#birthgiver

[poorunfortunatesolanin]

Can I celebrate Mother’s Day if all my children are fictional?

[ouch-thats-harsh]

My birthgiver did the sin of putting RICE FLAKES IN MY COFFEE

woman what the fuck do you mean it tastes good?? it tastes like wet paper and my coffee tastes dusty

[lilvampyuwu]

On my birthgivers 'mother's' day card since I was forced to write something and sign it, I wrote this:

"Its child ovens day!" And then in japanese symbols I put "go to hell"

Is that a bit harsh? Nope! Shes not my mother.

Just because someone gave birth to you doesn't mean they're your mother. No, they have to BE a mother they aren't just magically your mother. They are your birth giver unless they've been there for you. My birth giver has been there and raised me, but shes not my mother because mothers care for their child, they dont hurt their children. They dont abuse their children. She lost that title the minute she decided to put herself first and hit me and talk shit to me.

Anyway. She knows I'm trans and knows what I prefer but she said she wont consider me a guy as in pronouns wont be used and she wont call me a man or her son. But she uses my preferred name. Sooooo I signed the bottom of it:

Your SON, Valcon

[dumbass-thoughts]

Fussy

Everyone insists I'm fussy cause I dont eat a big variety. People say I'm fussy cause I order everything plain. I dont eat tomatoes or onions or mushrooms or peppers. But I'm not fussy.

I have sensory issues. Certain texture make me want to throw up or essentially short circuit. I dont mind the taste of many things. The texture just overwhelms me. I get things plain because too many different textures overwhelm me. I'm not fussy.

When I was younger birth giver tried to get me used to tomatoes. She made me eat a whole tomato a day for 10 days because she read somewhere that it works. I still cant eat them and everyday I'd eat the tomatoes in the bathroom to prevent throwing up everywhere like I did on day one. She still insists I'm fussy. I'm not fussy.

Eating certain things feels equivalent to hearing nails on a chalk board while others are fine, others make me gag, others make me throw up, others make me cry and others overwhelm my senses. I'm not normal. I'm treated like a fussy toddler even though I'm 17.

What you get is what you eat. The amount of times I had to run away from the dinner table to throw up or scrape the sensations off my tongue only to come back and do it again because it was on my plate. The amount of times I pretended I was sick to avoid dinner. The amount of tears spilt before dinner because I knew what was coming is honestly horribly sad. I'm not fussy.

This is just how I was born.

[edwing]

(Birthgiver)

All of you must listen to ‘Crash Down’ by Birthgiver  #SoundCloud #np

[coldstreetpavement]

Why must you be so naive

[decolonisefest]

New bands added: Birthgiver & Immigranti

Following our announcement about Anatomy and Crystal Axis not being able to play this year’s festival, we are pleased to announce that Birthgiver and Immigranti will instead be joining us. Get your tickets for the 2019 Decolonise Fest. Support our crowdfunder to bring Weedrat (Albuquerque) to the festival.

[dateademisexualpersonwho]

Hey

I’m not gonna be posting today, and if I do, it’ll be very minimal. I got kicked out by my mom last night and it’s just...all sorta sinking in. I’m staying at a friend’s house now, so I’ll be able to get back to this soon. -mod Jay