#avpd system

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[ID: Six pixel hearts of various flags in order being AvPD System, Bellusgenic, Bestiegenic, Bigenic, Biidgenic, and Bilesgenic. End ID]

@revenant-coining Bellusgenic

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AvPD System : a system created, affected, or influenced by Avoidant Personality Disorder. If it is specifically an origin, the term avoidagenic may also be used.

[haunted-house-sys]

Can we stop telling people with the disorders that they are "romanticizing" them all because theyre trying their best to accept and coexist with said disorders?

Not everything is thunder clouds and and tornadoes, but its not sunshine and rainbows either.

You can love your system but hate having the disorder.

You can enjoy the heightened emotions BPD gives during the white splits while also suffering from the emotional deregulation amd black splits.

You can enjoy being the bounciness and multitasking skills you have while hating the loudness and overcrowding of thoughts and everything else with ADHD.

You can enjoy being alone and independent while also hating the loneliness and yearning of connection and wishing to be able to be dependent with AVPD.

Its not romanticizing anything if you are just trying to coexist with your disorders to make life easier for yourself.

Stop being grumpy at others for trying their best.

[haunted-house-sys]

When you and your partner system start rambling and talking about a few headmates that popped in and them reaching out to other systems to befriend and what not

Then we collectively talk about making friends together because both systems struggle with BPD and RSD, while also confirming that we aren't wanting other system partners but just system friends or friends in General

Then we both tweet out about it as a silly little haha before suddenly two collectives whom are also partner systems reach out like "Hey us too"

and nOW WERE KINDA MAKING FRIENDS BUT US (as in the Haunt) IS AFRAID AND WANTS TO THROW UP IN A /POSI WAY BUT OUR AVPD IS ACTING UP SO WE HIDE BEHIND OUR PARTNER SYSTEM because we love them are they're more "socially equipped" for this stuff--