How many bad OKC opening messages are you allowed to send before you're forced to die alone?

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How many bad OKC opening messages are you allowed to send before you're forced to die alone?
nos últimos tempos me atrivui alguns diagnósticos algumas vezes. e aí depois bate culpa tipo ah to pesquisando sobre esse diagnóstico pra tentar me entender, mas to me apropriando pq nao tenho.
mas pensando aqui, diagnósticos psiquiátricos têm semelhanças entre si. tipo padrões de funcionamento, etc.. n quer dizer q tenho todo diagnóstico com que me identifico. mas que tem algo que a galera que tá falando sobre as próprias experiências de se relacionar com as pessoas que ta me ajudando a entender minhas próprias experiências. e pq não? tipo não preciso entrar numa caixa diagnóstica e esperar que só aquele nome vai ser suficiente pra traduzir formas """disfuncionais""" ou sla sofridas msm de lidar e agir.
I have loved you from the start
They [borderliners] express affection more readily and can be very playful and intoxicating companions. But everything they do for/towards the other is experienced by them as deeply symbolic and almost sacred. It is utterly devastating for them to realise that the other person might not want what they are being offered, and might fear being engulfed, because they don’t know what to offer instead. That’s all they’ve got. They also can’t see that the intensity of their ‘love’ actually obliterates their partner’s humanity, which is what makes it not-love.
Danielle Murray