#bimisogyny

[saintgoodlove]

i don't want to HEAR shit like "see this wouldn't have happened if she dated a woman" regarding the megan thee stallion and klay thompson thing. i am so sick of biphobes and misogynists blaming victimized women for what their shitty partners do to them!! genuinely weird behavior to see a woman suffering and be like "i can fix her though, i can treat her right." this isn't about you!!!! her being bisexual isn't about you and her abusers!!! you are not showing her support by sexualizing her!!! stop moralizing sexualities right fucking now she doesn't owe you anything!!!

[moonlightsapphic]

[biphobiaarchive]

it really is crazy to me how much biphobia and misogyny intersect

[meerawrites]

That and because bi men are deemed nonexistent or invisible by society, one can never trust a biphobe or antisemite to state something that is true as such facts take away their ability to generalize about people and silence people and their system would implode under any rational or objective scrutiny.

[transcockiness]

one day i will make a post about bimisogyny and transmisogyny my girlfriends and friends and community members have experienced and it will unfortunately probably be read in extremely bad faith so can we all promise to be kind to bi and straight trans women

[moonlightsapphic]

The overwhelming reaction from the sapphic internet to Maya Hawke’s sponteneous wedding to a guy has been “Huh, thought she was a lesbian, my bad and congrats!” and the thing is (if I may be allowed to speculate based on the work she’s put out), she probably likes girls, too. Whatever her specific sexual orientation is, she decided to keep it private, and good for her. There was no way it was going to be good PR for her to come out as queer, engage in all this sapphic media, and then marry a cis dude. She knows how people react to that these days. It’s bad. Nobody cares what the literal definition of bisexuality is, they only care to blame the entire existance of homophobia and lesbophobia on the existance of bisexuals, especially bi women, just living their personal lives.

The sad part is, the internet gays are nicer and more accepting towards straight women than they are to bi women, who are seen as fence-sitting traitors to queerness, giving men the idea that lesbians are available to them, and closet tradwives that only perform queerness to queerbait. And the cost of that is this deliberate reduction in bi rep because publicly coming out as bi isn’t worth it. Tell me again how further erasing and marginalising bisexuals wasn’t the intention all along.