#bi visability

[robynochs]

So this tweet made me very happy, especially because Tania is a brilliant badass bisexual, and because Lauren Beach and Sara Ramirez are two of my favorite people. 

[xfifiartstuffx20]

So for The Heist DLC, the people working on Black Cat's character are going to be taking like 95% of their inspiration from a select few of the marvel comics, right?

I swear to god if they make Black Cat bisexual in the game I will be the happiest person in the fucking world

[dollypartons95theses]

Bi visibility day

Or as i like to think of it the one day a year that i am not allowed to use my super invisibility powers and spy on my enemies and scare the shit out of them

[lexyelove]

Feeling myself today

[angebisoux]

💖💜💙!!!

[persephnoe]

It’s bi visibility day so you get to see me before I go invisible again. 💗💜💙

[aralclown]

HOLY SHIT ITS BI VISABILITY DAY

@yukithebadarist

[xshe-survivesx-blog]

My bisexuality

Hey guys, so in case you didn't know, I am a bisexual female. So, here is a little blog post about how I discovered my sexuality, and came to terms with it.

Even as a little girl I found girls attractive. To be honest, I'm pretty sure I fancied girls before boys. I remember my mother and older sister talking about all these hot guys with ripped abs and sparkling eyes, and how they would drool over their shirtless pictures, and I just didn't find it pleasing to look at. I did not find them attractive.

At this time I was in my last couple years of primary school, (For those of you who aren't from the UK I was around 10 or 11 years old) and all of my friends started dating boys, and I was not interested in the slightest, which did lead to insults of 'freak' or people calling me a lesbian. (I guess they caught on to my gayness before I did!!) This really used to upset me, and I even made up a fake crush on a boy just so they would leave me alone but I found the whole situation embarrassing and awkward, I'm pretty sure when I was around this age I only had 1 real crush on a boy, but I was mostly still interested in just playing games and having fun more than relationships.

After leaving primary school, as I got older, I did start to become more romantically interested in guys, I dated a guy for the first time at just 14 which only went as far as hugging and shy kisses and only lasted 2 weeks (we ended up being really good friends as we got older and still laugh about our little relationship now.) I then went on to date 2 other guys later on in my teen years which is when I started becoming sexually active and realised yeah okay guys are fab and I am attracted to them, neat!

BUT WAITTTT, after these relationships ended THE BIG GAY REALISATION BEGAN!!

I started to watch LGBT youtubers such as Doddleoddle, AmandasChronicles etc. and discovered the song 'Girls like Girls' by Hayley Kiyoko (give it a listen it's a beautiful song!) and something within me started to click.

I related to these people.

I knew I was sexually attracted to girls but I didn't feel that romantically interested in them. I developed a little crush on a girl in my classes but just thought it was because I wanted to be friends with her more. This was not the case.

After leaving school I met a bunch of new people at college, and all of them were gay. We are all now best buds and they are the coolest people ever. Being friends with them made me realise I belonged in their community and the more I started to question myself.

I chatted with some of them about it and they gave me advice and explained that the way I felt towards girls probably did mean I was bisexual. One of my friends made me watch a lesbian film and got me into a bunch of gay stuff to see if I enjoyed it and I did.

I took some time to get used to it and accept my sexuality, I came out to my circle of gay friends first because obviously I knew they would accept me.

I then came out to my boyfriend who took it pretty well, he did kinda sexualise the fact I liked girls, which I put straight and told him not to and we sorted it out and now he really doesn't mind!

I then came out to my older sister who did not take it well at first, saying it was 'weird' and questioned if I really loved my boyfriend. (Of course I do, my sexuality does not change that!!) She eventually too has accepted it and apologised for how she originally reacted.

And as for my parents... well I haven't told them yet! I am planning to come out to my mother as soon as I can, but at the same time, I am not going to rush.

So here's some tips and advice:

- You do not have to come out EVER if you don't want to/ you don't have to come out to everyone. There are some people in my life that I simply won't tell because I don't feel the need to, and that's okay!

- Being bisexual does not mean you are greedy, twice as likely to cheat or in a phase/ making it up for attention. BE PROUD.

- Being a bisexual female dating a man does not make you any less bi. The same goes for bisexual males to be dating girls etc etc.

-  If someone does not take it well when you come out to them, stay away from them for  while and give them space, they may eventually realise they were an asshole and come to terms with it. If your parents don't take it well, you will always find support somewhere I promise. Talk to friends, family or teachers etc that you can trust, never be afraid to ask for help.

So yeah that's about it. I'm totally in love with Hayley Williams and Cole Sprouse and that is totally fine my friends.

Rachel x