Dont wait til you feel perceivably androgynous "enough" to dress up or down to your hearts content or intermix things you like that are seen as "boy/girl" specific or be loud about respecting and using your unconventional name and pronouns because dysphoria is a bitch and that day of feeling "enough" might never come if you keep waiting for a sign that you're allowed to start being yourself, to stop wanting to please people with rigid views of what gender is "supposed" to look like















