hello! i wanted to ask you something. i always thought of myself as straight, but a while ago i developed a crush on this girl, and i was super confused because i’ve never thought of girls that way. i’ve looked at boys and thought they were attractive, but never for girls. i never looked at a random girl on the street and thought, ‘oh she’s cute.’ but i got a crush on this girl in my class??? and i know i’m not demi because that girl was never close to me. can i have some advice?
Hi,
So this is way more common than you realise. You’re probably bi with a preference for males. Like I always say being bisexual isn’t a 50/50 split down the middle. You can have any type of attraction ratio to identify as bi as long as you’re attracted to two genders.
Being demiromantic or Demisexual doesn’t necessary have much to do with the gender of the person more so to do with in what way you’re attracted to them.
A demiromantic would be a person who is romantically attracted to somebody after getting to know them after a while and a demisexual person is somebody who experiences sexual attracted after getting to know someone deeply after a while.
Hope this helped!
- Lola
