Yeah like a note to Kat's followers on this whole thing: I'm a very thorough person, and I don't fuck around with the mental, physical and legal well-being of my friends.
Kat is physically and legally safe. The threat right now is to her mental well-being. And one of the ways this plays out is through anxiety about whether she is in fact physically and legally safe.
So it would be extremely helpful for y'all to trust us on the safety question here. We have taken precautions and we have made judgements based in the full picture of the situation, much of which should not be shared here in a public forum.
Kat is safe, the only way left for this guy to hurt her and cause trouble is through how this is triggering her own anxiety and potentially paranoia. And obviously through the loss of what seemed like a potentially good long term relationship.
So while I'm sure any advice about legal and physical safety comes from a place of care, please trust that we in Kat's immediate support network have made sure that she is not in any danger beyond the emotional ramifications.
Also fuck this guy. "Communist" my ass. Didn't take long before he started threatening about how his dad's millions in the bank meant he could buy any lawyer and win and ruin his disabled working class girlfriend's life. First off, that's not even fucking something he can do, but he sure can use it to threaten a less privileged person, and the 'rich kid throwing a tantrum' vibe is strong. Pathetic. I'm so happy my other friend asked this guy "so how does it work to be a nepotism baby AND a communist??"
Turns out, at least for this guy, it doesn't. It's all just fancy words. What a loser.
This is my best friend Quinn who I'm currently staying with. Please listen to him, because telling me how I'm in serious danger and how you think I should deal with it isn't helpful.

















