisible do-not-cross line when it comes to suicide prevention. Using it as a shield to be passive and wash your hands of an uncomfortable obligation towards your fellow humans terrifies me.
It's dystopian. Suicide prevention is the "in order to have tolerance we must be intolerant of intolerance" of bodily autonomy. It's the situation where you have to break the "rule" in order to cause the least harm.
I will always *always* be an advocate for suicide prevention. People who shrug and shirk responsibility to be the "village" citing "bodily autonomy" scare me. It's horrifying as a survivor to see this rhetoric.
(please use reading comprehension and be in good faith please)













