#biace

[andykrumbs]

I'm bi romantic and asexual. so I'm bi/ace. in other words I'm based.

[lucretiaslitthenetherland]

Bi pride kougra

[pastelcheckereddreams]

That random battery post has made me realise I’m followed by several other biace people and it makes me very happy 💜💗🤍🖤

[stickythings]

So I started dating another Ace. I found them on one of those Asexual dating websites ✌️

Thing is, we're only 4 months in, and I've discovered I love hand holding, love a very thorough cuddle in bed, and even like the feeling in the middle of the night of his hard dick pulsing lol, even gave explicit invitation for some boob touching.

But kissing, now! Wow do I get fucking shy. And so I've discovered my level of intimacy has Kissing at the top (so far) I think it may be my 'sex'. I can't get passed a quick peck on the lips. I just can't cause gawd I might combust. I've said he'll need to initiate if he wants to be more intimate because I'm so shy. And he's the experienced one. And he's been perfectly patent and slow, but still.

I'm discovering how I view intimacy and what my own levels are. Thought I'd share.

[umaacequaseforadoarmario]

o “A” em LGBTQIA+

Eu costumo dizer sempre “LGBT” em vez de “LGBTQ+” ou “LGBTQIA” e semelhantes, pensando que tipo, só tô falando quatro siglas mas o resto tá englobado ali. Aí agora eu leio “LGBTQIA+” e o A de assexual ali me deixa feliz e emocionada, até com vontade de aderir à sigla expandida. Porém olha a hipocrisia: quando me identificava só com o B de bi, tudo certo em parar nos primeiros quatro dígitos, mas agora que abracei a ace em mim bate uma vontadezinha de me validar mais escrevendo LGBTQIA+. E aí não sei se é mais grave continuar falando só LGBT pra mostrar que isso não é só sobre mim ou falar LGBTQIA+ e explicitar a hipocrisia na cara de pau. Na verdade falar só LGBT deixa de validar outras pessoas que não só eu também, mesmo que se saiba que há outras identidades dentro do famoso “LGBT”, invisíveis ali (e isso não é muito legal). Às vezes bate forte a sensação de que a gente tá meio que no início disso tudo, de decidir nomenclaturas, siglas e bandeiras de orientações sexuais/afetivas/românticas.

[thepoetjean-makes-stuff]

Bought this shirt off of @kiriska's Redbubble. Honestly one of my best loved tshirts now. Makes me feel both spoopy AND recognized. #tshirt #skulls #flowers #biace #writerlife #blackgirlmagic https://www.instagram.com/p/CFuMz3BD-nl/?igshid=178y1abknmrc6

[aroaceconfessions]

Is it weird that ever since I came out as bi-ace, I've been way more romantically attracted to girls than guys? I mean, before everything went down, I would maybe crush on a girl, but it was usually guys I fell for/connected with/made myself to sleep with even if I didnt want to. Now, it seems like I'm only looking at girls--or at least one in particular, who's the same as me and I cant get her out of my head! Talking to her constantly puts me on Cloud 9. Anyone else ever had this happen?

[aroaceconfessions]

i really don't understand why me coming out as asexual is "too permanent" but me coming out as biromantic is "just a phase". like can yall make up ur minds???