#complex identities

[transmascpolls]

Transmascs: do you feel like you fit cleanly/clearly into one of the two labels “binary” and “nonbinary”?

Yes, I fit clearly into the label binary

Yes, I fit clearly into the label nonbinary

No, I don’t fit cleanly into the label, but I DO still use the label binary

No, I don’t fit cleanly into the label, but I DO still use the label nonbinary

No, I don’t fit into nor do I use either label

I sometimes identify as binary or nonbinary, but other times I do not

Unsure / I don’t know / I’m questioning

Other answer / it’s complicated

See results / not transmasc

Voting ended onDec 16, 2025

[polygamousfistingchaos]

Complexpunk

For anyone who has a complex identity and thinks anyone who doesn't support them can fuck off.

This includes:

- M-spec gays, lesbians, enbians, etc

- Xenogender users

- Gaybians

- Lesboys/Turigirls

- Label and gender hoarders

- Cuspers (people who are between cis and trans)

- Gendered agender people

- Transfemmasc people

and more

Other variations + symbol

[clownrecess]

I love being a gay, uranic, multipluralic trans boy. I love being greysexual and cupiosexual at the same time. I love hoarding xenogenders. I love being a rainbow of intersectional identities all wrapped into one glorious queer being. Every single inch of my identity is queer in a beautifully complex way. From the strands of my hair to the tips of my toes, queerness courses through every fiber of my being. It's in the way I walk, breathe, and hold myself with unapologetic pride. It's in the way I dress, the art I create, and the spaces I occupy.

[dddissociation]

⚠️ This identity has been reclaimed from a bigot who actively fakeclaims other systems ⚠️

Complexpunk

For anyone who has a complex identity and thinks anyone who doesn't support them can fuck off.

This includes:

• Non-traumagenic systems/Non-disordered systems

• Otherkin

• Therians

• Mspec gays/lesbians

• Gaybians

• Lesboys/Turigirls

• Xenogender

• Label and gender hoarders

• Cuspers (on the cusp between cisgender and transgender)

• Gendered agender

• Transmascfem(neu)

This does NOT include:

• Exclusionists

• Gatekeeprs

• Seperatists

• Reactionaries

08/31/23 ~ 10:40 P.M.

[cericertain]

my thing is why are people bitching about honeybees and coffee beans NOW? this has existed for so long (not the specific language, the experience),, like people wuz being trans while "not changing" (whatever the fuck that means) since like 2016 (earliest i saw it),

the only difference is back then when people believed these transmed/truscum/etc beliefs they'd admit to it..

[restarting-over]

HEY MSPEC LESBIANS.. do cats like you?

cats love me!

cats like me

cats tolerate me

cats don't like me

cats hate me

not an mspec les / see results

Voting ended onJun 18, 2023

please reblog i need to know MWAHAHA

[mogaiminty]

[Krossgender] Someone with a queer and complex sense/experience with gender who: 1.Feels as if they are like one gender that identifies as another gender. 2.Identifies as one gender but experiences another gender. 3.Is one gender but has a very strong connection to another gender up to a point where they almost identify as it.

4.Can only be one gender through the context of/being another gender

Note: It can also be used a gender modality

[clownrecess]

I want to talk more about my sexuality, because whilst gender is something I've covered quite a few times, I've always been more brief with my sexuality.

I am greysexual and cupiosexual, which arent things I want to go into detail about, however if you google the definition of both, that's what I am. I am also homosexual.

As for romantic attraction, I have quite a bit to say. I am a gay boy, meaning I like other boys. I also use the term uranic, which for me means I am a gender nonconforming person who likes both boys and other gender nonconforming people (we also use both the uranic and gay man flag, but primarily the gay man flag.). Both of those things are rather easy to understand, so why am I making a post? Because along with being a uranic gay, I am also gaybian. "But-- I thought you only like non-women??". Yeah.. mostly. MOSTLY ALL of our system is gay or uranic, so we use those labels. But not all of us are, and quite a good portion of our splits in the last seven or so months are lesbians.

Collectively, we only like non-women, so no, we arent bi. Our lesbian alters and a lot of our mspec alters do like women though, and that's an experience specific to them. We don't like men and women at the same time. We collectively like non-women, but some of us don't. Those two identities are separate. They are not the same. We are not bi, nor are we pan.